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 scottyguy506

 Submissive Male

 KWOntario 

 Canada

 5' 8"

 145 lbs

 69

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 01/19/06

 11/27/20

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I am a submissive gentleman seeking a Female-Led relationship. I am obedient and attentive with domestic and handyman skills and a desire to serve and please. I have excellent availability for domestic duties, running errands, and personal pampering. I do have Ds experience and an appreciation for protocol and strict domestic discipline. I hope to meet a woman who demands obedience, and relishes having the upper-hand.


I would love to see more postings on the subject of corner time and other time-honoured disciplinary methods. My husband, Peter, has his own punishment corner at the back of our living room and it is a part of the house with which he is intimately familiar. On occasions when he has misbehaved and I have had k him, he will spend at least thirty minutes afterwards, bare-bottomed, with his nose in the corner. On other occasions, when he is due for a punishment, I may have him wait in the corner until I am ready to deal with him. This could be anything up to a couple of hours if I am feeling in vindictive!
Whenever he is required to spend time in the corner after a king or strapping, I will in him of the length of time he is to spend there. It is then up to him to correctly estimate the period. When he feels that his allotted time has expired, he is required to report back to me and request position to be released. Since he is not allowed any access to a clock, he must be extremely careful not to underestimate time. My rule is quite simple for every minute he reports back too early, he spends another minute over my knee being ked with my hairbrush after which he repeats his corner-time all over again!
I do find it so amusing to imagine him standing their trying to count the minutes in his head and the look of extreme nervousness as he reports back to me whilst I check my watch. With his bottom already extremely red and sore, he will often elect to spend an even longer time in his corner just to make sure he does not underestimate the time. I must say however that his behaviour has improved significantly since I introduced this method and usually he only needs to be disciplined once or twice per month. I hope others will share their favourite punishment routines we both love reading your excellent Blog.






in the past I have been a Manager so I am very used to issuing orders so NOW it is time to obey them,I am a submissive male , and very interested in talking to you in person about our situations, into king and general discipline, corner time and like to be strapped with a leather strap, love to meet a very strong ladymale who is in charge at all times and knows who the Boss is.


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11/15/2017 8:58:29 AM
I would like to volunteer my time to Queen a Lady sometime in the future, I am a willing trainee who will need some direction and instructions on this procedure by the Lady or Ladies, very willing to discuss this with a Lady in need of this Queening.

9/30/2017 8:25:34 AM
Woman Rules

So your husband says he wants to be submissive to you. (or you want him to be submissive to you) Well here is a list of things you may want to do with him, one at a time, as a proof of his submissive. This should all be done in loving, mutual fun way with the realization that arrest or public embarrassment can affect careers and relationships. So have fun, be careful and giggle and kiss a lot.

1)He should be shaved. Yes, that's right, his pubic hair should be shaved off and he should keep himself smooth and stubble free from now on. This is none negotiable and should be understood from the beginning.

2)Right after he shaves for the first time, have him sit on the edge of the bed, lie back and pull up his knees. You're going to stick your finger into his ass. Yes, you're going to finger fuck him. You will need a rubber glove and some lubricant, Vaseline, butter, olive oil, whatever. He is going to be extremely embarrassed to present himself to you in this fashion, his anus is a very private spot, not seen or touched by anyone. That is why you're doing this. Once he is in position and holding his cheeks apart, lubricate your middle finger and his asshole and slowly press your finger to his opening. Slowly start to enter him. Look into his eyes as you penetrate him. Talk to him and have him talk to you as you both experience his submissiveness to you and this act of penetration.. Think about what he is allowing you to do, he's naked, shaved and your finger fucking his ass. Pull on his cock and balls as you slide in. Go in as far as you can, slowly. Look into his eyes when you are in all the way and tell him you are in all the way. Ask him how he likes it.. This may be the first time you are inside his body, enjoy the power exchange.

3)He needs a good cock teasing at least once a day. This doesn't mean he's going to have an orgasm, in fact he is not. But he needs to be hard and brought to the edge of an orgasm at least one time a day, either by you, or for you. "For you", means brining himself close to orgasm and stopping. Yes, this means masturbating for you, on demand. Two things here. One, he must learn to tell you he is about ready to orgasm and ask you to stop and he must learn to masturbate for you, and stop. Orgasm control is a powerful psychological aspect for a submissive man, and you too will learn to enjoy your teasing and control. It is another important power exchange with you controlling the single physical aspect of maleness that is maleness alone, a hard cock and orgasm at will. This also means that unsupervised masturbation must end, and he will only orgasm with your permission. Orgasm denial is part of this teasing

4)Nudity, him naked, you dressed. This should be done at awkward times, odd times, whenever you like, when he least expects it. Obviously if you're going to tease his cock, make him strip. Make him strip even if you are not going to tease him. If he doesn't usually sleep naked, he should now. In fact, anytime he is in your bedroom he should be naked. At some point, make sure you bring him to every room in the house naked. Lead him to each room naked, by his cock, the basement, laundry room and garage, all will now hold memories of your control

5)Nudity outside is more problematic, but should be attempted. Start with outside of your home late at night. Be careful to pick a night when you know your neighbors are away. Again, at night put him in the passenger seat of your car and tell him to strip. Put the seat all the way back. Pick some back roads and drive slowly and carefully, and DON'T drink. If you like, a highway may give a glimpse of his nudity to a trucker. He wouldn't like that, you may. Reach over with one hand and keep him hard reminding him not to cum. Don't stay out long, fifteen minutes should be enough. Pick a secluded place where you can stop to allow him to dress so he doesn't interfere with your driving.

A nude beach could also be fun. He will be naked of course and you should be in your swim suit to emphasize his submissiveness. Remember he is shaved, so anyone who sees the two of you walking together knows who's in charge. How embarrassing would a hard on make this? The object here is to be seen by as many as possible, so walk, don't sit in the sun. Well you can sit on the beach and enjoy the sun, but not until everyone has seen him naked.

6)Embarrassment is also part of the fun obviously. Be careful not to embarrass him or yourself in font of friends or co-workers. This must be done carefully and for the fun aspect of your dominance. Ordering wine and his dinner at a restaurant is a simple start, and one he will enjoy. While with friends for drinks or dinner, whisper in his ear, "what do you think they would think knowing you're shaved, knowing I own your orgasms". After his yearly physical ask him if the doctor said anything about his shaving.. If he works out in a gym, ask him if other men are shaved and what they look like, are they big, circumcised, big balls, small balls, compare them to him. If you have one girlfriend you can trust, and you probably don't, arrange an "accidental" flash. Remember, it only appears as an accident to your girlfriend, your guy might not like it but he'll cooperate. He is in gym shorts and a tee shirt and that is it. You can grab him and tickle him in front of your friend, accidentally pulling down his shorts exposing him, then after all the hooting and hollering, pull then all the way down and step on them. He will have to step out and run. Remember, he knows this is coming so he may be hard, and of course he is shaved. You can have a quick laugh with your friend and tell her you better see if he is OK. Go to the bedroom, strip him, grab his cock and lead him back to your girlfriend, saying, "well you have already seen him naked, you may as well get a better look." Doing the same thing in front of a couple would be more than twice as embarrassing.

7) Proving his submissiveness can be tested with the above situation, but should also include most if not all of the list to follow.

You should orgasm much more than he does. That goes without question, his submissiveness definitely translates into you cumming more. You need to teach him how to orally please you better, and as often as you like. I know this may seem odd, but a tongue up your ass will feel great, and he wants to do it for you, so tell him that is now a part of your oral pleasure. Don't worry, you don't' have to do it for him.

Back rubs, foot rubs, leg rubs, body massages, anything you think you might like you should try, and then do as much as you like. He loves every minutes of doing anything for you, especially if he is physically close to you.

Help with house work, yard work and generally being a better partner is assumed. He can also learn to cook with your teaching. He is not your slave, but he can be a more than a 50% partner in the house holds chores you don't like doing. Delegate, delegate, delegate. He will not do things if you don't tell him to do them, and show him how you want them done. He can't read your mind, so tell him when he is doing something wrong, but more importantly tell him when he is doing something right, and ask him to do it again.

It's not all about sex but a lot of his submission is. You need to talk to him and ask him what turns him on or off. Ask him what he expects and wants. Tell him what you expect and want. Keep an open mind and don't freak out if he has some silly fetishes. He is sharing everything with you and no one else, so even if it seems pretty odd or nasty, try it, make him do it, whatever.

There is only one thing that all submissive men must learn to do. You should have this conversation with him in a none sexual environment, so the reality of the requirement is finite, unequivocal and a given. Every time his orgasms, he must consume his ejaculate. That's right, you heard me correctly. If he ejaculates in you he must lick you clean. If he ejaculates on you, he must lick you clean. If you masturbate him or he masturbates for you, you must feed him his semen. At some point you should make him shoot into a cup or a glass and he must drink it down. This requirement for all submissive men does two things. It puts a real price on his orgasms, and it shows your acceptance of your dominance, and his acceptance of your dominance, no matter who brought the topic up. This is none negotiable and should be explained to him when he first approaches you with his desire to be submissive to you or your desire to lead the relationship. If he does not accept this simple requirement, he is not submissive. It is the only test and proof that he is sincere in his desire to be submissive, and your only requirement showing you are to assume the leadership role in the relationship.

There is much, much more of course, but you will discover things along the way. These are just a few suggestions but a good starting point for exploring this new aspect of your relationship. The most important thing is to have fun. If he approached you, he has a need. If you approached him, you have a desire to change the course of your relationship. Either way, if it is done in a loving fashion, it will be fun and bring you closer. So enjoy.

6/20/2017 6:20:56 AM
This is a scene set up for a future caning session:
 
I arrive at your house, you open the door and allow me to enter, you escort me down to your basement dungeon.
You instruct me to strip down to my panties for you to inspect,you leave the room and allow me to strip down, you re-enter and tell me to remove my panties for your inspection, you then start your inspection making sure that I have followed your instructions to have  all my public hair removed from this area, you use your crop to do this inspection by moving it around the various areas making sure that I have not left any hair,you make some comments that I could have done a much better job, but that it is acceptable this time, but next time I must do a better hair removal procedure and I am told that it must be done to your satisfaction or ELSE.
 
You then tell me in get in a position to receive the Cane by bending over the bench and spreading my legs apart, you then prod me with the riding crop to make sure that everything is in order and that I am clean in all areas.
You then instruct me to close my legs and spread my arms over the bench holding on to it, you then start to pick up the cane and swishing it around making sounds that scare me to death.
 
You start to cane me slowly across my ass, allowing me to get the feel of this cane in this area, you apply 5 strokes stopping to advise me of the game rules, "That I can only use The Safe Word in an Emergency Health Concern",
you then ask me if that is acceptable to me, I reply that this is Acceptable, you then proceed with my caning.
 
You cane me and take breaks during this session, each stroke is given to me and after receiving I am concerned why the hell did I ask for this session, but ask I did and you are only doing what I asked you to do Mistress Katherine.
 
