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Female Switch, 48, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Female Submissive, 24, portland, Oregon
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About SarahSerpentine
So... I gotta write a decent profile. Okay. Insert deep, long breath... And begin.
Socrates said the unexamined life is not worth living. Live to question everything.
Obsession, take another look. Remember, every chance you took. Decide, either live with me Or give up - any thought you had of being free (Don't go) I never wanted anybody more than I wanted you (I know) the only thing I ever really loved, was hate. - The Nameless by Slipknot
Note: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.
I'm relocating to Arizona by flight on Tuesday evening October 16th, 2012 to begin an wonderfully amazing life with my Lady and will be under her protection, guidance, and will be trained by her full time. She is also including a specific part of my training plan to teach me how to love and trust again. I am looking forward to being collared by her someday and finally able to break all my walls down.
Look, mates, let's get something cleared up right now before you read my profile and/or do anything with me...
First of all... I am an:
TRANSGENDER/GENDERQUEER
OPEN MINDED
SENSITIVE AND HONEST
So... you got that loud and clear? Good - listen to this:
If you message me about a live in masochist situation or even IM me on Yahoo Messenger and say, "Not interested in TGs. Sorry." That means for you not to read my fucking profile and WASTE my bloody time, mate! Got it? Good. Moving along...
Hi. I'm Christian. Nice to meet you. This is my profile. Enjoy...
I have a spiritual mentor on my faith as a Pagan/student of the Occult. He goes by FraterAo.
I will be active in BDSM but only as needed and with real people. I will be seeking REAL people, not wannabes, flakes, nor even those who chats with me endlessly with no intention of meeting. I am on CollarMe to meet in real time, have fun and maybe fall in love.
My profile is only available for friend requests, chatting and support, as well seeking play partners, friends and events.
I am a Sadomasochist - not a switch, nor a Top/Dom and submissive. Don't confuse the two. I identify as a extreme slave on a masochistic level and I am an SADIST WHO DEPRIVES PAIN AND ENJOYS THE SATISFACTION OF SEEING YOU SUFFER. BOW!!!! Hmm, good slut.
Although I've been exploring my gender identity for a very long time, I primarily identify as genderqueer (both genders). I do dress in a unisex way, and most times I will dress female but other times it'll most likely be unisex, as long I'm in a trans-friendly area. My sexual orientation however is still pansexual so I am very open-minded. Those identities is a part of me but is not who I am fully. I can say it's safe to say that I'll be genderqueer with an strong emphasis on the female spectrum and I'm happy with that. I'm on hormones still and getting laser hair removal and that's all I'll do. I might get breast surgery but other than that, I'm happy where I'm going in life.
I officially identify as masochist/painslut but I will still live out my sadistic desires. I will be seeking an masochist or a slave at some point. I've been into the BDSM lifestyle since I was 18, attended very few play parties (I don't go often out in public due to work and my other projects and the last time I did a play party was a event called RAW in Seattle with a former Master in the CSPC and I had fun. But he wasn't my type so I moved on.)
I'm also a musician/singer-songwriter for Asphyxiaphilic Heart, and singer-songwriter for my solo acoustic post grunge/grunge project, Tricks For Quarters. I'm a photographer (I mostly do Gothic, weddings, family portraits, concerts, band photo shoots, LGBTIQ/BDSM culture and scenery photography) & an amateur filmmaker who took classes to get into doing adult films and BDSM productions. I'm also a drawing artist, painter, writer-poet, struggling actress, fluent in English, Dutch and I do American Sign Language because I am hearing impaired and currently learning German and Italian, scriptwriter (I'm writing my very first feature film script which I hope to see it on the big screen theaters someday), a struggling playwright, and currently writing my untitled autobiography. I'm friendly, adventurous, a bit of a daredevil, a Harley Davidson addict (I love Harleys and riding them. Live to ride, ride to live. Yee haw!), a comic book/graphic novel geek collector, a skater grrl, Riot Grrl, Activist, Pagan/Wicca practitioner with an interest in the Occult, mountain biker, lover of nature and the outdoors, a horror/vampire/zombie movie fan, smart, nice, and a bitch when being honest. I speak the truth on any subject nothing more. Opinions vary, though. I'm a former certified counselor, formerly a suicide prevention hotline counselor/rape crisis hotline counselor, a certified cook, a certified ASL teacher, a high school/vocational school/college graduate, Job Corps graduate, Peace Corps dropout due to previous family emergencies in the past, very empathetic and never sympathetic. I find it easier to care about people in a empathetic way.
The 10 Kink Commandments:
1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.
2. We must always be respectful of our partner?s safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind.
4. We must always be polite and ask questions.
5. We must not touch other people's equipment without permission.
6. We must always be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.
7. We must always be mindful of aftercare.
8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.
9. We always protect each other's anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.
10. Most importantly, we do not forget to have a good time.
The reason I put widow on my status is because my wife and daughter passed away in 2009. They are always a part of me FOREVER...
RIP Samantha Cordeau-Lovecraft (1/25/89 to 10/26/09)
Serenity Rose Lovecraft (6-25-07 to 8/5/09)
To my baby girl in Heaven - Mama misses you, baby.
Blessed Be, Namast?nd '93,
Christian Grey Lovecraft. |
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