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Female Submissive, 29, alpharetta, Georgia
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About Selinda
I'm mostly a masochist looking for play partners and friends. I'll answer almost any question if you ask - provided you tell me a little about yourself first.
I love playing in the realm where pleasure and pain conflate and either or both can hold me in the throes of orgasm - that's where I find my sub-space. I'm into pain for pleasure, not for suffering, and humiliation (including being called names) does nothing for me. I'm also not a bondage bunny. If we go to a place where I've collapsed into tears, that's all well and good, but it's not something to plan as our goal.
I'm learning more about what I want by communicating with the people I've been meeting here and elsewhere. You should know that I'm happily married to a wonderful vanilla woman and she knows what I do and who I do it with. Many of my favorite experiences have been with strong butch women, but I also love playing with the right man. You should be very comfortable in your own skin. (I'll just say this again since so many people seem to miss it the first time:) I'll answer almost any question if you ask - provided you tell me a little about yourself first.
I'm aware that this might lose me dates with some perfectly charming people, but I am quite fond of the English language and simply hate to see it poorly used. (Appropriate and knowledgeable abuse of the language, on the other hand, will likely be enjoyed.) If you don't, at the very least, understand how to use a spelling checker and some of the basics of grammar and punctuation I can tell you upfront that we aren't going to be a good match. I appreciate your understanding.
While I'm looking for someone local, I'm open to other possibilities but am only interested if in-person meetings are possible. I am not the least bit interested in cybersex, phone sex, Skype, internet chats, or seduction in 160 characters or less.
ATTENTION: If anyone can tell me why we think that that Sydney University, or any other august body, has any interest in cribbing from our profiles, I'd be glad to learn it - otherwise, I call bullshit. Furthermore, warnings placed in your profile do NOT give you any more protections or remedies than are already provided by law. I suggest, if you're so inclined, that you add this to your profile. |
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How do I politely say to someone "Your misuse of the English language has gotten on my nerves and I don't want to read anything else from you, ever"? Ah, I guess that's exactly how... |
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Life here is full of unexpected pleasures. Things on CollarMe always seem to be either feast or famine, and at the moment I am very much enjoying a marvelous feast, even emus (as guests, not dinner). Who could have expected that? |
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I'm still here, and looking for interesting people to play with. I've enjoyed the people I've met here (somewhat to my surprise). If you find my profile entertaining, please drop me a line. |
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Life is good! I've been reallying enjoying our conversations here and getting to know some delightful new people. I know, I know, it sounds trite, but so many people b*tch about CM and almost all of my experiences have been good ones. Keep 'em coming! :-) |
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If you specialize in reading what a bottom needs then what this bottom needs is you! Can you be confident, not tentative? Firm but also delicate? I'm so hungry for someone who can handle me right...
I'm pickier than I thought I was, but I'm still willing to believe that you're out here. I can find a fuckbuddy anywhere, but I need more than that.
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I must admit that I'm a little disheartened by the number of men here whose *only* BDSM experience seems to involve giving a nice spanking. Not that there's anything wrong with a spanking, y'unnerstand, but I need a little more than that to make me sing... and there's only so much teaching I'm willing to do.
I don't want someone whose fetish involves beating me bloody, but I DO want a man who knows which end of a flogger is which. |
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