You have decided that  I should receive a total of 50 strokes and if I able to take these 50 strokes this would be acceptable to you. You restart the caning and I am stretched over the bed/ bench receiving this cane punishment thinking of what my ass will be looking like when you finish this session.
 
I always was concerned with this session taking place, but as I say it had to happen and I feel you handled this caning session very well, and were very efficient in doing this punishment to me.
 
After the last stroke is applied which you announce to me, after I counted the strokes out aloud, you tell me to check my ass out and view it in your large mirror, I agree and Thank You for this Caning Session,you then tell me to get dressed, I then ask you if it is possible to masterbate myself, you reluctantly agree scolding me for asking you this naughty question,after this I am told to dress and present myself to you for your approval.
 
I then present myself to the Mistress for inspection,  you then tell me to hold my hands out to receive the leather strap
on each hand, this is punishment is for me asking the Mistress to allow me to masterbate, I hold my hands out in front of me you then apply 6 of the best to each hand, I receive this punishment I then thank you very much for allowing me to attend your place for this caning session.
 
I invite you to the restaurant that we go to for breakfast/lunch and a discussion on the days events.
We enter this restaurant and I feel a very sore ass when we try to sit down, I am very sure that it will be very painful and very red.We then discuss the caning session in great detail, each time the server appears we kind of tone it down a bit, but I feel as if  she kind of knows what is going on.
 
We eat up and I drop a hint to our server of what has taken place over the past hours session, hoping she is older and will understand, I pay the bill and return you to your house, bidding you farewell and giving you a kiss and a big thank you for this caning session.
 
End

6/19/2017 4:45:38 AM
To Strict Mistress: Part 2 Story,

You then make me sit down and tell you of my recent sins, I tell you that have many organisms by using my panties rubbing against my penis, also have thoughts of Mistress doing many nasty things to me, like teasing me and my cock till I am about to cum but stopping just prior to the cumming happening.

I also dream about the Mistress giving me her panties so I can take them home and cum in them on a regular basis also parade around for her in them on a regular basis, she would then demand that these panties be removed and would punish me for having these nasty thoughts.

I also confess to her about me being caned(CP) would be tied down securely and she would apply the cane to my ass telling me to count the strokes as I received them and thanking her each time these strokes were applied.This caning would be harsh and marks would be left of my ass as a reminder that it did take place in your very capable hands.

At the end of this caning I would kiss you on the lips and promise you that I would be a good boy in the future for you.

You would then tell me to stand in the corner in the proper  position with hands over my head and panties at half mast always, cock must be in the upright position at all times.

5/21/2017 5:52:34 AM

Dinner Party (Part 1)

I was in the kitchen doing final preparations for our dinner party. Guests were due to arrive in 10-15 minutes. You came in and decided you liked the way my dress hugged my curves. You decided to slide up behind me and explore them as well. You started by moving my hair aside and kissing my neck as you pulled me closer to the warmth and hardness of your body. Your hands lingered on my hips and then moved around to squeeze my waist and then slid up to my breasts and teased my nipples.

I tried to distract you and tell you no because we did not have much time. You responded with, “We had better hurry then!”

You continued your teasing by sliding my dress strap off my shoulder and sliding your hand inside of my bra to cup and tease my breasts. Your mouth traveled along my shoulder and back to my neck leaving kisses and gentle nips along the way. You could feel me give in as my body responded to your caresses and your hard cock pushed against my bottom.

You slid your free hand under my skirt and slid my panties down, and then your fingers stroked my dampening folds. I shivered! You nipped at my shoulder, smiled, and encouraged me to spread my legs so you could play. You continued to arouse me until I was dripping wet, and then you undid your pants and slid into me from behind. You took me quickly with hard deep thrusts making me cum way too fast. Your orgasm hit just as the door bell rang. I panicked because we were standing there half naked and flushed. You laughed, cleaned yourself up, gave me a quick pat on the ass, swiped my panties, put them in your pocket, and headed to the other room to answer the door.

In the meantime, I righted my breasts back into my bra and was frantically looking for my panties on the kitchen floor, not realizing that you swiped them. I was desperate because I did not want our guests to find them, and I did not wish to walk around bare bottomed with company in our house. I have no time to get another pair as people come pouring into the kitchen to say hello.


5/21/2017 5:30:33 AM

Panties – Married Sex Story Starring Lace Panties

Panties -My husband and I were getting ready for a cocktail party. This was one of those networking events where my husband drags me along as we talk to existing and potential clients. The most interesting thing to me is all the people watching.

My husband gave me a budget for a new dress for this party and I bought a classic black party dress. I was excited about being my husband’s “trophy wife.” This was a joke between us. He would often joke that he married me because I was trophy wife material. I must say that he never treated me like that. He is a great husband, provider, lover, father and friend.

As I adjusted my dress,  I looked at myself in the mirror over the sink. The black silk dress covered the features of my frame in a way that enhanced my assets. Some dresses do that better than others. This dress sculpted my curves from my breasts to my butt ending just above the knee. My stomach baby waist was nicely ignored some how.

I was putting on my gold choker around my neck when my husband walked in and parked there behind me and looked me over. He pressed against me semi-erect. He liked the dress. I felt his penis getting harder as he pressed against my butt. I was getting wet. He took his hands and sculpted the dress from my shoulders down to my hips. He whispered, “I’d marry you again in a heartbeat.”

I melted, “I’d marry you too!”

As he was shaping my butt with his hands he noticed no panties.  “No panties yet?”

“I can’t decide what panties to wear tonight” I said giving the impression that I needed his help deciding.

His hands pulled my dress up and started to kiss my butt and thighs. My husband knows how excited I get when he gives my butt and thighs attention. I can almost climax with enough of this attention. I changed my stance and opened up a little hoping he would give my wet spot some attention. One of his hands found its way to the top of my slit. I closed my eyes biting my lower lip.  He was still kissing my thighs.

Using just the tips of his fingers, he caressed my clit and the lips of my womanliness. Finally his fingers danced around my clit and lips. When I am standing up like this and so wet my clit comes out so nicely to the dance. In slow dance circles, he rotated his thumb over my clit.  I arched back and moaned.  With one hand holding my dress up, and the other hand dancing with my womanliness, and his lips kissing my thighs, I was needless to say having an exceptionally hot first experience in this new dress. This slow dance was becoming faster now at a rock and roll beat. Just as I felt an orgasm start, he stopped. I moaned, begging him to finish the dance.

He left the dance floor, stood up, and whispered in my ear, “I’ll help you pick your panties, if you would like.”

I was still not thinking straight. But I was sort of mad andsort of excited about being teased and hungry for my husband all night as I wore this dress. I knew the game he was going to play tonight and I was going to be a willing player. Maybe this was not going to be as boring of a cocktail party as I thought.

I went to the panties drawer and showed him some options. He picked black lace panties for me to wear. These panties are one of his favorites and I really like how they feel when they are on me. As he walked away I admit I felt a little abandoned. I was still very hot as I was getting ready to put my panties on. I had the urge to masturbate. I decided to just stay hungry and play our game. I pulled the lace panties on snug against my mound and knew instantly they were destined to be wet for the rest of the night.

As I finished my make up, I realized my body had never stopped humming.  I thought about my husband standing behind me. I thought about that dance of his kissing and hands.  I felt myself shiver all over again. I wanted to stay home and make love all night. The kids were at grandmas after all.

Sighing at the truth of my situation, I gripped my little black purse and headed out of our room.  He was waiting near the door, holding my coat in his hands. He helped me into it. His hands brushed against my breast. He sculpted my butt outside of the coat. I am amazed how quickly I could feel arousal. These panties were going to be very wet by the end of the evening.

Blindly I followed him to the car and let him help me in. He had warmed up the car.

“I don’t want you to be bored tonight, I want you to stay hot and hungry. I will be really hungry for you”  I was still so drowsy in my sensual connection to him.

“Open your legs up and loosen you coat. Spread your legs some,” he said.

I did. He took his hands and caressed my inner thighs just glancing my woman area. I knew he could feel how wet I was. We arrived.

Holding a glass of wine in one hand and holding onto my husband’s arm with the other, I was led from person to person and group to group making small talk.  I didn’t hear much of the conversations.  My panties were having a conversation with me about how I felt about my husband. As he was networking he so turned me on. Here is a guy who provides for me and our children. He was doing all this talking so that we can have a life!

I so wanted to be bedded my this man, my husband.

He whispered in my ear that he wanted me to go to the ladies room and take my panties off. I did not say anything but smiled. Near sexual hysteria, I sipped more wine. My body was on fire.

I whispered, “What do you want me to do with my panties?” I asked.

“I want to put them in my suit coat pocket. I want your scent to intoxicate me.”

How could I refuse that request!

“Oh, and while you are in that stall, bring yourself close but not over the edge.”  I did. But it was hard not to go over the edge.

As I walked back to my husband with my panties in my black purse, I felt as if my juices were leaking down my legs. I pulled him to a semi-private area, and secretly slipped my wet panties in his suit coat packet. I was tingling down there. I kissed him with a deep wet kiss. His almost instant bulge showed his hunger growing.

He took my hand and guided me down a hallway. He looked around opened a door and pushed me through. It was dark and I couldn’t see where we were. It didn’t matter.  In the next minute, my husband was on his knees in front of me pushing up my dress with his hands. He pulled my wet panties out of his coat pocket and caressed my butt with them. I felt how wet they still were. My husband’s tongue started to lick my woman place, while I was feeling my wet panties against my thighs.

I wondered how long was this game going to go on?  Did he want me to orgasm or not. I was starving! Was he going to feed me?

“I want to come, baby.”

He took his fingers and returned to the dance floor with my pussy. Within seconds I was climaxing and my muscles were convulsing in pleasure. I grabbed on to his shoulders. I was moaning as silently as I could. My husband stood up and undid his pants and they dropped. His ragging hard erection hungered for my food. He took my panties and hung them on his penis. He turned me around and lifted my dress again. He rammed me hard and I squeezed his hard manhood. I found myself climaxing again.

The feel of his hardness and my panties was amazingly erotic. He shot his love juice in me. I was not bedded I was loved right there in that closet standing up.

My juices and his juices were cleaned up with my panties. He asked me to put them back on all wet with our loving. I did.

As the party continued, I met and greeted his boss, his clients, their wives. All I could think about was my husband. I thought I might calm down. Instead I was like a tiger in heat. I was in a state of melting for my man and the wet panties were getting wetter.

The party was ending and my husband and I left. I was still hot. I turned to him and gave a sultry look.

“Take off your panties. Give them to me,” he said. He took them and smelled our sex. His erection was clear. He asked me to play with myself while he just enjoyed smelling my panties. I did. Soon, I was near another climax.

“Do you want me to come?”  I asked.

“Yes”

Coming while he was smelling my panties was hot, hot, hot.

We arrived home. Opened and closed the door. We practically ran up to our bedroom. I bent over the bed and he raised my dress again and drilled me again. He still had my panties in his hands.


