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Dominant Couple, 41, Sarasota, Florida
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Male Dominant, 51, New Orleans, Louisiana
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Female Submissive, 44, Atlanta, GA, Georgia
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About saraseeking4u
Sweet lesbian red-head full of spirit and real-life Ds/BDSM experiances seeking Domme or sub.
guys... please do not contact ok?
Ok, more for all of you: i was trained as a slave by my ex for 3 years and have experianced both sides of the crop since her leaving me. That was a couple of years ago so i have gotten in a reasonable amount of experiance on the top of her.
I am not a 'lifestyler' as this is an intergral part of my life. Not everything I do revolves around being in leather/latex, carrying a crop or being on my knees worshipping a sweet girl. I love movies, dancing, music, reading, hiking/camping, etc.
Unfortunately family life/living situation makes it hard for me to be open and completely out of the closet about who I am, and I am hoping to change that here within the next 6 to 12 months (sooner if I am able to relocate somewhere else).
I don't just kneel to anyone but I am respectfull of everyone at least to start. You must loose my respect&trust. Once you have, good luck trying to get it back.
Again, for those guys who can NOT get a clue... DO NOT MSG ME!
*** UPDATE *** Ok, I don't smoke/use tobacco, I don't really drink, and I don't use drugs. If you smoke (anything) or use tobacco... keep moving to the next profile. If you use drugs to alter yourself (including Pot, legal drugs improperly, etc) then you are not in control of yourself and move on. If you drink to excess you might have a problem, but please... move on.
I agree with a person's right to pretty much do what they want with THEIR bodies, but i am not entrusting my body and life to people who clearly have chemical dependancy issues.
sara
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Well hasn't it been a bit since I've put anything here.? Let's see...
Since almost everyone in my "favorite users" list has not bothered to reply (even though they've been on in the last few days), I decided to remove them.? Their loss, my moving on.
One lovely Dominant contacted me and I hope this works out.? I wasn't expecting to be on at all this weekend but I'm hoping we do get together during this week.
Otherwise life hasn't been bad.? I've been better and been MUCH worse so I consider it on the positive side of the equasion.
Happy Labor Day! sara
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mmm... just out of a 10-day record setting heatwave that kept me off my computer (no a/c) and realize it's been two weeks since my last entry.
Let's see, had one interested person on this site who went silent.? I just find out today through a mutual friend she thinks i'm allready collared!? Opps... i'm not!? So far nobody has worked out but then again, great things take time.
Now that the heatwave is over (yes Mr. Weatherman, it is over RIGHT?) i can get back to my online surfing etc.
Other than that i must say life is 'ok' for now.? Maybe the future will be better, and that's what i expect it to be.
sweet kisses sara
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sheesh... life may give you good days but you can't let that keep you from watching out for the potholes in the road.
Chatted with some seemingly nice and interesting mistress'.? One i haven't heard from since our initial exchange and the other turned out to be clueless.? i mean, what part of "i need to get to know you WELL and belive this is going somewhere r/l before i take the chance of being tossed out on the street by getting a web cam" is hard to understand.
i was having this nice exchange with someone from collarme, who contacted me, talking about her hubby the sub and how i wouldn't have to be anywhere near him etc.? We had been chatting barely a week when i get the ohhh-sooo familiar "now you need to get a web cam to prove you are female before i talk with you further" ultimatum.? What?? 7-freaking-days of simple chats here and on yahoo are supposed to be enough time for me to trust you enough to take a chance on screwing up my life?? And this from a 'Dominant' who won't show me her face, but within a week of chatting demands nude pics of me AND and to see me on a webcam.
-- Another thing, why do guys think that my not wanting any messages from them somehow means that "sending a 'chat request' via collarme is different?? Huh?? Well?? Anyone with one of those 'tiny heads between their legs' able to think with their 'slightly bigger heads on their shoulders' enough to tell me where this makes any sense?
Again, kisses and thanks to all my friends on here who have been encouraging and just there to chat.? {{KISSES}}
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Wow... finally a nice week.
Thank you to my friend Mollynmona for being a good friend and introducing me to a lovely Domme (who will remain nameless right now to avoid jinxing anything).? Thank you also to Ms4trufemslv for Your thoughtful and encouraging msgs.
This week has been a blessing thanks to all of you. Sweetest kisses! Sara
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Damm... what fun life has been lately... first, cleaning out the walk-in coolers at the BK where i work i hurt my back. A week off work and some wonderful drugs.
Let's see, maybe there are some new folks on collar-me?? Nope... chat requests from three diff guys AND msgs from this 'slave' who wants me for her and her MASTER.? WTF, can't you read NO MEN?
I give her a chat just to see if MAYBE this is worth persuing... sort of... until i find out he's a POTHEAD.? Ya can't play or be someone's Master if you are a druggie. (yes POT is a drug).? So now i'm an 'overreacting clueless american who doesn't understand how different it is in Canada'.?
Get this... anywhere in the world you do illegal drugs (or misuse/abuse legal ones), it means you are a druggie AND not in control of your own life so don't plan on getting control of MINE.
Sweet Kisses to all the nice folks i have been able to chat/msg with but who seemed to have vanished.
sara
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Well, I THOUGHT I had done everything right... ?
Filled out interests, have "looking for" taken care of, clearly put in my profile several times "Guys do not msg me" AND blocked mail from 'male' profiles.
So what do I get?? Guys pretending to be women sending me mails demanding nude pics (again) and chat requests from self professing 'male-doms' who seem think "males do not msg me" means every guy BUT THEM.
Arrrghhh
Supergirl, please, take me away!
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Ok, the guys are gone (thanks to the msg filter) so what's with the guys pretending to be femdoms?? I mean, what sane person msgs and one of the first things is "i must have nude pics of you or there can be nothing between us"?
Sheesh...
Do i look like i was hatched the day before yesterday?? like i just came out of my first scene?
i don't mean to be rude but, i'm only looking for the serious Dommes who are interested...
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{{slaps forhead}}? sheesh.. what's wrong with people in this world.
guys.. i've blocked you so why bother admiring me.
Ladies, where do you go after "hi", cuz it ain't into a conversation.
please, I'm here and I'm real.? Let's chat.
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