Why is it that no matter how long I've been away from the lifestyle, when I return I always end up with some message that goes into great detail of how I am a piece of meat?  These types of emails just make me want to withdrawl and go back into my vanilla world.   

I just got to say, that I HATE to judge.  I must remind myself and perhaps others need to be reminded that everyone is different.  We are who we are, but everyone's NORMAL varies.  Please respect the fact that I am human and do have feelings. 

NOT all submissive women/men are slaves.  It is not up to me to judge how each of us wishes to be referenced, but AGAIN, do not place a label on me because you have NO clue who I am.  Not everyone who is submissive wishes to be physically abused.