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secretsins31602

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About secretsins31602

First, let me say this: I am ONLY interested in BLACK (African American) men OR women. NO interracial couples (i.e. black man and woman of another race or black woman and man of another race) or white men or women (no exceptions). If you choose to show your lack of respect, as well as, lack of ability to read by emailing me, requesting me as a friend, or contacting me in any manner, you will be blocked and your message(s) will be DELETED without response. Simply put, "I don't do white people". Don't be offended. Just accept that everyone has their own preferences!

Now that that is done...

I am an attractive plus sized/full figured/bbw submissive (non lifestyle...i used to be a lifestyle sub, but things have changed...i am STILL submissive, but in a somewhat different capacity...please ask if you're interested in me expanding on this) African American female. I am a very intelligent, educated, driven (family, career, and goal) oriented woman. If you are troubled by women with the previous characteristics, I am not for you, as I am not willing to "dumb down". Submission does not equate to dumbing down. I am also intrigued by those that can challenge me intellectually. I am not as submissive as I once was due to the fact that I strayed far far far away from this "lifestyle". I'm not totally sure what I'm looking for or even want at the time...I don't even know if I really want/need anything. I may be looking for someone to pull me back into myself...so to speak. I'm not certain.? I do prefer those between the ages of 28 and 45. (However I am NOT opposed to being contacted by those outside of this age range!) I also travel a good bit within the state of Georgia (mostly to the Atlanta area) and the Jacksonville, FL area.?

If nothing else, I do hope to meet and mingle with good people and make friends. I wish everyone well in their search.

*Oh, and I do have photos to exchange.*
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Headed back to the Atlanta area...looking for interesting, like-minded people to hang with. Feel free to get in touch. 

If you don't like my journal entries here is a novel idea: DON'T READ THEM! I don't recall soliciting opinions. Now...as you were.

Yes, I do think that Black men are superior to other races. Gotta problem with that??? Who gives a damn!!!

Better late than never.... HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!

headed back to atlanta, again...

loooooong weekend in atlanta...what's the suggested thing to do here???

in macon on business...but i've already got the weekend itch...and i'm heading north to find...whatever finds me ;)

in orlando for a couple days...enjoying myself. :)

in atlanta for the weekend...looking for fun, excitement, and most of all...trouble! lol...

headed to atlanta for my birthday weekend. i predict a weekend of troooouuubbblllleee! lol.

so, it's a friday night at 10pm and i'm watching a dateline story on a BDSM murder...interesting...very interesting...

getting the itch. i need something new, interesting, and exciting...*sigh*

so...this month i turn the big 3-0...what shall i do with myself...???

what's there to do around here tonight? (here as in the atlanta/duluth/gwinnett/lawrenceville area...??? kinda bored just hanging out in my hotel room...

so...i'm off to the atlanta area on business next week...maybe i'll find something interesting/fun. probably not though...guess we'll see soon enough...

i find myself becoming more and more disinterested...

how i'm seriously tiring of this website and the people on it. nothing and no one interesting. smh.

smh. thoroughly disappointed in florida state tonight...*sigh*

looks like tonight is the last time i'll be in jacksonville, fl for a loooooong time...

Headed back to Jacksonville, FL soon...

PLEASE do not send me senseless "one liners" like "How are you doing?" or "Hello." Those find their way into the "deleted" pile.

i think semi nude pictures are erotic for whatever reason... ;)

there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with utilizing the "spell check" feature.

jacksonville beach for the next couple days...*relaxing*

*sigh* how i tire of these unintelligent, idiotic emails i receive. *rolls eyes*

it's been a long time coming...but it. is. finished! :) now a member of the elite 5% of americans...

over the age of 45?? please do not send me messages.

bored on a saturday night...*sigh*...not cool :(

in jacksonville, fl for a concert. it was AWESOME! had a great time. it was well worth the trip! :)

it amazes me that people do not know what common respect/courtesy is. smh.

