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Seahorse13 Male Submissive, 32, Phiadelphia, Pennsylvania	seahorse820 Female Submissive, 41, Somerset	seahorse1 Female Submissive, 26, nunya, New York

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	About seahorse ....am changing some things, more to come. By the way if you want to get to know someone here you'll need to spend a little bit of time and spend a little bit of yourself doing that, you can't really pick people out of a lineup and expect to find real gems. Look close and you might find what you need.

Another belated entry,...for anyone who knows me you should now know that I am the master of my own poly household. I won't be talking to new people without taking my lovely's needs into account. Oh I'm still as wicked a dog as you'll find here but now you need to get to know us all.

Well now it would seem I've come full circle in terms of being a Dom,....I've loved and lost and loved again only to lose much of myself in the process. Guess that's the way it goes.....the rehabilitation "doesn't take" as they say. That's ok tho each time I learn a bit more about life. We win and lose.?

Hmmm,....now really ladies do you expect a passonate man to fall in love with you and to have No consequences when things go awry?

Thought I'd come on here and say something significant about the whole D/s thing,...you know,... how things are supposed to work, who does what to whom and such, bla bla. On reflection tho you know even tho the rules of the game are different than in a nilla relationship truth is a D/s thing is just as complex. It takes the same kind of skill and devotion to make an angel scream as it does to make one sing.

Again....be prepared to be courteous or we won't get along at all.....

In a general way it seems as if most women are looking for the last love of their life. Men on the other hand seem to be more interested in the next.

A sub once asked me why she couldn't have two doms. I told her that the reason was precisely the same as why only one person can drive a car or fly a plane.

Spanking a girl doesn't make a fellow a dom anymore than beating an egg would make him a chef, there's much more to it than that.

Why would you want to call anyone master? Put yourself into his hands gently at first,..make quite sure he's worth it. Every girl has a price she places on her surrender...is he willing to pay?

Ownership,...it means you know where to come for comfort & shelter, for dicipline excitement and authority and direction..for everything you crave. Ownership,...a Dom accepts ownership as part of his due as well his duty. Don't be shocked, it's the way it is. You become both a possession and possessed by something larger, more powefull than you...and in a wierd way, that's just how it's supposed to be.

Well everyone has an idea of what a good sub or dom should be, let me tell you what mine is,...a good sub is: willing, excited, enticing, exotic, playfull, discreet, and very very naughty. A good dom is: powefull, exacting, patient, centered, secure, creative and articulate. Together you get a couple (or more as the case may be) that finds in the other those things that need care and tending in themselves. They find their match, not quite a polar opposites but more like a key fitting in a lock just so when the ignition is turned the engine fires.

I joke and kid around with you dear but I'm always serious underneath. You can feel it in my heart when I lay next to you if you're still enough.

Now I feel pretty bad for a variety of reasons, no need to go into them here, hate to air my heart in public. Truth is life for me is a pretty mixed affair: joy/sorrow, anxiety/triumph, together/apart, opposites welding themselves together (not always seamlessly).

what we treasure shows us what we are.....

Had a delightfully wicked and entirely unchristian Christmas eve....ho ho ho.

You find your self in submission...the person you wish to become is found in the seam where pain and pleasure become one. The slave...the woman you crave to become follows the crack of the whip and the bite of the lash, these are signposts, what she follows to her dark divinity.

Relationships of this type need time to cultivate,...at least for me. Normally I know a girl fairly well before we meet. D/s at the best of times flows like a river,...the power and dominance flowing downstream from the D to the sub as they explore. The devotion however,..well that flows both upstream and down.

...what I crave......in a woman, in you. your obediance and desire...the feel of your flesh as you soar...you let me take you places and through you I believe. When you drink I am slaked,...when you eat I am sated, when you surrender I stand above you captive.

two birds on a single branch.

not a breath of wind ruffles them..

nothing stirs but when I shake the tree.

