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Time for a bit of a rethink. It appears that what I originally sought does not exist on this site. So, without having the usual whinge about fakes etc, I will try something more realistic.I am seeking more than one slave. There are reasons for that which go beyond greed or a need to inflate my ego, which I will gladly explain to anyone interested.If these slaves have an existing connection, through family, friendship or marriage, so much the better. If not they must have at least a genuine need to serve and learn and commit.I dont use the word slave lightly and I do have a fairly rigid definition of what the word means to me, which again, I will be happy to share with anyone interested.Single male slaves need not apply



I have rigid views about male slaves and how they should be treated. The male half of any mf couple applying should expect prolonged chastity, at least partial feminisation and a generally harsher regime even than the girlI am alsohappy to offer conversation, advice, friendship and even mentorship to anyone new to the Lifestyle

There seems to be an increasing number of profiles that purport to be couples but which turn out to be just men with unfulfilled fantasies. All you are doing is wasting your time and mine. 

Why do people tell lies that are bound to be discovered. Is it just to annoy people?

Ok. If you read a message and don't respond within a reasonable time you will in future be blocked. No warning and no exceptions 

Don't pretend that you are a slave if you are impolite. Saying " no thanks" or " not interested " is NOT impolite. Not responding at all definitely is. Especially during a conversation. Fakes who stop responding with no warning are blocked

Very bored with dishonest. Just tell me the truth, whatever that may be, and let's work with that 

I wonder why an alleged couple would post pictures of only one person. I wonder why an alleged couple are unable to keep track of conversation. 

Why are so many here so very ill mannered?

So, what is one supposed to make of someone who holds enthusiastic conversations one day and clearly can't remember who the hell you are the next?
There appear to be a growing number of couples profiles that are, in reality, just a man with a fantasy who lacks the balls to talk to his wife about it. If you have no intention of ever actually doing anything more concrete than talk about it, please state that at the beginning of any conversation. It is only polite
If you vanish without warning, in the middle of a conversation, and don't explain immediately when you are next online, our conversation will terminate
Girls, when you find out after years of marriage that your husband is actually also a submissive, how do you feel about that? How do you feel about him?
When, I wonder, did the ability or desire to converse vanish?
Politeness costs nothing
I have been involved with this lifestyle for a very long time. Once upon a time it was a place where most of the people you encountered were polite, educated and honourable. Over the years I have watched those things change and not for the better. I know that this site is not representative of the lifestyle as a whole, but the very worst parts of it do seem over represented here. Manners appear to be largely absent. Few are willing or indeed able to conduct any but the most basic conversation. More and more I wonder why I come here
Just to be absolutely clear, what I am looking for here is M/s. For me, M/s and even D/s are primarily about control. These things are mostly of the mind rather than the body. If you are here just looking to spice up your sex lives or if you believe that 'submissive' simply means that you enjoy being tied up and hit with something, then probably we shouldn't waste each other's time.

Could the one or two people here who are genuinely seeking something real make themselves known please?

And another one that simply stopped responding. I think there must be something suspicious about profiles or people who over-use words like ' serious' or 'genuine' because in my experience they almost never are either one. I really must get better at spotting these morons

I have found the last couple of weeks here very depressing. Twice I have begun conversations with people who appear intelligent and genuine only to have them simply stop responding to messages. That is of course in addition to those very many of you ' slaves' who are so arrogant that even typing ' no thanks' appears too much effort

Happy Christmas to all of the honest, genuine, lifestyle people on this site. Assuming that both of you are still members.

I have reached the reluctant conclusion that almost nobody on this site really means what they say. Where are the manners, the honour and the honesty that once were at the heart of the Lifestyle?