It's sad I have to write this but evidently I must.
Please, think before you contact me. I have a past that I take into account and will briefly recount: long relationship, bad break up, a bit shaken up, not sure what i'm looking for at the moment.
With that in mind, I am asking you think before you send me an email. Have you read my profile? Do we seem AT ALL interested in the same things? Surprisingly, emailing me fifty times and telling me you and your wife wants to play with me still wont make me interested if I'm not into couples.
I thought perhaps ground rules would be good and well I would come off as bratty enough for some people to be annoyed away.
1. If I cannot get through your email because you cannot spell, we have a problem.
2. Be realistic. I live in Seattle, not Australia. I am in my twenties. I am in good shape. I classify myself as submissive. ALL OF THOSE SHOULD BE CLUES! If you are a switch, hate exercising, older than my grandfather and live in another continent, this may not be perfect.
3. I was taught a long time ago how to identify a good dom. With that said let me quickly explain myself. I am the most controlling person you will ever meet. I like things done in a certain way. There's a great reason for this. I WANT TO FEEL SAFE. Please tell me this makes sense to someone out there.
4. If you read my profile you should have seen in lovely type that I do not, for myself, believe in sex before marriage. This should probably suggest two things. A. I will not be having sex with you. It is pathetic when I watch guys who think that they will be different, special and I will want them to take me. B. It should also imply that I like long term things and am not up for a one night stand.
5. Some of us work. I take my job seriously and admire folks with ambition. If i get ten emails from you in half an hour saying 'why havent you written me back??' I don't think it is going to go well.
There you have it. The new set of rules. Hopefully, now, between this, my other entry, and my profile, maybe I wont yell so much? I do want to clarify that I am not always bratty. I am highly intelligent, educated, somewhat attractive, emotional, and scared. I am the most loyal person you will ever meet and men tend to fall for me quickly, but don't ever stick around when they see I actually do take a lot of work. I'm sorry for that and I do poorly with endings but right now I'm a mess in my personal life. I have the highest standards of anyone you will ever meet and pretty strong beliefs. I like learning but am very, very shy of people. I just wish people would consider liking me and not just the idea of screwing me.
On the other hand... if you'd like to, i always am wanting to learn about overall human truths (don't judge). So one thing i would love for people to tell me about is well, how they view themselves. Like imagine a scene that best describes and sums up who you see yourself as and let me know? like i had a great friend who imagined himself on a balcony in france leaning over towards the sunset with a black cape. I, on the other hand, have an intimate scene of myself where i am a slave and my Master pulls along with him as he is leaving. As we start to leave a man sees me and i glance at him for but a moment and he thinks how much he wants to have me, because of how incredible he thinks i am and that much more so because i have chosen to give that, to give myself to my Master. Anyhow, i just always wonder how other people view themselves, or how they wish they could be.