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About sepho1992
I am no longer looking. I have met someone who excites me and calms me. Someone who leads me and walks beside me. He is much more than I had hoped for and I consider myself a very, very lucky girl. He is Neo and I'm proud to say that I am his.
I apologize to those who will be disappointed with this news, but hope that you can also be happy for me. I would still love to meet new people. If you are local, then please join the local BDSM community for coffee on Thursdays in Tempe, Arizona. I would love to see you there and give you a hug!
sepho
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Old Profile
I am new and I want a real-life relationship.
Attractive. Ph.D Engineer. 5'3”, 145 pounds 34D bust. Womanly/Curvy/Figure-8 body. Very humorous, very intelligent and very creative.
If you are married and you don't want your wife to know - then pass me up. Also, my profile says, maybe relocate. That means within the southwest and only if we've decided on a long-term relationship.
I'm a domineering woman by day, but in the bedroom? I have never been anybody's sub before.
I want a very strong dominant. I want you to make me yours. I am looking for a long-term relationship with a real life Dom who lives close by. I want my introduction to BDSM to be a deliciously slow process - so if you aren't close, you are likely to rush me during infrequent visits.
I do not like pain. I am into the BD part of BDSM, not the SM part. Later on, I might want to explore sensual pain, but if you are a sadist, then I am not for you.
The strongest dominant in a room is not the one that can only dominate the weakest. If you need me to be weak and submissive 24/7, in public, or around your vanilla friends, then you are not strong enough or confident enough to dominate me.
Since I'm new to this, the first question I face is "what am I looking for" I'm not completely sure, but I know where I want to start. Bondage and domination at a level that both you and I agree is good for me. Not too tame and not too scary.
I communicate clearly, honestly, calmly and logically. I will respond best to someone who can and will do the same with me. If your primary form of getting upset is to blow up and go into a tirade, then pass me by
I have limited my answers to my BDSM interests to things that I want to start with. I am interested in many things, but I would like to be comfortable in a long-term relationship before I try some things.
I have become overwhelmed by the number of people I am meeting and the amount that I am learning. I am very excited about starting - but that excitement could cloud my judgment. Since I don't want the start of my exploration of this lifestyle to go badly, I need to go slowly and choose wisely. If you want to rush me, then you don't understand me and shouldn't be my Dom anyways.
This is not a test, trick or contest to see who can pressure me into deciding. This is a boundary that I have set. If you can't respect it, then please pass me by. We will go slowly - NO PLAY until you formally ask for my submission and I formally accept it.
If you live in Arizona, I invite you to come talk to me at munches. I am also open to meeting in public to talk individually, but only after we have chatted, IM-ed, and talked on the phone for a bit.
sepho
My Ideal Person:
Someone who lives relatively close and is highly intelligent, creative, humourous, cultured, and patient. Someone who is very comfortable with me being a strong woman in the vanilla world. If you don't fit this, please pass me by.
I would also like someone who isn't carrying a lot of extra weight. It's shallow, I know, but I have to be honest.
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Comments about Doms or Dominant Couples wanting to get to know me.
If you have a one or two sentence profile, then you are going to have to tell me a whole lot more about yourself.
I have put some effort into making my profile something that is a first step in learning about me. I am not a particularly eloquent person. I smile to myself when I read it and see how much the style changes from paragraph to paragraph. Sometimes I get compliments, but I know it's not because it is particularly well-written, but because it reveals much about me - which I think is a good thing.
I don't understand people who can't be bothered to put more than a few lines or people who ramble with no care for spelling, grammar, or the reader's comprehension. Some make the excuse that they don't want to be discovered. It's not like your neighbor is going to read a paragraph in your profile and shout to his wife, "Hey honey, look at this profile. It must be Joe Smith from across the street. I'd recognize his philosophy about a Master/slave relationship anywhere!"
If you don't have much written in your profile, then when you email me, please do me the favor of telling me a lot more about yourself before you ask me for more information about me. I will make an effort to get to know people, but only with those that are willing to met me half way. |
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