5/21/2017 5:06:12 AM

Teachers Panty Drawer

i had an absolutely sexy and stunning social studies teacher in high school. she was 29 years old, had long brown hair and a killer physique.                              
Well,the tight and usually white skirts she would wear in class did nothing to hide her tight white high cut briefs she liked to wear, i knew i had to have a pair for my dirty night time deeds! after following her home after school to get her address i began to formulate my plan, which in hindsight was quiet a serious crime, but did not seem so at the time. i took the following day off school and made my way to her home and waited a while to make sure the coast was clear, i then climbed the back fence with large screw driver in hand (to force a window or door open)...but to my amazement and sheer delight i found that she had kindly left a side door slightly ajar...for me. in i went and without pause found her bedroom, and her top drawer which i immediately opened. my jaw dropped and my penis began to throb with excitement. full of panties, briefs, g-strings and bras. i rifled through her intimates until i found what i had come for... i selected a plain but sexy white stretchy thong, a red push up microfibre material bra (36c), and two pairs of those lovely panties i had so often seen in class hugging her shapely arse and thighs. careful to leave the place as i had found it i made my exit, leaving as i had arrived. over the following two days i had managed to paint each of my teachers lovelies (my souvenirs) with copious squirts of my hot siemen until the white panties turned a dirty yellow colour. i never got caught luckily for me. that was 17 years ago now though i still have all pieces of her lingerie to this day and her panties still tease a massive *** shot from my balls! thanks Ms xxxx

12/27/2016 5:42:36 AM

3/31/2016 5:29:45 AM

If your submissive is not performing to Your satisfaction, or You just feel the need to assert Your right to punish Your submissive.

- Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…)
- Tie him in an uncomfortable position.
- Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.
- Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together)
- Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.
- In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
- Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
- Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage.
- Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
- Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
- Enema.
- Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels.
- Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
- Have him lick You clean after you pee.
- Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples.
- Drip candle wax on him.
- Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…)
- Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie


3/25/2016 11:32:49 AM

Total Denial

The most classic example of total denial is referred to in the kink world as chastity. The submissive partner may be required to wear a chastity device to ensure they abstain from sexual activity. In other cases, the submissive simply promises not to engage in sexual activity for an extended amount of time. The dominant is often referred to as the keyholder in this type of scenario, regardless of whether there is an actual locking chastity device involved.

This type of orgasm denial is usually performed on a longer term, 24/7 basis. How much the denied partner must refrain from sex is dictated by the dominant. For instance, the submissive may be forbidden from masturbating completely, only allowed to masturbate when the dominant grants permission, or forbidden from all forms of sex for short or long periods of time. If the submissive has a penis, they may choose to use a chastity device that prevents erection as well.


3/4/2016 7:28:49 AM

1/20/2016 5:56:02 AM
When I was at school in Scotland the teacher would tell me that because I was naughty that I would receive 6 of the best on my hands, she would continue on with this punishment untill it was complete, there was no excuse like maybe continue on with it another day, she completed this Strapping that day regardless of my complaining, thats the way it should be handled by Teachers.

1/15/2016 8:28:12 AM

Spanking VII and A “Let’s Not Try That Again”

 
 
 
 
 
 
1 Vote

Lately, with my husband’s new job, the baby, and life in general, we haven’t had a lot of time for punishment, spankings, or even discussions.  No, I haven’t stopped misbehaving or deserving spankings, we just haven’t had the time to administer them, but yesterday we found some time and jumped on the opportunity.  My husband also found a new implement :(

My husband told me to go upstairs and wait for him.  Not only was he going to punish me, but he also told me that he had a few surprises in mind.  I had a pretty good idea of what one of the surprises were, because I had picked it out.  A few moments after I got into our bedroom and sat on the bed, he came up with the belt, hairbrush, and. . .a new, much thicker, paddle in hand.  No, I didn’t know about the paddle.  This was new and it didn’t look like something that I was going to enjoy.

He had me get on my hands and knees on our bed and lower my head.  He then pulled down my shorts and panties and picked up the hairbrush.  I asked him if I could at least get a warm up and he responded with, “this is the warm up.”

He came down hard with the hairbrush on the very first swat and it instantly stung.  I whined and complained, but I stayed surprisingly still through the entire spanking.  After about 20 swats with the hairbrush, my husband picked up the belt.  He likes loudly snapping the belt together to try to make me nervous about the impending spanking. . .it works.  After the first smack of the belt I complained that it hurt.

Not surprisingly he said, “It’s supposed to hurt.”  And he continued on.

I probably got another 20 smacks with the belt and then he grabbed the thick paddle.  It wasn’t very long like the fraternity paddles you see, it was short.  Maybe a foot in length including the handle, but it was easily 7 inches across and and an inch and a half thick.   He anticipated that I would try to move so he wrapped his arm around my waist and pressed the paddle against my bottom.

“Ready?” He asked.  I didn’t respond.  I just closed my eyes and waited for the first smack.

It didn’t sting like our other paddle, it hurt more like the hairbrush.  It was heavier and the paddle hit harder and hurt more, but it was similar.  I whined, begged, squealed, and pleaded, but he didn’t spank me any softer or slower.  After about 20-30 smacks of the paddle I was done.  He let me lay there and he held me to his chest.  He kissed my hair and rubbed his hands all over me.  I instantly felt better.  When my husband isn’t using his hands to punish me, they are wonderful, magical things.   Just as my body started to melt in his hands, he stopped and told me to “go get the ginger.”  I thought about complaining.  I thought about asking to do it “next time.”  I thought about arguing.  My sore bottom made me think otherwise and I got up and got the ginger out of the refrigerator and a knife and I returned to my husband.

He and I had never tried figging together.  I had one experience with it prior, and I had written about it on here.  To make a long story short, it didn’t go very well and we ended up “losing” the ginger because it wasn’t carved in the right shape.  This was probably about 3 years ago and I was ready to try it again.  My husband carved the ginger while I watched and waited.  Once he was satisfied with the shape he had me get back on all fours in bed.  I had read stories about the ginger taking a few minutes to start to burn. . .that was not the case.  I started feeling in only moments after he touched the ginger to my bottom hole.  It burned more and more as he pushed it in until finally I couldn’t stand it.  He had just gotten it all the way in when I begged him to take it out and he complied.  He had never tried figging before and he wasn’t going to make me hold it if I couldn’t stand it.  I couldn’t.  I don’t know how people keep it inside.  Talk about torture!  It burned so horribly even after my husband removed the ginger.  It was terrible.  I rushed to the bathroom to do anything I could to make it stop hurting.  It was far too intense for me and we both agreed not to try that again.


1/15/2016 8:17:02 AM

Tonight I am writing with a very sore bottom, inside and out!  Though tonight was only a maintenance spanking night, it was far from uneventful.

This is extremely embarrassing to share and I can only guess that I am as red as a raspberry right now just thinking about the recent happenings, but here it goes.

The evening began with me asking my husband if he would watch our daughter so I could lay down because I wasn’t feeling well. He agreed and told me that he would come to check on me in a little while. Just as I began to doze off, he walked in the room and asked how I was feeling. My stomach was off and uncomfortable, undoubtedly from another case of *blush* constipation. 

He had me roll over so he could take my temperature, the only way he does it anymore.  It came back normal, 98.2 degrees. I hadn’t shared with my husband that I was constipated, but I gave it away when I asked for a suppository.  I never ask for them because of how much it embarrasses me, but I was uncomfortable and I knew I needed something.  I had already tried coffee and apple juice!  He agreed, got the jar of suppositories, and slipped one into my bottom. He ended up having to give me another one about an hour later, but they both didn’t work!!

So, while I was laying on the couch whining and uncomfortable, my husband offered to go to the store and get me a fleets enema. Shocked that he even knew what a fleets was, I agreed. He ran to the store, came back, put a towel on the couch and had me put my head on the couch and my butt in the air. He inserted the saline enema and emptied the contents of the bottle intoy bottom. He rubbed my back while I stayed in that position for a few minutes before he let me go to the bathroom. He ended up giving me another one just to be safe, but I felt 100 times better afterwards aside from a sore bottom.

We were watching a movie together when he reminded me that it was maintenance day and he told me that we were going to do things a little different. First, he undressed me completely, instead of just pulling down my bottoms. He then proceeded to run his hands over every square inch of my body, it gave me chills. He had me lay down on the couch with my legs towards him and he spread apart my pussy and began to look at me and touch me. He slapped my pussy and my breasts, but it didn’t hurt.  It was actually quite erotic. He had me bend over while he did the same to my ass, and then my spanking began. He only used his hand, but he turned my bottom quite red and it was very hot. Once he had finished spanking me, he sent me to the corner without my clothes. I stead of just standing there, I had to reach behind and spread myself open so he could see the most private parts of my body.

The entire evening was very humiliating, but I am certain that was the point.  He takes the best care of me and always knows how to make me feel submissive and loved. Hope I didn’t gross anyone out with this one!


1/15/2016 8:03:57 AM

The Different Types of Spankings

 
 
 
 
 
 
5 Votes

As far as I can tell, every couple that uses domestic discipline in their relationship has different types of spankings with different uses and meanings. My husband and I actually have 4 different types.

1) The Playful Spanking: I think the name is somewhat self explanatory. These spankings are just for fun and usually performed in the bedroom or to get you “in the mood.” They aren’t very painful and my husband only uses his hand.

2) The You’re-Gonna-Get-it-Later Spanking: My husband and I lead busy lives. He works nights and sleeps during the day and I am a stay at home mom with a baby and 3 dogs. So I actually get a lot of these because we just don’t have the time for a Punishment Spanking at that particular time. I don’t write about these spankings because I would have a 5 sentence post nearly everyday. My husband uses this type of spanking when he wants me to stop misbehaving immediately, but can’t punish me to the full extent that I deserve. He will usually pull me over to him and give me a few, firm spanks over my pants with his hand or an easily accessible implement (spoon, paddle).  These spankings don’t hurt very much, but they let me know that I had better behave because I am already in for it. I actually got one of these today. My husband was in the shower while he was getting ready for work. I love playing practical jokes on him, and he usually finds them funny. Well, while he was in the shower I thought it would be funny to pour a glass of ice water over him. So I did. Then, to make it even worse, I flushed the toilet. I thought it was hilarious, my husband, however, had different thoughts. After he dried off and put shorts on, he grabbed me by the arm, turned me around and spanked me a good 10-15 times. He wad quite mad an kept telling me that I’ve got it coming…

3) Maintenance Spanking: I have written a few posts about this already. My husband gives me weekly maintenance spankings to remind me to behave and that he loves me.  They are always given on my bare bottom with any implement(s) he chooses. They definitely hurt and serve as a good reminder.

4) Punishment Spankings: For anyone that gets regularly spanked, I am pretty sure this is everyone’s least favorite kind of spanking. I am sure I don’t need to say this, but these type of spankings are given for misbehaving, breaking the rules, and not achieving my goals or back tracking. These spankings definitely hurt…a lot, are always done on a bare bottom, and include multiple implements of my husbands choice. Other punishments such as corner time are associated with this type of spanking.

I would love to hear about any different types is spankings that other couples are using. Feedback is always appreciated.

