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| Being a Dominant is not so much a discussion about forced control - although that can be an enjoyable part of it - but about earned control and assuming full responsibility for my partner, so she is free to give herself, to me. The one who submits should feel release of all inhibitions, and in so doing should feel her submission comes from not fear or pain - although again parts of that can be useful, helpful reminders, and even desirable - but from the complete and trusted release of control to the Dominant one.
I have been in such a relationship and I seek one again, or seek the pleasure of play and fun. I am a professional who is unattached and travels often to several major cities as part of my work. I am single and looking to either engage in play while traveling, or find a LTR with someone.
I am simply no interested in chatting and developing a dialogue about what interests you if you are not interested in potentially meeting. Spend your time chatting with friends if that's what you want. I am also not interested in so-called online relationships or activity. And I would insist on a friendly, open, public meeting after chatting to know one another to see if there was mutual interest.
I could talk about specifics of what I like or don't like, but that's for you to discover and us to discuss. If you are real, serious, and in NYC, Chicago, Dallas or Houston, San Francisco or SoCal, let's talk. I live in SoCal but generally am in the other cities each month.
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