So I extended my vacation one additional day...and I'm glad I did. The sun, sand, and water were much needed. So...looks like I'm a black girl with a tan...lol. Nonetheless, back to the real world tomorrow...*sigh*.

Had a great time in Jacksonville, in some ways...in others...it was somewhat of a bust...ah well. We can't always get everything we want...

Really enjoying my time away. Sun, sand, and ocean. I'm so relaxed.

Headed to Jacksonville Beach for my vacation...I can't wait to get out of here! 5 days of sun, sand, and ocean. I can dig it! :)

labor day weekend has been great! i love spending my long weekends at the beach. *sigh* too bad i've got to head back home tomorrow...
wishes people would proofread their emails. it should NOT take me 5 minutes to read/decipher a 5 sentence message from you. i don't do well with ebonics and/or street lingo either. so please, if you email me, please at least use standard english so i'm not sitting here forever (seemingly) trying to figure out what you're saying to me. that is all.
wonders how can a person determine if they're potentially interested in you if your profile is empty or only consists of the information that's listed in the basic profile info section, like age, height, weight, and race? substance goes a long way. just something to think about!
wonders how can a Dom list himself as straight on his profile, but in his profile he's seeking submissive men or transsexuals for bedroom and non bedroom service? don't fake the funk...if you're seeking a male, you're either bisexual or homosexual. be who you are. if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quack like a duck, it's a DUCK! no one really cares if you're straight, bi, or gay...just stop lying to yourself. you'll find that you're much happier when you call it exactly what it is! sheesh! besides, any heterosexual female that reads your profile will immediately go the other way, regardless of rather you list yourself as "straight". just sayin'...
desperately seeking something to do...
had a ball...but alas...all good things must come to an end. home sweet home!?
leaving the atlanta area tomorrow...it's been fun, though! :)
is still amused by the "Doms" (notice the quotation marks) on this website. and yes, i'm laughing AT you. :)
my mind feels like it's about to turn to mush! i've been vigorously preparing for the LSAT (law school admissions test) for the last few weeks...and the test isn't until Oct. i don't know how i'm going to make it if i feel like this now, and it's barely mid june. 4 months and counting...i can do this...at least i think i can! (lol) just a mini vent. have a good day CM people...
is headed back to the beach...jacksonville beach. i need a mini getaway. sun and sand, here i come!
is intrigued and tickled at the fact that a submissive sent me an email saying "if you are not owned, email me back and let's get this process stated...i would be more than happy to be your Domme." seriously???? the people on collarme find new and exciting ways to crack me up daily!?
proofreading and correcting mistakes in your profile really improves your profile and it makes me think you're intelligent and articulate; however, not doing so makes me question your intelligence. i am very well educated, articulate and intelligent and only associate with those that are the same...(no offense if any was caused).
it's the weekend...i have nothing to do which means i'm going to be very bored :(...
my birthday was great. i love feeling so loved! :)
so...it's my birthday...enough said, i suppose.
is consistently amazed by those that contact me with simple minded messages. additionally, do they even READ the profile before sending a message? here is an example of the silliness:

Message from bigblackdaddy911:
"how you doing sweetheart?have you ever been with a black man?and have you ever had a big black master cock like this is it to big for you?tell me what you think about it?"
(this is the exact message as i received it)