Just had an interesting exchange of notes with someone which lead me to make this entry.. The bdsm arena is a place to express many things...playfullness, affection devotion, sensuality, creativity, love,....on and on. It also attracts some very disturbed people once in a while who wish to express anger and hatred. These folks need to find good therapists, not sex partners; by using others this way I think they really corrupt people into being just like themselves...fearfull and mean spirited.

It says here no "vulgarities or illegal activities.." kind of seems that much of bdsm is mainly composed of that tho..

Guess we redefine black and white to suit our fancy...wonder what the cm censors consider "too vulgar"?

Oh and let me say again that I am a rt person. If you're looking for an internet thing I'm not the fellow you want. A Dom that's worth his salt

is not someone to trifle with.

More than one girl has asked me what I mean by "training". I suppose it all changes with the individual and I can try to make it clearer but it's not like you go to school to learn this stuff, right?

This is a long but true story and it happend not too long ago.

For one lady who wanted to get some training as a sub her "lesson" went like this:

We'd known each other for some time I had her come to my home. I'd informed her that she had a special treat in store for her and she should look her best. When she came over I gave her a glass of wine and told her to be good; pinning her arms to her sides I told her I was going to tie her up spread eagle to my four poster bed. We'd shared intimate encounters in the past an so had little difficulty getting excited that "daddy" had something special on but wasn't telling. I stripped the girl down to her bare essentials,..heels and stockings, a whisp of underwear, blindfolded her and tied her to my bed. I use a variety of silk & leather...and just to be sure; put her in a collar on a lead so she'd know her place. And I went to work on her. I always (well almost always) start out slow and this time I took a very long time with her...a bit of kissing a bit of biting, some scotch broom playfully applied, then a more brisk caning,..you know the drill.

Now keep in mind I'd found this girl in the vanilla world, a straight mother of two a bit younger than me, divorced and a business owner. A strong woman in every way you can imagine; soccer mom, den mom, committee chairperson yah yah yah on and on. When she'd met me she felt that she just wanted a "boyfriend" or "companion". Just goes to show you that the Stones were right when they wrote the lyrics: "You can't always get what you want,...but if you try real hard you might find,...you get what you need." ...and this lass hade been getting what she needed with me for a while now.

Back to the lesson...

She was propped, tied to my bed blindfolded, and had been being played with for some hours maybe I dare say, tho I never kept track of a clock... and now was nearly on fire from the constant rounds of gently being spanked bitten or used as it seemed to occurr to me. There was a gentle knock on the door..I told her to be still, that her lesson wasn't over and that I'd have to find out who was at the door.

Leaving her panting I went to my front door. Standing there on my porch was a pretty, petite blond of about 36 in pigtails, a checkered skirt and gogo boots carrying her overnight bag just as I'd asked her to. I invited her in quietly and took her over to the couch in the living room and poured her a glass of wine...after the pleminarys of how the drive was and the ferry ride I took her by the hair and exposed her throat and mouth and began to kiss her inensley. She said "you taste like pussy"..and we both laughed, she knew what her part of the lesson was. I stripped her panties off of her from underneath her mini rather forcefully and penetrated her.

In a while I returned to the bedroom and told my first lil jade that it was time to resume her lesson now and that I remembered that she had promised to be a "good girl" and was gonna be nice....the blond had followed me in silently. I kissed the girl as she lay there and then got up off the bed to watch (always a fun thing for a Dom). Approaching the bed she whispered into the subs ear exactly what I'd told her to say then proceeded to lay kisses over the bound sub. The first jade was really on fire now and was straining her bonds (Later she told me she'd heard murmering from the other room but hadn't been able to quite make out what was happening and that the uncertaintly had made her even more crazed.) The first jade was really on fire now straining at her bonds when the blond mounted her masked face covering her with the plaid woolen miniskirt,..her boots scratching the girls sides as she got into position...