 


8/29/2015 7:56:31 AM
Judging by the posts from many of our readers, "ritual" and creating "the right atmosphere" play a major role in establishing an effective disciplinary regime. Some are naturally much more severe than others - but this is all a matter of personal preference and unique nature of different relationships. Here, re-posted once again from the fearsome Mrs. Birch, is a very severe monthly milking routine. Not for everyone but extremely effective for the naughtiest of males!
"Robert is routinely granted relief on the last Thursday of every month at 8-25pm. I am always home on a Thursday as one of my favourite TV programs commences at 8-30pm. Note the timing, Robert has five minutes of 'pleasure' each month! Something I never take away from him. He has all month to look forward to it as his right! From a life of gratification, how and when he wanted it, he now has five minutes of regimented 'pleasure'!
Thursday is his night for ironing. He is expected to be in the laundry, (downstairs and attached to his bedroom) prior to eight o'clock. At eight twenty-five exactly he is required to report to me in the lounge room, curtsey and ask, "Please Ma'am, could you attend to my needs please?"
He also has to present me with a special egg timer that we use. This is a five minute timer kept on the lounge bureau, since it is quite attractive and a true antique timer that uses falling sand as the measure. It is also a nice conversation piece. He hands me the timer which I immediately invert and place on the coffee table, before advising him, "Yes, please go and prepare yourself." I then give him the key to his chastity belt. The timer has started.
He must run downstairs to his room and remove outer clothes and chastity belt, leaving on his panties and Lady Jane shoes and hurry into the laundry toilet. I am usually there first. It is in a large space with no walls around it, he is not allowed any privacy in life. I am dressed casually, certainly not attired for his titillation, unless he is turned on by yellow rubber washing up gloves. The only time I wear such items for I have no use for same other than this forthcoming chore. Robert places his hands on his head and stands before the toilet. (Time elapsed: 1 minute). I then advise, all part of the rigid routine, "Lid up." He turns, raises the lid and stands with his penis over the toilet bowl.
I stand behind him and gently stroke his nipples. The poor dear is so starved of sexual attention that he is usually erect within seconds. As soon as he is erect, I cease my ministrations and pull down his panties to the tops of his thighs so his penis pops out before I advise him "Condom."
He is required to have placed a condom, out of its package, on the toilet cistern before he comes upstairs to me. This he quickly, trying not to fumble in his haste and waste precious seconds, rolls on to his organ. He knows that he must minimise contact and not fondle his organ unnecessarily.
Condom in place he advises, "Ready Ma'am." (Time elapsed: 2 minutes).
I then very quickly and vigorously, almost viciously, from behind, jerk his organ with my rubber gloved hand. He is so tense that it rarely takes even a minute before he is ready to spurt. I am watching this very closely and as soon as I note a slight start of a spasm I stop, take my hands away, step back and watch amused as he spurts, in a most frustrating fashion into his condom.
I assure you there is no orgasm when this method is employed, try it yourself and see! The look of frustration, total and utter frustration, is a picture to behold. Even now after several years of this treatment, he cannot quite comprehend just how frustrating the experience is. It leaves him yearning and desiring satisfaction, dreaming of what he used to experience. He remains totally unrelieved of his sexual tensions and urges, indeed they are multiplied ten-fold as a consequence of the frustration of being so near, yet so far from an orgasm. All that has been released is his semen, not his sexual tension. (Time elapsed: 3 minutes).
There is of course no time for him to ruminate on this, for the timer is still running in the lounge room, his five minutes of pleasure is 'running out' fast!
I quickly whisk off his condom and tie a knot in it before tossing it in the toilet. I don't want to risk him fondling his weenie!
"Toilet paper" is my next command. Robert must immediately peal off some toilet paper and hand this to me before placing his hands back on his head. I quickly wipe his penis before throwing the paper into the toilet bowl too. I then pull up his knickers whilst he remains standing, still with that peculiar bemused look on his face - unable still to grasp that it is over, he feels emptied, yet totally unsated, unsatisfied and more in need of sexual orgasm than ever!
"Dismissed!" I advise. He turns, curtseys, politely says, "Thank you Ma'am." (Time elapsed: 3 minutes 15 seconds).
He now hurries, in fact he runs into his adjacent bedroom to quickly replace his clothes and chastity belt (the lock will lock without a key), before hurrying back to the toilet to flush it. And he does dash around now in panic mode! (Time elapsed: 4 minutes 15 seconds).
Then he must run upstairs and into the lounge where I will be once more. He looks with blessed relief at the timer as the last grains are falling. Once more he curtseys, before showing his belt is on again. It is always in place!
"Get back to your ironing." Is my cold, disinterested response. (Time elapsed: 4 minutes 30 seconds)
"Yes, Ma'am" he replies in a most sincere manner, "thank you." He must advise this with sincerity and he must not rush his words, though he is right now very anxiously watching as the last grains of sand slowly, inextricably, too quickly for his liking, fall from the timer.
He then literally turns on the spot, rushes out, and runs downstairs, as required, to the laundry. It is not far from the lounge and once there he immediately picks up the iron ready to start and calls up in a loud clear voice, the only time I allow him to shout to me from another room, "Iron at the ready, Ma'am."
I now stop the timer, knowing he will be waiting for the next hour or so with bated breath, praying the sand had not run out before he picked up his iron once more, for that is the official end of his period of pleasure. Knowing that this rush and concern over the consequences of being late will have further deflated any possible enjoyment of the moment. It's all over in less than five minutes, no slow, sensuous strokes of his engorged penis, no gradual winding up to a crescendo with an explosive orgasm followed by a relaxed post-coital winding down to savour the effects and tingling sensations as the orgasm lingers and slowly cruises through all the pores and nerves of his body.
No. Robert's time has now come and gone! Five minutes exactly each month, that's it. No more, no less. Routine strictly adhered to so Robert knows exactly what to expect. Five minutes, not a second longer and he is back to his ironing. Though in reality it is really only a minute or so of actual playing with his weenie!

8/22/2015 6:26:58 AM
This is a scene set up for a future caning session:
 
I arrive at your house, you open the door and allow me to enter, you escort me down to your basement dungeon.
You instruct me to strip down to my panties for you to inspect,you leave the room and allow me to strip down, you re-enter and tell me to remove my panties for your inspection, you then start your inspection making sure that I have followed your instructions to have  all my public hair removed from this area, you use your crop to do this inspection by moving it around the various areas making sure that I have not left any hair,you make some comments that I could have done a much better job, but that it is acceptable this time, but next time I must do a better hair removal procedure and I am told that it must be done to your satisfaction or ELSE.
 
You then tell me in get in a position to receive the Cane by bending over the bench and spreading my legs apart, you then prod me with the riding crop to make sure that everything is in order and that I am clean in all areas.
You then instruct me to close my legs and spread my arms over the bench holding on to it, you then start to pick up the cane and swishing it around making sounds that scare me to death.
 
You start to cane me slowly across my ass, allowing me to get the feel of this cane in this area, you apply 5 strokes stopping to advise me of the game rules, "That I can only use The Safe Word in an Emergency Health Concern",
you then ask me if that is acceptable to me, I reply that this is Acceptable, you then proceed with my caning.
 
You cane me and take breaks during this session, each stroke is given to me and after receiving I am concerned why the hell did I ask for this session, but ask I did and you are only doing what I asked you to do Mistress Katherine.
 
You have decided that  I should receive a total of 50 strokes and if I able to take these 50 strokes this would be acceptable to you. You restart the caning and I am stretched over the bed/ bench receiving this cane punishment thinking of what my ass will be looking like when you finish this session.
 
I always was concerned with this session taking place, but as I say it had to happen and I feel you handled this caning session very well, and were very efficient in doing this punishment to me.
 
After the last stroke is applied which you announce to me, after I counted the strokes out aloud, you tell me to check my ass out and view it in your large mirror, I agree and Thank You for this Caning Session,you then tell me to get dressed, I then ask you if it is possible to masterbate myself, you reluctantly agree scolding me for asking you this naughty question,after this I am told to dress and present myself to you for your approval.
 
I then present myself to the Mistress for inspection,  you then tell me to hold my hands out to receive the leather strap
on each hand, this is punishment is for me asking the Mistress to allow me to masterbate, I hold my hands out in front of me you then apply 6 of the best to each hand, I receive this punishment I then thank you very much for allowing me to attend your place for this caning session.
 
I invite you to the restaurant that we go to for breakfast/lunch and a discussion on the days events.
We enter this restaurant and I feel a very sore ass when we try to sit down, I am very sure that it will be very painful and very red.We then discuss the caning session in great detail, each time the server appears we kind of tone it down a bit, but I feel as if  she kind of knows what is going on.
 
We eat up and I drop a hint to our server of what has taken place over the past hours session, hoping she is older and will understand, I pay the bill and return you to your house, bidding you farewell and giving you a kiss and a big thank you for this caning session.
 
End

3/5/2015 5:53:56 AM
Love to be spanked by hand, strap, paddled, whipped, CBT, love the tawse on hands, like to be teased big time until i am at the point of cumming, also like the person to be strict and verbal with all instructions being clear so as one can understand them. Like to be told to strip naked and be inspected in all areas, love to be naked and on my knees begging for attention, like the riding crop to be used during this inspection, also to be used on my ass. I am a shy person until I get used to you, I like to try and instruct you on what I need,so I prefer a Very Dominant Person to know what they are doing and know how to handle me and what it is I really want and need from you, Discipline/Training and proper protocol. You may have to start gently but you sure will need to be very strict and know what you need from me. This is just a very brief resume of me, i want to please you at all times and if that does not happen well I expect you to know what action you have to take to correct me, and put me on the straight and proper road so as you can enjoy my company. I am not used to being tied up but will leave it up to you to decide when this maybe required, also maybe leg spreaders will be required at certain times during play time. Also like to be hand strapped with the leather tawse scottish style, that is hand over other hand then apply the strap, then change over after each stroke is applied, you also must follow thru with each sentence, if this s 12 strokes then these must be carried thru, if not then you will continue on with this on my next visit. Regards, scotty

12/15/2014 4:09:06 AM

What to Wear Fetish Night(EHBC)



The more skin you can show, the better, especially for subs. Bear in mind that most public fetish nights or play parties have a "no exposed genitals" rule, which means you may need some sort of g-string to keep your privates covered.

Lingerie is easy to come by, often inexpensively. As a man, if you cross-dress, lingerie is usually the easiest option for fetish dressing - bras and panties, stockings, garters, corsets (including "merry widows"), slips and other items can be bought at any department store. Adult lingerie shops often stock a variety of more "daring" styles, but prices will rise accordingly, and sizes are often more limited.

