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sarahgee

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sarahgee - Male Submissive, Weat Midlands | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About sarahgee

I am a mature, loving sissy looking for a Lady willing to help me develop my submissive nature for her personal pleasure.

Within my overall need to submit, i think there are perhaps 3 inter-linked strands to my submission.
- orgasm control/ chastity
- dressing
- humiliation

The concept of being denied sexual pleasure for the pleasure of pleasing My Lady is highly arousing to me. A chastity device is the mechanism by which this can be achieved and relieves me of the need to control my own urges. Wearing a device requires for My Lady forces me to seek my own pleasure in pleasing and pleasuring her. It would be a physical manifestation of my desire to focus on Her pleasure above my own in all things. As a release or cum day approaches then that need to please heightens my efforts in my servitude still further

Humiliation i think is simply part of being a sissy, but it has a special meaning for all of us. For me, i find the concept of humiliation in front of my fellow sissies strange. i don't think i would find all but the most degrading humiliation in front of my sisters particularly humiliating - it is something we all acccept, it is part of us and we all know that it will happen to us some time so why make a fuss.

Humiliation in front of other men, similarly has limited appeal in that i would be constantly thinking that he secretly would want to be in my position anyway... and if he didn't then he damn well should.

Humiliation in front of women though has a special delicious appeal - i love it and hate it all at once, and would probably test the chastity devioce to it's limits at the same time.

Such humiliation has to be subtle and be designed to reinforce my position both in a relationship and with that of women generally. Anything that gently points out to other women that i am a sissy does it for me.

Dressing is what sets sissies apart from all others. We have a desire to emulate our Mistreses and womankind in general but that desire is so strong that we need to be extreme in our dressing... we want to be more femme than even the most feminine of ladies. Hence the desire for ruffles and lace, 'girly' colours, and extreme styles. The way that manifests itself is different for all sissies; some like to advertise their wears so to speak with outlandishly slutty wear;, others seem to want to regress to being a little girl (don't see the point in that personally); others, (i fall into this category) simply want to make themselves look their best to make their Mistresses proud. I like to look passably female with my outerwear, perhaps with a subtle reminder of the fact that i am not female just to help with the humiliation, but my tastes in underwear and nightwear - the bits that generally only my Mistress and a few other selected ladies would get to see - are as flamboyant as any sissy. I love ruffles and lace but i do prefer pastel colours to the garish red, green, blue, and black creations that some girls prefer. That said, i want to excite my Mistress with my underwear, so if she wants me in red, then i would wear red.

If any of the above interests you then please do get in touch.
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