these are the types of messages i do not reply to AND the types of profiles i block. please stop all you wanna-be's!
is so amused by some of the profiles (Dom/Domme/sub and slave) i've read. LOL! what an amusing way to pass a rainy saturday afternoon. comical!?
is back from vacation. back to reality... :(
is in jacksonville beach for the week on vacation...nothing like relaxing. *sigh* :)
home sweet home. thanks to all of you that i 'met' along my trip. :) you made it pleasant.?
tired of traveling....sleeping in macon tonight and tomorrow night....whew! thank goodness for comfy hotel beds!
i'm tired. good and tired. i'm moving forward. period. happiness, here i come!
wonders why the same people keep viewing my profile, yet don't speak/send messages. is there something here that catches your attention? hmmmm....
i'm excited. one chapter has closed. another is beginning. i'm constantly progressing toward my ultimate career goal.
several here have shown me that dominance equals rudeness and lacking basic manners and etiquette that i'm sure you're parents taught you. go figure.
hates when someone who has a profile on collarme (or any website for that matter) and it's empty. what is that about? is it too mind consuming for someone to fill out a profile? it makes me wonder if you're actually here just playing around or hunting for a kinky booty call...hmm. oh, if this journal entry applies to you...PLEASE do not send me a message.?
i'd like to thank EVERYONE that sent me birthday wishes a huge THANK YOU! i appreciate the thought. :) it was a pretty good birthday...i'm just glad to see another year...because we all know someone didn't make it. thanks again. smooches!
it is upon me again. may 19th...the day i entered the world. i cannot believe how fast 365 days pass. i'm just blessed to see another year.
wow....i cant believe how quickly 365 days pass...in less than 25 hours i'll be yet another year older...
sooooo...i had to postpone my beach weekend. BUT i AM going this weekend (april 23-26) come hell or high water! at least after all this work i have to do this coming week, that'll give me something to look forward to! yaaaaaaaay!!!! 4 days and counting! jacksonville beach here i come!
yaaay! i'm going back to the beach...well, not today...lol...but in about 3 weeks. i thoroughly enjoyed my time on jacksonville beach at the oceanfront hotel, i've decided to return. i'm really looking forward to it... :)
*sigh* so i'm back home. jacksonville beach was great! the oceanfront hotel was even better. but...i'm back in valdosta. i wish i could've stayed a couple more days, but i really needed to reintergrate myself back into the "real world". i swear, the real world is SOOOOOOOOOOO over rated. *shrugs* back to being regular...
i'm sad. really sad. tomorrow i must return to the real world. i'm gonna have to wave goodbye to this oceanfront hotel, leisurely days, and being stretched out under an umbrella on the beach.? *whining* i don't wanna gooooooo!!! (thank goodness jacksonville beach isn't too far from valdosta...so i guess i could come back whenever)...but i still don't wanna go!
life is good. real good right now. just sitting here at the beach on the balcony of my hotel, enjoying the breeze, people watching, and finally relaxing. too bad i don't have company...ah well. it's all good nonetheless! toodles.
Ahhhh! It's almost time. Almost time for me to get outta here. Atlanta and Jacksonville Beach, here I come. I really need this time away! Might have to get a lil crazy...lol. Well, maybe not TOO crazy. Ciao!
so i changed my mind. after the last couple weeks i've had, i deserve to change my mind...lol. i'm still going to atlanta on mar 12 & 13, but i decided i think i wanna go hang out at the beach for a couple days...so that's what i'm gonna do. when i leave atlanta early saturday morning, i'm not passing 'go', i'm not collecting $200. i'm driving directly to jacksonville beach, checking into a hotel on the beach, and that's where i will rest my mind and body for at least 48 hours. *ahhh* i can't wait! and yes, i'm always up for company! ;)
always on the go it seems...will be back in atlanta on march 12-14 then in tallahassee march 15 and 16...i need rest.
my last trip to atlanta was a disaster...i guess i'll give it another go this weekend...i need a break in the worst way. heck...at least this time i'm rollin' solo! *sigh*
some of these self proclaimed, wannabe "Doms" are extremely laughable. i'm truly intrigued and entertained by their simplicity and stupidity.
ahhhhhh. i needed this 'away' time. downtown atlanta is so beautiful at night...
i find myself becoming increasingly bored and annoyed with this website. *sigh*. seriously people...
thank goodness it's almost sept 11...that means it's get-a-way time! four wonderful days away from the norm! lookout atlanta, here i come!!!!!!!!
I'm soooo over due for a get-a-way that it's not even funny, but alast, it's almost here. I'm getting outta dodge in about a week and a half. YAY! So look out Atlanta, here I come!
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