11/7/2014 4:56:53 AM
  
The Joy of OTK

Ms. Harriet Marwood
 
Professional Disciplinarian
&
Spankologist


 

~Part I~

 
As we all surely know, in the world of what is broadly called BDSM there are many, many specific interests and playing styles.  Guess who did not know this?  Me! Well, years ago when I first decided to hang out my shingle, I didn’t!  I had played at private parties, and my boyfriend liked to take a good ass whoopin’, so I assumed that everyone would be like the people I had met up to that point. Boy, was I wrong! Initially, I would give it my best shot to enact whatever kind of scene a client would suggest. If I had no experience in it, I’d do some research, though the resources then were limited. I applied the motto Fake It Till You Make It, and after many years of dabbling in a wide breadth of activities I one day realized that only one of them set my heart a’twitter. And that was OTK.  Or, more accurately, any form of domestic corporal play. So I eased my way out of the dominatrix side of things and began to specialize. 

 
 
For those with a similar penchant, I decided I would share with you a few tips and tidbits that might help you in your own play. Or maybe you’ll enjoy following my musings just for the fun of it. I’ve spanked a lot of bottoms and, though a lot of folks believe that spanking is spanking, within this sub-category there are more variations than I could ever count. Different fantasies. Different styles of administering corporal discipline. Different degrees of formality, or the lack thereof.  Etc., etc. Much food for thought. Let’s have at it, shall we?

 

Starting at the Bottom

 
Yep, from the outset the bottom is at the top of the list. Spanking is all about the bottom. Bottom as in that nice soft, round pair of cheeks that we love to whack and smack. And bottom as in the person who belongs to that pair of cheeks.  Spankings revolved around these. We have to respect our bottoming partners and remember that they would not be there offering their vulnerable rear end unless they feel that the person taking charge actually cares about them and won’t do any harm. If you want a good scene, you need to talk first and make sure the two of you are on the same page. And whoever’s topping needs to know how to use his/her hand, paddle, strap or cane safely. That being said, what are some of the joys of OTK? (And by the way, by OTK, I’m referring to all aspects of spanking play.)

 
 
Let’s start with connection. The first and most obvious thing about actual OTK is that you are very up close and personal with your partner. You take someone over your lap and they feel you as you feel them. You feel each other’s warmth, breathing, shifts in movement. You feel, consciously or unconsciously, what they are anticipating. If you take your time and really take this in, it can enable you to take major control over them. Which, after all, is what they want. Depending on what kind of relationship you have with this person, real OTK can become very intimate, and very intuitive. You can feel just when to escalate or smack harder or back off, just from the cues their body is giving you. Muscle tension, quick or relaxed breathing, squirming and involuntary twitches and wiggles. Isn’t it fun to get a reaction?! To push them at just the right moment and make them squirm for mercy. See how obedient you can make them once they know the hands-on consequences of stubbornness!

 
 
Let’s start with the basics: Spanking the naughty brat. Your partner walks in acting distracted. You tell them to sit down and they wander and fidget. So you have to get their attention and take control. Sometimes raising your voice will do the job. Sometimes you have to grab them by the arm and physically drag them to their chair and sit them on it. If they pout or get sassy, you might give them a sharp slap on the cheek. Or maybe even drag them to the bathroom and wash their nasty mouth out with soap. Whatever your tactics, the principle is always that you don’t stop until they understand that YOU are in charge.

 
 
All you pouty brats out there, you may end up subjected to a very boring ten minutes (or more!) standing in a corner if you can’t do as your told. This ordeal – the power struggle -- can last ten minutes or so, or you can engage in a battle of wills for quite some time. Some players like a lot of verbal interplay. Some prefer to get to the punishment without much fanfare. For the more dramatic types, the spanker ought to get him situated, sitting or standing, and lecture him as to why he’s there and exactly what he’s done to earn him a stern and sound punishment. Your brat might be the type to lower his head and listen impatiently; biding his time till this indignity passes. Or she may be an uppity bottom and not be able to resist taunting you, or insisting on her innocence, or arguing with everything you tell her.

 
 
For an uppity bottom, the fun is to exert your dominance in whatever way you have to get them in line. Yell at her. Grab her arm and sit her on a chair. Slap her. Threaten that her punishment is going to be a lot worse if she doesn’t stop misbehaving. But ultimately, it’s time to get down to business. After you’ve enjoyed the emotional tension of this psychological tug of war, take it to the next level. You’re in charge. You decide when to lower the boom.  

 
 
If you have a compliant naughty boy, you might want to slowly strip him naked (as long as you’ve discussed this beforehand and mutually agreed to this). Having someone take off your clothes, piece by piece is very embarrassing.  Especially if the Spanker remains fully clothed in contrast.  If your bottom resists, you can stop, pull him over your knee and deliver 20 or 30 hard, fast spanks till he squirms and squeals and promises to settle down and cooperate. Then you stand him back up and finish – slowly unbutton his shirt, dragging out the ignominy…. Finally, pulling it off. Then his undershirt. Then unbuckle his belts and pull it out of its loops. (It might be a nice one made of soft, supple leather and maybe you’ll even put it to use later.) The real humiliation comes when you unzip the fly and his pants fall to the floor because he knows that his underwear is the only thing between his dignity and your complete authority.

 
 
If you want to give him a good warm-up so you are not likely leave marks, you can order him over your knee and start your spanking at this point, over his boxers or briefs. Some bottoms are shy and not very talkative. They like to feel the embarrassment and loss of control and simply be in the experience. So if you try to get them to speak back to you and aren’t too successful, just spank away. If you use a safeword, they can use it if they’re maxing out. If no safeword, watch if they physically tense up or hold their breath,  a possible indication of putting up with something undesirable. If your brat is not the shy type, then you’re free to spank them till you see them react, and when they do, you can lecture and threaten them with a worse beating in future days if they don’t shape up. It’s also fun to announce to them exactly what you’re going to do with them, so they can fear and dread it while they wait for you to get started.

 
 
A good batch of hand spanks will ready the bottom for more. Whack him good for five or ten minutes and then, when he starts feeling tender, make him nervous by peeling down the underpants. Just the feel of air on their bare skin will have their little brain shooting spurts of adrenaline in anticipation of the heightened stings to come. At this point, sometimes I like to take my leg and wrap it over my bottom’s legs, pinning them securely. At this point, he knows that he’s about to really get it good. Now you start really spanking hard. If you want to see some squirms, hit him three or four times on one cheek in the same spot, and then likewise on other. Lather, rinse, repeat. If he whimpers or whines or complains, just tell him he brought it all himself and it’s too late for sympathy now! Spank to your heart’s content until his cheeks are fire engine red. When he has a nice base, you can proceed to your implements.
 
 
 
The most logical one to start with is that traditional item, the trusty wooden hairbrush. If you want to make your point fast, just use the 3 – 4 swats repeated onto the same spot of each cheek method. He’ll be promising to behave in no time! After you have him good and red on the main central portion of his butt, go to work on that fleshy, more tender portion at very bottom of his cheeks just above the upper thigh. Take your brush and strike in an upward motion, snapping your wrist as you bring it upward. You don’t have to use a full swing. Just smack and snap. If you can aim for the area underneath and right next to his ass crack, you’ll definitely get some lively reactions. 

 
 
One thing to remember is that any bottom will get accustomed to any one particular implement if used for a prolonged amount of time. So to get his attention anew, you might want to grab that nice leather belt you slipped off his trousers, double it over so it’s nice and swingable from a sitting position and raise it high overhead, snapping it down with a fast twist of the wrist! You know you’re doing it right if it lands with that beautiful crisp sound. But, no worries, just keep swinging till you get the technique down pat. Be a considerate top, though, and try not to wrap the end around the outside of his hip. That’s just mean. And unnecessary. And likely to leave a nasty bruise that can last awhile. One way to avoid this, if you’re inexperienced, is not to swing from up high. Swing from midway up and rely on a good wrist snap to control it so it lands only on the middle of his now very red, sore rear end. Use a lighter smack until you get your aim to be accurate, then go to town!

 
 
Once you can see he’s really sore and tender, it’s a good time (if you’re into scolding) to rub his nose in his bad judgment to have gotten into such hot water and remind him that if he does it again, next time it will be worse. In this tender state, he’ll be thinking twice about getting uppity. Finishing him off with another hand spanking on a nice sore bum can be quite satisfying. The power you feel from being able to make a bratty bottom flinch and wince and yelp merely from the smack of your bare hand is quite fun. After you think he is properly penitent and compliant, you can wind down by introducing some nice comforting caresses to his bottom in between each flurry of swats until you taper off to a smack or three every 15 seconds or so. If you want to make sure your bottoming brat has been properly tenderized, just pinch their cheeks good once or twice. If they twitch or squirm or go “Ow!” your mission is a success and you can feel secure in wrapping things up. Of course, you can declare him thoroughly spanked whenever you’ve had your fill, regardless. It’s all up to you.

 
 

When you feel he’s been properly chastised, roll him off your lap – because he’s probably a little dizzy from the position he’s been in and may need to get back up gradually – and eventually order him to stand up, march over to that nice hard chair and sit down while you deliver your final words of warning and, of course, elicit his apologies.  Then watch him squirm uncomfortably on that unforgiving wooden surface while you demand assurance that he’s learned his lesson before letting him off the hook. Check with him and make sure he’s OK and that only his pride has been wounded. A safety check-in afterwards is important until you accurately know your bottom’s tolerance. Once you have done this, you can send him off to get dressed.

 
 
 
This has been a pretty basic introduction to an OTK spanking. It’s very general and would probably constitute a moderate level punishment. But if you’re experienced enough you can improvise and titrate things up or down to suit your preference. Next time we will discuss implements and a higher degree if intensity. In the meantime, play safe!  (And come visit me sometime!)

 
 
Bottoms up!
 
 

Harriet Marwood, Spankologist

 
 
 

 

Ms. Marwood is a worldly, intelligent, no-nonsense lady who addresses the behavioral problems of naughty boys of all (consenting) ages.  She takes her inspiration from a renowned, stern English governess of longstanding literary fame and believes in the expert application of all manner of traditional domestic corporal discipline as needed and/or deserved.


11/5/2014 5:51:44 PM
This sub male is genuinely submissive and understands the need to serve.

I seek a Mistress to dominate me for Her use and pleasures as well as train me for Her service by expanding my limits to Her requirements and needs.

Ultimate ownership will be discussed and may be possible if that is what Mistress seeks.

Retired male and although totally in charge in my daily work. i am sincere, obedient and truly submissive and know my place when in the presence of Mistress. This sub is most content when Mistress is totally satisfied and pleased, no matter the chosen chore or service.
i realize that chemistry is important and also realize that for most people - reality does not allow for 24/7 TPE - but that a sub should be able to switch to vanilla as required and switch back to total submission when directed by Mistress. This sub understands that D/s may best be initiated with occasional (determined by Mistress) opportunities to serve and earn its place at Mistress's feet.

This sub also understands that a submissive male is much more valuable, attentive and responsive when it's release and sex is totally controlled by Mistress and understands that this could be achieved through the use of a chastity cage - especially if the Mistress and sub are not in the same location 24/7.

Face and additional pictures are available to a serious Mistress.
 
