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Pan Female Switch, 25,  Naperville, Illinois
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I have been active in this Community since I was 18. Attending local munches. I have grown so much between then and now. I am finding myself trying new things I would not have tried back then, I am befriending people I would not have imagined being friends with then. I am so thankful for the people who have come into my life and even left me life since then. Each person holds a unique place and I have learned from each and every person that has ever been involved in my journey. I still have a lot of learning to do yes, and Much more growing up. But I am looking forward to what this lifestyle brings my way. I want to try new things, meet new people and laugh while doing it all! I am slowly figuring out my role in this community. I still have a lot of learn about myself to do. But every day I am learning something new which excites me. I am me.. If you don't like who I am well then keep on walking. It would be best for both of us! I am a bubbly person who loves meeting people. I am a flirt. I consider myself a SWITCH. to me this means I can be on the giving and receiving end of kink. I am a giver what can I say? :) In my book you have to gain my respect just as much as I gain yours. I don't do drama so if you thrive on that please find someone else. I am just here to have a good time, and enjoy life to the fullest. IF you have any questions feel free to email me, I would consider myself a pretty friendly person! DON'T BE SHY.. I don't bite.... to hard ;)










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Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Male

Switch Men

Friends Only




 Breast Play




 Hair Pulling


 Massage (Giving)




 Canes and Crops

 Local BDSM Community

 Orgasm Denial

 Role Playing


 Curious About:




 Knife Play

 Masks (Wearing)

 Medical Play

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Deprivation

 Wax play

 Hard Limits:


 Needle Play


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Journal Entries:
3/1/2012 7:31:33 PM

I would say I am somewhat a spiritual person. I believe in a higher power yes. But this entry is not about that.


I gave up all things sexual for Lent. This includes-Sex, masturbation, and play sessions. It has almost been a little over a week and well frankly there are way to many temptations around to not think of dirty thoughts. Last night I had these erotic dreams. I don't remember what they were about just that they were very sexual and intense. I still have almost another month to continue this "abstinence." Everyone I tell in community are like WHY did you give it up that's crazy. It's to prove to myself really. And yes while it is hard, sometimes we have to make tough choices in life to have a rewarding outcome. 


So by the time Easter comes around I am sure I will be a horny mess, But it is a good thing, and DAMN will the sex be amazing when I can finally do it again!!


This is all. Good night Kinky world!

7/6/2011 10:21:49 AM

This "lifestyle" is starting to become frustrating. Reason one is because you think you have friends in the community and then they stab you in the back.  Reason 2. Me being a 22 year old submissive I believe it is hard to find someone worth meeting.  Yes I am going to be picky about whom I want to get to know. I don't think that is such a bad thing.


I have play partners yes, but I want more. I want someone whom I can cuddle with, tell my secrets to, laugh with and YES someone whom I can become serious with and learn from.  But it is so hard. I am active in the Chicago scene, but most of those people That I know are either taken, or well out of my age range. I am starting to get frustrated with the scene, and half tempted to go back to being  vanilla to find someone. 


I am done rambling for today. Just needed to get my thoughts out there.


Best of luck to everyone.

4/13/2010 8:29:56 AM
  Have you ever had a craving for just a good make-out session? Or just someone to snuggle in bed with. 

Yes I am going to rant on about 'GIRLIE" things..

I see all of my good friends finding someone, and it still seems like I can not find anyone. I have tried so hard.  I have been hurt by people that I thought I trusted the most. Now I dont know who to trust anymore.

I honestly dont know what to do about my "relationship status" do I give up. Keep looking? Its a tough world I know.

Just wanted to get this off my chest. Thanks for reading.

10/13/2009 7:45:45 PM
It has been a very tough year for me. I lost someone very close to me, and it was in the media! The 1 year mark is coming up this week. I have had a bit of a tough week yes. I was just thinking today that I wish I had someone that I could snuggle up with and just let loose and have a good cry fest! I usally don't cry in front of people, but I want to find that person that I can be vulnrable with! 

Done babbling for this week!!


9/28/2009 7:52:47 PM
Social life.. I need one! My last saturday nigh consisted of me going over to my parents house and going to bed. Yes I have two room mates, but they go out and seems like they never invite me. I guess It would help if I had more friends, But I honestly dont! Everyone says oh things will change when I turn 21..But why do I have to wait until  Decemeber for things to change? Are friends really that hard to come by?

Any Ideas?


9/9/2009 6:01:06 PM
Have you ever been so horny, that even masturbation dosnt seem to help.. ? But I dont just want random sex. I want a Dom whom I can put all my trust in. Someone who knows what gets me so excited! What gets me off. Its so frustrating. I sometimes think of giving up looking for that someone. But then I think it will come in due time.. But when.. Months? Years?? I dont want to wait that long!!

I am done rambling for tonight!! Happy HUMPDAY all!


9/6/2009 6:51:47 AM
I am learning what my place is. But I still do not know what I am looking for in a Dom. That is my priority right now is to truely ask myself what I want in a dom.

I know before I can even think of having someone become my master/dom,  I have to learn more about myself.

I have come a long way in the past three years I would say. And I learn new things every day! I love that about this lifestyle. And I look forward to being callared one day to that special dom, who deserves to have me!! And I deserve him!

Thats all for my babling now!

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