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Male Dominant, 39
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Male Dominant, 37, Bavaria+Slovakia
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Male Dominant, 25, smithtown, New York
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About secretglances
No Longer looking!
Although i am no longer actively looking i still welcome any one who wishes to chat and will always answer messgaes. I love to discuss and learn new ideas with like minded people, it is the only way we learn, unless you are on the end of the Dom's wrath and being punished!
Too often people will judge a book by its cover, and that is the same with people too. If you took time to look inside, you might be surprised by what you find.
A great many people are blinlkered and blinded by what society claims to be 'normal' or even 'acceptable', these people are not genuine and can be very hurtful.
We all come in different shapes and sizes, some thin, some fat and some inbetween. We all have ideas of the 'perfect Dom/sub and how they should look or appear, and appearance on here seems to be everything and not the qualities that the person they begin to chat with has! If it is not to their liking, they soon disappear. Sad really because you will find they are putting themselves on peddlestools acting like gods when all they are is the same as that person stood next to you and wouldnt give a second glance . And those people that they were chatting to were probably the genuine article either Dom or sub.
I am me, i am nothing special and i do not proclaim to be someone or something i am not.
I may not be everyone's choice but i know i am someone's and that is all that matters!
Whilst i am happy to answer your messages, please do not be offend if i do not wish to pursue anything other than friendship if you are married. I guess i am selfish as i dont share nor will i be shared.
Oh and finally, i do not have UDDERS TO BE MILKED!, they are tits or breasts, very nice large ones too! |
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They say life is what you make of it and if you are negative you bring more negativity into your llfe. But how can you be positive or remain positive if you are knocked down time and time again?
I am so tired, in several kinds of pain and very heavy hearted, maybe its time to put up the shields and withdrawl to heal. Who knows what is the right thing to do any more, i certainly dont!
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Ooooh i so do not like the cold!
How i miss the sun shining and radiating through the window giving off that lovely warm glow. Now the sun has gone in, darkness is beginning to fall, all i wish to do now is go and hibernate! |
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Still wide awake and unable to sleep! |
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Word of warning,
If you treat me like an option, i can assure you that i will help you narrow your choices by removing myself from your equation! |
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Lessons learned in life
One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it is guilt, anger, love, loss or betrayal. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go! |
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Though for today:
Choices, Chances, Changes
You must make a Choice to take a Chance or life will never Change!
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God damn internet! If it boots me once more i swear it is going out of the window |
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After this mornings visit to the hospital, i now know why i am not really that bothered in exploring needles. Holy crap on a cracker did it hurt when they gave me a steriod injection into my knee joint. Nope i can honestly say after breaking out in a sweat and going faint, needles are not for me! |
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I have had to remove the NUMPTY's name off my journal due to the TOS and have been reprimanded by the powers that be. I am not sorry i named and shamed the person as there is no need for their rudeness. Manners cost nothing!!!!!
So NUMPTY, you know who you are and that you are rude, obnoxious, have a potty mouth and not a very nice person,
As i said in my first journal, if a Dom cant control himself how can He control a sub/slave. Trust me sunshine, i am not a wanker! i neither wank myself off nor get any pleasure at the thought of it.
Yet another idiot who didnt like the polite answer he received so he spat his dummy, therefore
NUMPTY you are the weakest link GOODBYE
MWHAH |
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Good morning!
The air is crisp but the sun is out, here's hoping for a lovely day today.
Ok 4 pages of messages and still i have 1 left to go so a little note for anyone who is thinking of messaging me and please digest what this says and hopefully you will take it on board.
Respect is Earned.
Honesty is appreciated
Trust is gained
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Loyality is returned!
This works both ways. |
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Good afternoon
Within seconds of coming on the site i have been swamped with endless messages and whilst that is very flattering, it is impossible to answer all at once.
On top of that i am trying to fill out my profile so as to give a rough outline as to who i am and my interests.
So please be patient and i will answer each and every message but it may take a little while.
I know this will be ok with some but not with others and to that i give one answer, 'if you cannot control yourself then how do you suppose you can control your sub/slave?'
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