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I am a biologically female dominant with a male gender identity. Being endowed with ample T&A, I don't pass. I looked long and hard at undergoing a physical transition, but decided that the costs and energy weren't worth the mediocre results. So I'm genderqueer and just deal with it day by day.
I've been in the lifestyle since my late teens, first as a slave and then as a Master. I've learned a lot along the way, and I'm still learning.
I own a male slave, who is my primary partner. We'd like to find a beta submissive/slave to serve as a part-time household member. It will help lighten our workload and add some interesting possibilities to our sex and play.
We are geeks, so we might drive you nuts if you don't like computers.
We live way out in the country, and your primary form of service would be farm and handyman work. If you don't like physical labor, this isn't the position for you.
We have two hound dogs and two cats that live in the house. We're very clean people, but if you have allergies or just don't like animals then this place would drive you nuts.
We are very serious about this lifestyle. We put a lot of time and effort into community service, and we live a 24/7 M/s dynamic. If you are a casual player you won't make it through our screening process.
While we want to find a partner that we can include in our sex and play, that's not how this relationship will start. Expect to go through extensive negotiations and a three month probationary service period before we even consider it.
We're kinky as hell, but the primary fetish for both of us is service. If you rate sex and/or play as more important than service, we probablly won't be able to get along.
Now that I've given you all the warnings, I'll tell you the good stuff.
We have a few acres surrounded by very large properties on all four sides. That means we have tons of privacy. We have a barn and plan to build kennels. We have a 14x20 detached two-story building, and we're renovating the upstairs into a combination guest and play room.
We're looking for someone to come spend at least one weekend a month with us, split between work and play. We hope to establish a long term relationship.
We enjoy lifestyle travel and conventions, and we put on some events ourselves. So there would be opportunities to attend events as a family, and to work together to produce events.
We are into your typical leather and rubber pig sex. If it necessitates rubber drop cloths, I'm all for it. Watersports and fisting are my favorite things. Every scene is sexier when one or all participants are wearing gas masks. Gear makes the world a better place. We love cum, which is why we are so damn picky about screening a potential third. Boots and cigars play very heavily into our relationship.
I am experienced in just about every type of edge play, and I can be very, very sadistic. But the puppy does not like pain and we have fashioned a very enjoyable sex/play relationship without it. I just find other ways to torture him. So, where-ever you are on the spectrum is ok.
We believe in open, honest communication without any games. We both strive to always improve ourselves, and to be very open with each other about our journeys. We believe in non-violent communication. Journal keeping is a big part of our relationship.
So, let me wrap this up by telling you what we are looking for. You must be employed, financially secure, drug and disease free, and a light to non-drinker. You must be able to commit to spending at least one weekend a month with us. If you are in any type of partnership, we will have to speak with your partner before we seriously consider your application. You must have experience, you must have already attended lifestyle events on your own, and you must have references. Extra points if you have a service resume.
You need to be bisexual. What works best is a gay man that is comfortable with both types of bodies but can't deal with feminine mannerisms or personality. That's the camp my boy falls into, and it's turned out very well. I have a woman's body and a masculine personality. The boy, on the other hand, is just a hot little piece of ass :-)
You need to be a sexual switch, comfortable with giving and recieving anal and oral. You also need to like big dicks as my boy is quite well endowed and I tend to fit my strap on with large members.
You should share our kinks and have a serious service fetish.
Finally, you should be looking for a long term relationship and be capable of keeping your dick in your pants when you're not here.
Hope to hear from you.
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