I believe in Female Superiority and Female Led Authority and seek a Mistress that envisions Her own defined;
 
1. Submission to Female Authority
2. Obedience Training
3. Service to Mistress
4. Female Body Worship
5. Tease, Denial & Humiliation
6. Male Chastity & Orgasm Control
7. Corporal Discipline
8. Strap-On Training if desired

 

With head bowed,

10/18/2014 5:37:42 AM


yes you will sit down with her and discuss your needs and limits, she is very strict but think that is what you need boi, she will hang you with your hands and feet tied to a device, and tease the shit out of you and strap your ass, at least that is what she done to me.
I did have some precum happen and she applied it to my lips and it tasted very good,  but she never allowed me to cum that time.
 
Think she will respect your limits whatever they maybe, but as I said she is a very strict Lady and knows what she is doing regarding Discipline/Training.
 
You will be stripped naked for this Discipline and you must follow her instructions at all times.

7/16/2014 5:25:09 PM

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5/17/2014 9:09:37 AM
  1. Over the lap at the edge of a bed or couch – This is my favorite position. The spanker sits at the edge of a bed or couch. The spankee lies face down across his lap with her bottom positioned for convenient spanking. For all over the lap positions, the best implements are short paddles, hairbrushes, or similar small toys.

  2. Over the lap on a plain, armless chair – This classic position is overrated. The woman must support herself with hands and toes. This balancing act distracts from the more important matter at hand.

  3. Over the lap at the center of a bed – In this variation, the spanker sits on the bed with legs extended and the spankee lies across his lap. This position works best when the spanker is positioned at the head of the bed and can lean back against a wall or headboard.

  4. The Scissor – This position is identical to over the lap, except that the spanker places one leg over both of the spankee’s legs. This arrangement keeps the recipient in places and controls kicking.

  5. Hands and knees – As the name suggests, the spankee is positioned upon hands and knees, typically on a bed or the floor. This position is convenient for both spanking and sex. Almost any implement can be used.

  6. Standing with hands down – The spankee stands, bent over, with hands placed on a chair or bed. This classic position lends itself to the use of longer, more severe implements.

  7. Standing ankle grab – The spankee stands, bent far over, with hands around her ankles. This is the traditional institutional corporal punishment stance. It stretches the bottom to make it more vulnerable. Longer, more severe implements are typically used.

  8. Standing over leg – The spanker places one leg on a stool or similar platform while the spankee faces her spanker and bends over the extended thigh.

  9. Standing arm around waist – The spankee faces the spanker and bends forward while the spanker’s arm encircles her waist.

  10. Spoon – Most couples are very familiar with the spoon position, where the spanker lies on his side behind and parallel to the spankee. While not an ideal arrangement for spanking, it works for a few quick swats. In such close quarters, implements are impractical.

  11. The Splits – This is an odd position that works surprisingly well. The spanker sits cross-legged in the center of a bed with pillows behind his back for support. The spankee then positions herself on her stomach with her legs straddling her partner. Pillows beneath her torso are helpful. Short to medium sized implements work best. Interestingly, the spanker can easily employ an implement in each hand for rapid fire spanking.

  12. Kneeling – The spankee kneels on the floor or a bed, often with her hands bound overhead. This position works well for belts, straps, canes, and similar whippy implements.

  13. Janeen

    ’s kneel
    – The spankee kneels on the seat of a chair with her arms wrapped around the back. This position allows for almost any implement.

  14. Over the back or arm of a chair or couch – This position is relatively comfortable for the spankee (aside from the obvious) because she is fully supported. Almost any implement is appropriate.

  15. Lying on seat of chair – The spankee places knees on the floor and her chest on the seat of a chair. In the case of a rocking chair, the rocking motion can be utilized to enhance and intensify the spanking.

  16. Diaper – OK, I hate this one. The spankee lies on her back at the edge of a bed. The spanker stands on the floor and lifts her legs into the air. The bottom is fully exposed as is every other private locale. Short implements work best.

  17. Lying flat on bed, couch, or floor – The spankee lies on her stomach, typically on a bed. A common variation places the spankee’s torso atop a pile of pillows.

  18. During doggy style sex – This sounds better than it is. In fact, the spanker is so close that he cannot reach the primary spanking surfaces. As a result, he ends up spanking hips and thighs instead. Many spankees dislike this type of play.

  19. During woman on top sex – In contrast, this spanking and sex combination can actually work, though aim can be a challenge. The spanker typically employs a long handled implement such as a bath brush and reaches around. Since the spanker cannot see his target, he must spank by feel.

  20. The tuck – The spankee assumes a low, face down crouch with knees beneath her. Because bones are exposed, this position works best with flexible leather implements.




5/14/2014 2:50:30 PM

“So this is how my oh-so-perfect daughter behaves when she thinks her parents can’t see. I saw what you made Billy do, and I heard your nasty threat. It’s obvious from your own words that you enjoy embarrassing your brother. There is also a dirty sexual element to your behaviour. It’s high time to bring this to an end.”

Billy Cotterel was a longstanding mate of mine. We went to the same primary school. We were evacuated together (where we got up to all kinds of mischief) and were both members of the ‘Mudlarks’, but we now went to different schools.

Billy’s family were a bit weird (I guess that is a bit rich, coming from me!!), because they never called him by his proper name – they just call him ’Boy’. Billy had a sister, Kathy, who was a couple of years older than him. Billy’s dad was good fun, except when he had a few drinks – when he gave vent to a temper. His mum favoured Kathy in everything, she could do no wrong. His dad tried to be more even-handed, but it was no use, his mum and Kathy ruled the house.

Kathy teased Billy at every opportunity. She told tales about him and, when there were no facts to use, she would make up a story. Their mum never questioned Kathy’s tales and would often grab Billy, put him across her knee, take his pants down and spank him while Kathy looked on. Kathy, of course couldn’t leave it at that. When she and Billy were with other friends, she would get everyone’s attention by shouting out that she had seen Billy’s bare bum get spanked.

One day, when Billy and I were on our own, he told me that he couldn’t take much more of his sister’s behaviour. He wanted to get his revenge, but couldn’t think how to do it. We gave the problem some serious thought and, after discarding several ideas, came up with a plan that was so simple we thought it would work.

This is what happened.

It was a Saturday, and I called at Billy’s house to see what he was doing (though I actually knew, as usual he had a load of chores to complete). Kathy came to the door and in her usual unpleasant way said, “Boy’s busy with housework, but you can always help him unless you don’t like getting your pretty little hands dirty. I don’t care, I’m going to meet mum in town later and we are going for a cream tea – so there!

I said that I would be happy to help and went to join Billy in the garden. Our timing was perfect. After about fifteen minutes Billy’s dad came home, having enjoyed a few beers with his mates at the nearby British Legion club. He went to the sun lounger we had positioned on the patio, and stretched himself out for a doze in the sunshine.

We set everything up as we had planned. I worked my way towards the end of the garden and was able to slip into the summerhouse to hide. When Kathy came flaunting into the garden to rub in the fact that she was going for a treat with her mum, she found Billy struggling with the stopcock. “What on earth are you doing?” she said. Billy explained that he had to fill the watering cans but nothing was coming out of the tap. He realised the stopcock was closed and was about to open it, as soon as…………..But Kathy wouldn’t let him finish and said, “God, you are pathetic. I suppose it’s too stiff for little Boy to turn. Get out of the way and I’ll show you some strength.”

- 2 -

Billy made a show of trying to prevent her grabbing the stopcock key, saying something about not being quite ready, but Kathy pushed him to one side and grabbed the key. She was about to turn it, when she suddenly turned and grabbed Billy.

“I’m going to have a bit of fun with you. If you do as I say, I won’t tell mum about it”.

Billy made a good show of giving in. “Please don’t tell mum, my bum’s still sore from last night”

“Yes, that was a really good whopping you got, and I saw it all. I saw your willie sticking out as well. I can’t wait to tell the girls about it.”

“Please don’t. You know how they all tease me and make me go red.”

“That’s the whole point. Anyway, I won’t tell them, providing you do as I say.”

“Alright; I give in. I’ll do whatever you say” (This was not part of our plan, but Billy just had to play it by ear.)

“Strip down to your underpants.” Billy protested, but did as he was told.

“Now hold the end of the hose over your head, and keep it there”

What neither of them could see, but I could, was that Mr Cotterel had woken up and turned over on the lounger, so that he was facing in the direction of Billy and Kathy.

Kathy was saying, “Prepare to get very wet. When you are nicely soaked, we might have your knickers off as well.” So saying she gave the stopcock key a mighty wrench.

But the result was not what she had expected, because Billy was smiling at her.

“I tried to tell you that I wasn’t ready.”

Kathy could hear water running somewhere, and turned around. At the same time she felt strong arms grab hold of her. It was her dad. I had watched him leap off the lounger when the first drops of water hit him. He moved with impressive speed and had Kathy in his grip before she could turn. He was a strong man and, despite all her kicking and wriggling, had no difficulty with carrying the girl back to the lounger, which was still the target for the lawn spray.

Kathy screamed as the water hit her and soon soaked her fancy shorts and halter top. Her dad kept his grip on her and called for Billy to turn off the water.

“So this is how my oh-so-perfect daughter behaves when she thinks her parents can’t see. I saw what you made Billy do, and I heard your nasty threat. It’s obvious from your own words that you enjoy embarrassing your brother. There is also a dirty sexual element to your behaviour. It’s high time to bring this to an end.”

- 3 -

While this was going on, Billy had joined me in the Summer House, where we could see without being seen. We gave each other a congratulatory hug.

Kathy was getting scared, she had never seen her dad like this. Mum was always there to protect her, but not this time.

“Right young lady; I’m going to do something I should have done years ago. You are ill-mannered and a bully with a very nasty dirty mind. There is only one effective response to such behaviour – a thorough spanking. I only wish your brother was still here so that you could know what it is like to be watched.”

“Please Daddy; don’t spank me. I’m sorry for what I did, and I promise never to do it again. I’ll do anything you say, but please don’t spank me. Pleeeeeeease.”

Her dad said nothing in reply. He changed his grip on Kathy and laid her over his lap. In seconds, her shorts and knickers were down to her knees, exposing her very white and rather flabby bottom. Mr Cotterel knew full well where we were and signalled us to come over, but put a finger to his lips to warn us to keep quiet.

The first two spanks left clear imprints on the crown of each bum cheek. More followed as he sought to correct years of neglect of his parental duty. I could see that this was not the sort of measured punishment I was used to, but at the same time I thought his anger was understandable.

Kathy was a sobbing wreck. Her bum was afire and her dad’s hand continued to fan the flames. She thought of all the times she had watched and laughed as Boy had got the same from Mum. She had never imagined the agony he must have felt.

Finally the spanks stopped, but the fires continued to burn. Her dad held her still and prevented her from rubbing her bottom. In that burning stillness, she thought about what she had done over the years to deserve such a punishment. She faced up to the fact that it was wrong and resolved to make a change.

Mr Cotterel beckoned Billy forward and me to step back a little. He stood Kathy on her feet, with her back towards Billy.

“Your treatment of your brother and your attitude towards me have gone uncorrected for too long. I failed in my Fatherly duty to you but I think we are both going to change now. If your brother was here now, what would you want to say to him?”

