Hi. My chat button seems to never stop being lit. It doesn't work well for me, it either doesn't connect or throws me off a lot. But even if it did work, I don't understand people wanting to chat before even sending a message. If I don't know you or haven't read your profile, why would i chat? That seems to be a second or third step not a first to me. 

Wow, y'all, I've never felt like such a popular girl. I have only been here a few hours and it's a little overwhelming, there is no way I could answer everyone who has written me. I'm not sure how to respond or filter or follow through yet. I will have to figure those things out. Someone did tell me I might be able to meet someone here and also talk about things as I figure out my involvement in BDSM more. But really I had no idea it would be like this. 

To answer a few questions: If I relocate it would be alone. My partner knows I'm a swinger, we do that together usually. He knows I have also sometimes been with other men. He knows I have had recent BDSM experiences and that I have more interest in it than he does, he doesn't understand this part of me that has been awakened. We do not have children together. He has some from a previous marriage, they are adults now. 

Obviously a lot is happening in my life. Those who have said, "Come be my slave"...well, I would hope you would want to know the woman is right for you, and that the slave can respect and respond to the Dominant person. I don't think that happens with just every person who tells me they are dominant. I am still learning, but i want to have a connection and trust and feelings for the person too. But as I said, this is all a new awakening and I am trying to be open to possibilities and my future.