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Male Submissive, 58, East Midlands
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Female Submissive, 29, Los Angeles, California
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Dominant Couple, 25, Las Vegas, Nevada
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About ScumbagStyle
I am a dominant male who recently ended a long-term, comparitively vanilla relationship. I am seeking women who know how to please a man, how to follow direction, and how a man can please her. I have a tendency to be heavy handed, but I am even heavier with rewards and affection. As the end of my previous relationship can be directly attributed to lack of communication on her part, HONESTY is a must for me now. You would be surprised how much can be accomplished if I know your needs and desires, and how devoted to fulfilling mine you are.
As far as specifics go: I love the bdsm scene, but am turned off by all the theatrics. I'm not heavily into leather or stylized implements. A solid paddle, a pair of cuffs, a skimpy lingerie based uniform, and a collar do nicely. As far as I'm concerned, the fun comes from romance, genuine affection, and sexual creativity. Relationships should always be an equal partnership, but not a democracy. I always take the ideas, wants, and suggestions of my partners into serious consideration before I make my own decision based on the circumstances. You are dealing with a seriously competant, educated, and strong man, and you can expect for that to be the prominent dynamic in dealing with me on any level: friends and lovers, male and female. I also very much enjoy older women than myself, but it is not a requirement, and I will always answer and consider any messages that come my way. Limiting your options only leads to missed opportunities.
On the other hand, when I feel that my partners are devoted to our mutual benefit, there is no limit to the little things. The chocolates on your period, the hours of pleasure sessions, the modest dinners I can cook - - great boyfriend stuff every man should care about.
I am a writer/music journalist finishing his final year in Graduate school. I play guitar badly, recently enjoy working out (I'm getting there surely), and love the muppets. My greatest fear is losing perspective and taking myself too seriously.
Though I put up a tough front, and though I am a more than competant dom, I often enjoy the occasional switch. However, I would never allow this to erode the power balance of a relationship. Such instances will only be for one night stands or a long term relationship in which a serious trust has been established.
You may consider me an avid Bibliophile, a conoseur of independant and popular music, wine, and good solid beers. I will try anything once, usually twice. i make a point of it, because seeing and feeling and experiencing is the only way to know yourself. True joy in life comes from comedy, and the catharsis of legitimate tragedy. |
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I HAVE MOVED TO LAS VEGAS (as of 9/08) for a job and a woman. Don't be afraid to throw me a message though, especially if you are going to be vacationing here! I have been here a year, can show you around. My woman would love to meet you ;), and we would both appreciate some fmailiar New York type people. Happy hunting everyone! |
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