“I would want to say sorry for what I had done.”

“Then turn around and do just that.”

Kathy gasped and turned to see her brother smiling at her. With no hesitation, she stepped out of her shorts, ran to Billy and took him in her arms, saying, “I’m sorry; I’m sorry; I’m sorry”. They held each other tight and as their father came to join them.


5/5/2014 2:32:06 PM

Fourteen year old Terry was confident that he had outsmarted his aunt and uncle by suggesting a punishment he thought they would never deliver, “Maybe I shouldn’t be able to sit down for a whole day.” Everything suddenly changed when, as Terry writes, "I saw my aunt waiting with a strap I had way too many memories of."

It was just before my 15th birthday and I was spending the summer on the farm that belonged to my father’s side of the family. I had been doing that since I was around five and was treated like one of the family after a few days every summer. On this particular day my aunt had given me permission to take my younger cousins to the river where we could swim and get out of some of the summer heat which we all wanted to do.

The problem started when one of my cousins who was six years younger than me said he wanted to jump off a bridge. He would have top clear some rocks to get to the deeper water and when it came time to do so he became afraid and changed his mind. I, being the know-it-all that I was, began to tease him into jumping until he finally did. To move forward quickly, he didn’t quite make past all of the rocks and skinned himself up pretty badly including a few small cuts. When he got out of the water he was bawling and ran home before I could even get a hold of him to see if he was all right.

I let everyone else continue to swim, and of course I swam and had a good time with them, for another hour or so, then we all walked back to the house. When we got there my aunt, uncle and grandmother were all in the kitchen along with my cousin who wasn’t crying any more but was wearing several bandages where he had scrapped himself. Needless to say everyone just stared daggers at me.

My aunt started by lecturing me on how irresponsible I had been and then asked me if I really dared my cousin to make the jump and I admitted that I had. I started to say how sorry I was and was allowed to chatter on for a while before I was told to be quiet.

My aunt then said that since I knew I had been wrong she would let me pick an appropriate punishment. I was being smart I thought because I didn’t want to be left at home for any trips to town, or to the drive in, or anything else I could think of. I also knew that while both my aunt and uncle believed in spankings, they pretty much had stopped using them when my cousins reached 11 or 12 and I hadn’t had one from either of them since I was 11. With all of this in mind I blurted out the following in the belief that it would show how sorry I was and wouldn’t be done anyway.

“Maybe I shouldn’t be able to sit down for a whole day.”

With that out I saw my aunt smile and say that sounds about right. She then told me I could go get my swim suit off and get dressed. I had won at least that is what I thought at the time.

All afternoon and evening nothing more was said about the incident and I was absolutely convinced that I was off the hook. And I was taking quite a bit of pride in how smart I had been. Before we went to bed that night, we slept in the same room, I told my cousin how sorry I was and believed the incident was over and went to sleep one very satisfied 14 year old.

While my aunt and uncle usually got up around 5:30 but let us kids sleep until 7:30 or 8:00, that wasn’t to happen the following morning. At around 6:00 my uncle came into the room and woke me up and told me to come with him. With the way he was holding my arm I knew I didn’t have a choice but was still unprepared for what was to happen.

My uncle literally marched me downstairs and right to the den where I saw my aunt waiting with a strap I had way too many memories of. She didn’t say a word as my uncle flipped me over the arm on the sofa and held me by my shoulders with my bottom facing the wrong direction in my opinion. My aunt then grabbed the elastic on my pajamas and pulled them down, In no time at all she was using that strap and I was begging her to stop, but if course I wasn’t about to be listened to.

I have no idea how long she slapped me with that strap but when she was done I was beside myself bawling and promising to never do anything bad ever again. When it was over I was marched into the kitchen, my pajama bottoms had already fallen completely off because of my kicking, and told to stand in the corner with my hands on my head until told to move. As my cousins came down, some had obviously heard me, they giggled all through breakfast I didn’t dare move from the corner. I didn’t ever remember feeling so sore and the heat in my cheeks was unbearable and all I wanted to do was rub the pain out but didn’t dare do that either.

After everyone had eaten I was allowed to eat but had to stand at the kitchen counter because there was no way I could sit after the strapping I had just gotten. Only after I ate was I allowed to touch my bottom and try to give it some relief. I was then allowed to dress for the day.

I spent most of the morning alone. I went back to the bedroom to dress and just laid on my front for quite a while because I didn’t want to face anyone. I was still wet eyed when I finally went back down stairs and saw my aunt. I must have told her I was sorry a million times and that I had learned my lesson. I remember thinking that I was sure glad that was over.

By 11 or so I thought I might try to sit down and found I could if I used a very soft pillow, but still didn’t want to and was glad I didn’t have too. I thought maybe it would be good to eat at the buffet in the dining room for lunch even though it would be embarrassing to do so with my cousins and the two hands we had on the farm there. Since we always ate at 12:00, I still had not sat much since morning and had pretty much decided that although it wouldn’t feel good, I was going to try to sit down for lunch.

I was in the kitchen helping when my uncle came in and grabbed my arm again. My grandmother just looked at me and had a smile on her face. I was taken back to the den where my aunt was again waiting with the strap. My uncle told me to get my pants off and I started to but all he did was turn me over his knee and give me 15 to 20 hard hand spanks until I was crying again and repeated his orders. It was just like in the morning, my uncle held me over the sofa arm and I got a second strapping that I knew everyone had to hear. As in the morning my pants and shorts were off and all I had on was a t-shirt when I was taken to the dining room and shown my place in front of the buffet. Needless to say I ate standing again and glad I was allowed to. But they kept an eye on me and warned me about any rubbing.

I was too sore to even think about sitting all afternoon and my cousins, especially the one I had teased, kept reminding me of it. I tried to get them to stop but my aunt heard me telling them to shut up and warned me that if the strap wasn’t having the effect she wanted, mainly to put me back in my place, she still had her hairbrush. The way I was feeling then I just kept quiet.

Just before dinner I was again escorted to the den and my aunt was waiting again with the strap. I begged her to not use it again and started to cry as my uncle stripped my jeans down and held me over the sofa arm again. Needless to say I got another strapping and ate another meal at the buffet in the dining room. This time, as the previous two, my pants and shorts had fallen off during the spanking and in addition to everyone having heard my punishment they all got a good view if its results. I don’t remember much of what was said except the comments that I had asked not to be able to sit down for a day and it was felt the punishment was fitting for putting my younger cousin in danger as I had done.

I also remember feeling a sense of relief because at least my spanking was over even though I doubted if I would be sitting for a day or two at least (that turned out to be right). Unfortunately I was a little optimistic about that because I had one more trip to the den before I was sent to bed and wound up crying myself to sleep and yy rear was too sore to even have a sheet laying in it. And it was two to three days before I wanted to sit and eat with everyone else like normal person again and believe me, I was exceptionally good the rest of my stay.

I learned later that my aunt and uncle had called my Mom and told her what I had said I should get as a punishment and she suggested the details you just heard. I also remember that when I got back home a few weeks later I was reminded of Mom’s rule that if I got a spanking anywhere else there would be one waiting for me at home too. I didn’t get four in one day from Mom like I had on the farm, but did get one a week for four weeks.

That was the last time I ever teased a little kid so I guess the punishment worked.

You are welcome and invited to contact the authors

Rose and Terry


4/29/2014 3:30:20 AM
GUESS WHO RUNS THIS HOUSEHOLD?
Lucille and I had been married for about twenty years, and had two boys, ages 17 and 15. My wife is a school teacher and a stern disciplinarian. While she cannot paddle in school, she has never hesitated to spank the boys, and, as a result, we have two very well behaved young men. In fact, the oldest received his latest spanking (over his strenuous ions that he is "too old") the day after his seventeenth birthday for staying out too late the previous night.
Lucille has always insisted on administering the boys' discipline, saying that it will be beneficial to their future marriages if the are accustomed to accepting correction from a woman. She had, however, never indicated any desire to spank me even though we frequently argued and bickered, perhaps because she usually won. I, on the other hand, had frequently wondered what it would be like to be put across her lap. One day I stumbled across the DWC website. After perusing it, I waited for an opportunity to suggest that Lucille visit it. When I did, she got a look on her face that I could not decipher, and said that she would check it.
A few days later she called me into her study, told me that she had read every word on the site, then, with an enigmatic smile, asked me if this is what I wanted. I guess I blushed a little and said, "I think so." Her smile changed to a look of disapproval. "I think so is not good enough. I have no intention of catering to some sexual fantasy of yours. If and when I spank you it will be because you have submitted totally to me, and that, henceforth, I wear the pants in this family. I will give the orders; you will obey them. I will give you a daily and weekly list of chores; you will do them or be punished. I will handle ALL of our finances; you will give me your paycheck, and I will give you what I think is a sufficient allowance. I will allow NO profanity in my house. You will make no arrangements to be with your buddies without first getting my permission, and you are to let them know that you HAVE to get my permission. Which brings me to what will probably be the most difficult for you. We will make it obvious to all our friends through our conversations and actions in their presence that I am the head of this house. I won't tell them that I spank you unless you force me to, but we will leave no doubts as to whose in charge. I am certain that I will add other items from time to time as is pleases me, but this should give you a good idea of what I desire. I have put up with the bickering for the boys' sakes, but in a couple of years I was going to give you a choice of this or divorce. Do I make myself clear? If you are willing to submit to me, you are to ask me for your FIRST spanking, and, believe me, you will get it! You have a week to accept my terms. Otherwise, we go on for only two more years as we have, and then you will get the choice I mentioned. You will be happier if you submit now. You may leave." I started to , but her eyes were like steel. "I said 'Leave' NOW" All I could manage was to mumble, "Yes ma'am"
I cannot describe the following week - sweating, worrying, fantasizing, and finally surrendering. That evening after dinner and the boys had left for a ballgame, I said the fateful words: "Lucille, I want my first spanking." She gave me a knowing look and said, "I was expecting this. That is why I gave the boys money for the game. Wash the dishes and come to my study." I washed and dried the dishes. Then knocked on her study door. "Come in, dear" When I entered, she was sitting in a straight back chair, her skirt folded neatly back, and the paddle that I had made for her to use with the boys was lying in her lap. "Come here, dear" she indicated a spot to her right. I went over and started to unbuckle my belt, only to have Lucille slap my hands. "I'll take care of that." She said. She lowered my pants and my underpants. I was embarrassed by my obvious arousal. This time her smile was almost wicked. "That little thing will not be as perky in a few minutes. Now lay over my left knee." I hesitated, and she almost cooed, "I can understand your feelings, dear. You stand there now as my husband, but you will get up after this spanking, my obedient little boy. Believe me, you will be much happier than you think right now. Enough talk, get over my knee NOW"
I lowered myself into position and felt her firm left hand on my back. At the same time I felt the pressure of her right leg across the back of my legs. She gave me about a dozen hard swats, then stopped. Almost mockingly she asked, "Is this what you expected? I hope so because I am going to thoroughly enjoy this." With that she resumed the spanking. I don't know how many swats I took before beginning to squirm and asking her to stop. "Stop? I will decide when to stop, and, believe me that is a long way off. Before I stop you will have quit squirming, started crying and delivered yourself totally to my authority. I am a little sorry for you, but that is what you asked for, and that is exactly what I am going to give you."
She pressed a little more firmly with her left hand and increased the pressure of her right leg, and continued with the spanking. The swats rained down in a terrible rhythm; what started as a glow in my buttocks became a flame. The paddle continued its rhythm and the flame became an all-consuming fire. I was beyond begging; my crying had deteriorated into incoherent blubbering. I lay across her lap, the pressure to keep me there was no longer needed. I simply lay there, completely submitted to taking whatever she wished to deliver. She did finally stop and pushed me off her lap.
Standing over me, she said, "Get up, I have something for you to do before you stand in the little boy's corner. Sit down and rewrite this in your handwriting." She handed me a typed letter in which I confessed my total lack of self-control and asked her to assume the roll of my mother, spanking me whenever she felt I needed it. I was in no condition to question her. I did ask if I could write it, standing, and was told that she wanted good penmanship and I was to SIT.
After I completed it she read it over and asked me how I would like copies of it sent to all of our friends. The horror must have shown in my face, because she said, "Don't worry. That will not happen unless, you defy me, even once, when I tell you to get across my lap, or if you are ever foolish enough to try to leave me. Clear? I'm sure it is. Now get in your corner.
I stood in the corner for the next half hour while Lucille laughed and joked on the phone with one of her girlfriends. When she hung up, she ordered me to bed for the evening, saying that she was going to a movie. I heard her leave the house, but could not bring myself to get out of bed. I simply wanted to do as I had been told. When she came home well after midnight, she asked me if I had stayed in bed, and when I assured her that I had, she smiled warmly and said, "You are learning to be a good little boy and that is what I expect of you." She did not delay the "Most difficult thing for me" The next weekend we had three other couples over for Bridge. Before they arrived, Lucille gave me what she termed "A nice little spanking" to remind me of how I was to behave. From the beginning of the evening, Lucille ordered me to "get this" or "do that" and I quickly complied. One of the ladies remarked on my willingness to serve, and Lucille simply told her that "Ralph and I have an understanding and he knows that I am the boss. Isn't that right, Ralph?" I knew better than fudge, and said, "We decided that there can only be one boss in the house and felt that it is best if that person is the woman."
There were some grimaces from the men, and a few chuckles and "How nice!" from the women. A couple of them said they would have to "talk" with their husbands. At the end of the evening, after the guests had left, Lucille told me that I had been a good little boy, and that it would be easier from now on, now that our relationship was known. It has been. My life has been easier. There is no arguing. Very simply, Lucille decides what I am to do, and I do it. If I displease her, I am punished. I still get to bowl and play golf with my buddies, but I must get her permission, and sometimes, quite capriciously, she says, "No!" Perhaps she enjoys hearing me tell Rick or Henry that my wife won't let me this week. She runs our home and I am glad she does.