Holding on, sometimes to the girls hair, sometimes to the headboard the blond showed me quite a bit tho I must confess that next time I'll have her remove the mini skirt. Most of all I knew that the bound jade was becoming exactly what she'd always wanted to be and from the moans of the blond my lil brunett underneath had found her sweet spot with her mouth just as I told her to...and was enjoying exercising her new skill! They stayed like that for a very long time untill I unbound the first; it was the blonds turn to be "nice"...(afterall turnabout is fair play eh?). I could go on with more details but you get the drift, both girls had a few new experences that day..and yes so did I.

That afternoon turned into a very long and delightfull evening...

~Seahorse

...now I know a lot of men won't see this but c'mon guys lets come up with some less creepy sounding pen names eh? I mean really! MasterDarkStormo'Fire&Guts I mean what are you twelve?

Just a request this time,...please don't respond if you're not up for really exploring your dark/sensual side eh luv? It's a time consuming thing to bring a girl to a state where she's aroused and willing to explore these depths...lets treat it with some repsect. A year or so I chatted with a naughty wife of one sort or another for quite a while before I realized I was being played,...can't say I enjoyed it so if you're not a rt prospect please say so at the start ok? I've nothing against internet chat friends and we can talk sure, but be forthright with what you're looking for.

Time for a new entry. For starts I was kinda suprized at being told I was a fake the other day. No, not in those words exactly but the message was clear enough. Precisely what the matter was about I never learned, just that someone had "told her about me". Well I've had my share of puzzling incidents in life but this was disturbing. It should be very clear to any subbie I speak to (although it seems obvious to me)....you are not entitled to a microscopic examination of me over the internet. I hear time and again that people want to be told the truth and that's fine if you're entitled to be a confidant. The fact that one asks something doesn't automatically put you on the list tho. From a Doms perspective it often goes like this for me,...I chat with a girl, we flirt and she shares a peek of herself with me. Normally she never seems to ask the about me,..my life, for her I remain her fantasy. Eventually we talk about meeting or becoming closer and I share because it'd be wrong not to and she begins to see that I'm not her cup of tea because of this or that so now I'm the villien then eh? Honestly if you want a chaeracter out of a Ann Rice novel please go to a book store I'm a man with faults and quirks futures and repsonsibilities and yes other women in my life.

Well now I've spoken to a few girls who described thenselves as being "in the community" and frankly it's no great turn on for me. I'm an independant man making my own way through life and I suppose I treasure people who do the same. If one stays in the same bay all the time the water may be comfortingly familar but it's nice to get out and swim in the open ocean eventually.

Hmmm,...thought I should update this a bit but y'know I'm not much for broadcasting my life for everyone to see. In some ways I'm reserved and standing up in the front of class on the first day of school and "telling everyone about myself" was never my strong suit. If you enjoy adventure and people, love and sex contact me, we may not share everything but sometimes paths cross for a short while and that's enough.

You taste the void with your pain.

I know, I send you there...
and bring you back,

waiting while your exctasy
subsides.

You rock and tremble in
my arms...

love without pain without surrender?

Moving slowly, glacially time consumes us

Winter Prose:

...love without pain?

...love without surrender?

..like existance without motive,

...using time passing slowly, glacially consuming us.

mmm, gotten more familiar with subs trying to lead from the bottom as it were,...very difficult to manage,..my best advice is to drive or sit back and enjoy the ride...

....oh also I'm not a fetishist all my D/s stuff does involve sex in one way or another, I'm quite "realtime" that way...BDSM is to sex like spices are to curry,..some like it hotter some less so but both the meats and spices are nessessary (doesn't mean you can't taste the sauce now and then tho,.haha).

Short term, LTR, friend with benefits, marrage, all seem somehow limited and asking way too much of a person responding to a profile. Seems as tho a lot of people here are quite specific about what they want, I'd be quite happy to make contact with a few nice people & see where it could lead from there.

...visited a chatroom here for the first time they were talking about recipies,...strange!
thot bdsm meant something other than barbecue, duck, saute & marinara.....

Y'know coming to a site like this I've been suprized at the amount of lists and such that people put out about the people they hope to meet,...sure we all have such lists I guess but on mine being polite is a biggie.

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