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About Sardaukar
First of all, my name is Mark my nickname is Sar. I go by both because one is my real name the other is a nickname I have had for 30 years, before the time of the internet and chat sites. I answer to both in any situation. I am in committed relationship with 2 beautiful women, Red_Elle and GothyMischief. We are a functional 24/7, the Master/slaves relationship being a constant but not defining factor in our relationship. Ergo, you're more likely to find them riding the grocery cart down store aisles, than caged in heels. Not to say that never happens ;) We are poly fidelity; don't know what that is? Ask. My friends, family, in-laws and co-workers know what I am and who I am, and though some may not understand or like my lifestyle choice they accept it as part of me. I am a blunt, sarcastic, egotistical, asshole. Difference being I will be that way to your face and not behind your back or on a keyboard. Though I deem myself as “low maintenance” this does not mean I have low standards. It means; I like what I like, how I like it, when I like it. Not when it suits someone else. I have been called stringent, distant and even cold. On the same note I have been called giving, caring and loyal. It all depends on how you act or treat myself or members my "Family". To some I am called Sir, a few call me Daddy, two call me Master. I am known in the local (insert sarcasm here) “community” but in no way do I consider myself a leader, protector or even a part of it. I do things for People which may or may not help build a sense of community, but never for the "community". If you boast or claim to be a leader or protector of the "community"....you're not. As the quote goes "Any man who says 'I am the King', is no King at all." If this offends some people then let me give you an “awwww poor iddle diddums” and send you on your way. I have little time for stupidity, the moronic and online games of individuals. I have a life, not an online persona, I teach, mentor on occasion, and share my knowledge when I feel it is appropriate and when I have the time to do so, or if I feel the person or situation is worth it. I Co-Host an event called “Assy&Sar: Unashamed and Uncensored©” with my partner in crime Assy_ it is something I do for shits and giggles. This does NOT make me anything important or to be impressed by. Thank you for your time. Mark Dean aka Sar Enjoy your journey |
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It's Christmas time , Lighten up people. I mean Really?!?!? , Really??? ....Really.
I find it damn funny that people really can not take the stick out of their ass, talk like a normal person, whether it is to a bottom or Top. I mean c'mon people, stop believing your own press and speak like a person.
this is more I think to the silly ass tops out there that think they live in a world of darkness. Hint. no you live in the real world, pay bills, work (god hopes your working) and live life. Yeah what we do is out of the "norm" but it does not mean you act like an idiot, with keyboard balls and online fantasy.
Have a Happy HOHO, Merry Christmas, Kwanza, Chanukah, XMAS, Holidays or whatever you have and be real.
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I have to say this, just so things are clear, yes i have a slave, she ROCKS!!!! if you wnt to date one of us you are going to date both of us, we are Polyfidelity, that means we do not cheat or go behind the others back. I have access to her account and she has access to mine. Shocker there huh? Not really it is called trust and open communication between partners. Are we looking yes and no, we will find someone who matches well with us at some point but it is not a rush or need. |
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I do enjoy talking to new folks and old folks. But what I do get a chuckle out of is those whom think they are aall that when I have been doing this before they were born. This does not discredit their knowledge and experience. But please fluff somewhere else.
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Just saw this on another site and thought it fitting for all the "Pro Dom/mes" out there.
If you do it for LOOT You are nothing but, a PROSTITUTE.
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Well I still stick by my original entry here. Speak like a human to another human and most of the time you will not get a response. Goes to show how much of the online chat room nonsense has filtered it's way into real life situations.? So to those looking for something or someone and prefer to respond to some ingratiated diatribe pontificated by some fool, knock your self out. You will find that doormat label on your forehead in no time.
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The ability to communicate is a lost art. Seems that if you actually speak to someone like a human they tend to ignore it. Heaven forbid that I don't talk down to someone. Yes I am a Dom/Top this does not mean that I am unable to hold a conversation that requires the stupidity of talking down to a person. I have done this for a long time, yeah I am OLD in some eyes. But guess what Dominance is not the ability to act like a moron. It is the ability to rise above the chaff and common clowns.
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