4/15/2014 4:21:27 AM
This sub male is genuinely submissive and understands the need to serve.

I seek a Mistress to dominate me for Her use and pleasures as well as train me for Her service by expanding my limits to Her requirements and needs.

Ultimate ownership will be discussed and may be possible if that is what Mistress seeks.

Retired male and although totally in charge in my daily work. i am sincere, obedient and truly submissive and know my place when in the presence of Mistress. This sub is most content when Mistress is totally satisfied and pleased, no matter the chosen chore or service.
i realize that chemistry is important and also realize that for most people - reality does not allow for 24/7 TPE - but that a sub should be able to switch to vanilla as required and switch back to total submission when directed by Mistress. This sub understands that D/s may best be initiated with occasional (determined by Mistress) opportunities to serve and earn its place at Mistress's feet.

This sub also understands that a submissive male is much more valuable, attentive and responsive when it's release and sex is totally controlled by Mistress and understands that this could be achieved through the use of a chastity cage - especially if the Mistress and sub are not in the same location 24/7.

Face and additional pictures are available to a serious Mistress.
 
I believe in Female Superiority and Female Led Authority and seek a Mistress that envisions Her own defined;
 
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5. Tease, Denial & Humiliation
6. Male Chastity & Orgasm Control
7. Corporal Discipline
8. Strap-On Training if desired

 

With head bowed,

3/29/2014 10:18:03 AM
Behavior modification can work extremely well in teaching your man exactly what makes you happy so there is no doubt, no grey area. No room for error. Spanking can be a very clear cut -- not to mention exciting way to administer that behavior modification. The best way to implement this is to find a time when you and your man are relaxed and congenial, sit him down and tell him your plan to begin training him, laying down the structure of this plan in a simple straightforward way.  Men do not respond well to complicated or convoluted constructs. You can even include rewards as well as punishments. (Only the two of you know what rewards will motivate.) However, the important thing is that there are consistent and unpleasant spanking consequences for breaching the expectations you set up.

For example, if you have repeatedly told your partner you’d like certain specific demonstrations of affection to occur regularly – or even just on occasion – in order to ensure that YOU feel inspired to have plenty of sex play, but he gets lazier and lazier about that, well, write that down on your short list.  If you need a fair amount of his participation in the household chores, list exactly what they are and how often his help is needed. Clearly defined, specifically delineated actions are essential. It must be measurable, to be fair. Men don’t do well with hints and vagaries. He needs to know when he’s gotten the job done. Or not. And then… And here’s the most important thing: TOTAL CONSISENCY. Just like training a puppy, when the rules are broken, punishment must be administered as soon as possible. The further the punishment is (in time) from the bad act, the weaker the association and the slower the improvement.


3/25/2014 4:09:05 AM

in fact I had a similar thing happen to me a few years ago, went into the Bay in TO with a Domme and I picked her a pair of panties, after much deliberation she agreed on a pair and she requested that she be allowed to go to the dressing room to try them on, she was shown the way and she did try them on and she removed them and I paid for them, she then asked the sales lady if she can change into them and was told she could do that,she then went to change them and on her return placed the used panties in my hands in front of the sale lady and told me to carry them for her untill we got home, then she would punish me for various infractions that had happened during my,our shopping visit to the mall, including touching the panties when she told be to keep my hands off and in my pocket. When I rfeturned to her apartment I was instructed to strip down to my panties, hold out my hands in front and was given sever hand strapping until my hands were red and throbbing.


3/17/2014 6:46:34 AM

The tawse, sometimes formerly spelled taws (the plural of Scots

taw, a thong of a whip) is an implement used for corporal punishment

. It was used for educational discipline

, primarily in Scotland

, but also in schools in the English cities of Newcastle upon Tyne, Gateshead, Manchester and Walsall.

A tawse consists of a strip of leather

, with one end split into a number of tails. The thickness of the leather and the number of tails is variable. Many Scottish saddlers made tawses for local schoolmasters. The official name "tawse" was hardly ever used in conversation by either teachers or pupils, who instead referred to it as either the school strap or the belt, the normal term for an unforked implement, as worn in trousers (see belt

).

Scottish public (state) schools

used the tawse to punish pupils of either sex on the palm of the outstretched hand. Pupils were usually instructed to hold out one hand, palm uppermost, supported by the other hand below, which made it difficult to move the hand away during the infliction of the strokes. It also ensured that the full force of each stroke was taken by the hand being strapped. The punishment was usually inflicted by the class teacher in front of the class, to act as a deterrent to others; sometimes by a designated teacher, such as the Deputy Headmaster, to whom the pupil was sent.

In Walsall and Gateshead, and in some schools in Manchester and Nottingham, male students were tawsed on the seat of the trousers

.

Some Scottish private (independent) schools

also used the tawse, such as Keil School

, but others such as Fettes College

used the cane instead, as did most schools in England outside the north-east.

In 1982 a judgment of the European Court of Human Rights

about parental choice in education led indirectly to the use of the tawse (and all other forms of corporal punishment) being banned by law in UK state schools. The legislation came into force in 1987, but most Scottish local education authorities had already abolished it by the early 1980s.

Original tawses manufactured in Lochgelly in Fife are now considered collectables and may be sold for several hundred pounds each.

The tawse was also used for judicial corporal punishment

in Scotland as an alternative to the more usual birch. Courts could sentence boys of over 14 but under 16 to up to 36 strokes with an extra-heavy tawse for any offence. This was administered to the offender's bare buttocks. Judicial corporal punishment was abolished in 1948.


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This sub also understands that a submissive male is much more valuable, attentive and responsive when it's release and sex is totally controlled by Mistress and understands that this could be achieved through the use of a chastity cage - especially if the Mistress and sub are not in the same location 24/7.

Face and additional pictures are available to a serious Mistress.
 
I believe in Female Superiority and Female Led Authority and seek a Mistress that envisions Her own defined;
 
1. Submission to Female Authority
2. Obedience Training
3. Service to Mistress
4. Female Body Worship
5. Tease, Denial & Humiliation
6. Male Chastity & Orgasm Control
7. Corporal Discipline
8. Strap-On Training if desired

 

With head bowed,

 


3/25/2013 6:05:21 PM

Spanking is good for you:

Spanking therapy cures depression, stress and suicide crises
The effect is astounding: a patient starts seeing only bright colors in the surrounding world
Russian scientists from the city of Novosibirsk, Siberia, made a sensational report at the international conference devoted to new methods of treatment and rehabilitation in narcology. The report was called "Methods of painful impact to treat addictive behavior."
Siberian scientists believe that addiction to alcohol and narcotics, as well as depression, stress, suicidal thoughts and psychosomatic diseases occur when an individual loses his or her interest in life. The absence of the will to function is caused with decreasing production of endorphins - the substance, which is known as the hormone of happiness. If a depressed individual receives a physical punishment, spanking that is, it will stir up endorphin receptors, activate the "production of happiness" and eventually remove depressive feelings.
Russian scientists recommend the following course of the spanking therapy: 30 sessions of 60 strokes on the bare buttocks in every procedure. The most common instrument of use was a heavy leather paddle or wide leather strap. A group of drug addicts, depressed and stressed out individuals volunteered to test the new method of treatment: the results can be described as good to excellent.
Doctor of Biological Sciences, Sergei Speransky, is a very well known figure in Novosibirsk. The doctor became one of the authors of the shocking spanking therapy. The professor used the self-flagellation method to cure his own depression; he also recovered from two heart attacks with the help of physical tortures too.
"The spanking therapy becomes much more efficient when a patients receives the punishment from a person of the opposite sex. The effect is astounding: the patient starts seeing only bright colors in the surrounding world, the heartache disappears, although it will take a certain time for the buttocks to heal, of course," Sergei Speransky told the Izvestia newspaper.
The spanking therapy has not become a new discovery in the history of medicine. Tibetan monks widely used it for medical purposes too.
"People might probably think of me as a masochist," Dr. Speransky said. "But I can assure you that I am not a classic masochist at all," he added.
The revolutionary method may take the Russian healthcare to a whole new level. The method is cheap and highly efficient, as its authors assure.
 

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