saradeanna469

You know... if you can't follow through, don't even start.  I'm so tired of talking with people, hitting it off well (seemingly) and then the other person disappears.  Why do we do that?  Yes, I'm guilty of it as well.  I just can't figure out why that seems to be the norm rather than the exception.

How are we supposed to act when we know the person we were just chatting with yesterday is ignoring us today?  Unfortunately, this website compounds those feelings by giving everyone access to see when people refresh their page, or read the mail that you just sent out, etc.  That really adds to the feeling of "yeah, s/he is definitely ignoring me" whereas with any other sites, you could just assume they're having internet problems or whatever.  Thanks a lot collarme.com for providing us with the web features that bring out our inner lonely, paranoid web-stalker.

Lastly, I really would like to chat, talk to or meet someone that won't run away and hide as soon as we realize we have a lot in common and may actually work well as a couple.  You know, I'm a very smart, loving person... not a bad cook and have good cleaning habits.  I'm not looking for a one night stand or to have an affair with a bored husband.  I want a guy to myself, and I'd like the relationship to last a while.  Are these considered good qualities or bad qualities?  Honestly, I have no idea and I'm beginning to wonder if that sort of thing scares people away.

I genuinely want to know why so many people think I'm dominant.  If anyone has an answer, I'd love to find out.

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Just so we're clear, I'm a genuine transsexual. That means I -live- my life as a woman.  You can't force femme me!! hahaha!! I'm not going to get humiliated by putting on makeup and heels.  What the fuck is wrong with people thinking thats what i am???  I don't dress up in frilly maids outfits for sexual arousal while somebody orders me around the house to hold a feather duster with my mouth.  That's for the crossdressers out there... not me.  I take living as a woman very seriously... serious enough to have gotten my name changed legally 3 years ago.  It's rather frustrating to me when someone confuses me for a crossdresser.  They dress up for arousal and basically make a mockery out of something I take very seriously and couldn't live without, literally.  I make an effort to live like any other woman does... and you don't see women all the time dressed up as whores and princesses.. No!  Sometimes women wear jeans and camisole tops... not pink frilly dresses all the damn time.  Dressing like a french maid or a 5 year old girl doesn't make you look like a woman at all... i dont know who ever came up with that idea but it's damned old.

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