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Male Dominant, 44, Perth
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Female Switch, 39
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Female Submissive, 40, Cin, Ohio
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About Sanguinesable
Hello all of my fellow fun kinksters!
Things to know right off
I am poly, currently with a partner (a delightful NB switchy sadomasochist), and a few casual playpartners
Regarding scenes, I am open to both nonromantic play (with whom I call playpartner) and more romantic relationships involving deeper feelings of attachment, which I call partner.
Also of note, for me sex and kink are two different things that while able to be combined, are not the same thing. For me talking about one does not imply the other. My preferred analogy is that its kinda like chocolate cake and vanilla ice cream. Both are desserts that I enjoy, often enjoyed on the same plate even. However, they are not the same, one does not substitute the other. If someone keeps bringing me a plate of ice cream when Ive already arranged for only a slice of cake and turned down the vanilla, Ill be understandably annoyed.
For kink play, Im open to any genders and gender presentations.
Sexually, Im attracted to feminine presenting people based on how they look to me. Though importantly, I have no care what is between someones legs. I will not mind if a masculine presenting person Im doing kink with is getting aroused by a scene as a side effect of such. Im simply not going to feel sexual attraction for such. Just to be clear, Im not going to suddenly feel sexual desire mid scene, just because the masculine person finds a scene is hot.
Separately, if you are looking for friendship explicitly without any desires for scenes with me, this is completely fine! One of the things that I adore about the kink community is about how open with communication people are. Specifically, I like quickly breaking the ice of awkwardness around what people are actually looking for or wanting.
I live with my partner in a studio in Berkeley. With two cats who are very chill ESAs for my partner and honestly anyone who wants to cuddle them. We are generally down to host for scenes, pending communicating logistics around comfort and safety. We are comfy setting up one on one scenes if having a second person in the space is, very understandably, not desired.
I enjoy relationships wherein we are egalitarian or I am dominant, never with me submissive. I have experimented with submission, it causes a bad headspace for me. (Please do not assume that you will be the one exception)
I mostly identify as a service top with a bit of service dom thrown in depending on the relationship.
I also enjoy being a big in a biglittle dynamic, as well a dominant in a domsubmissive brat dynamic. Feel free to ask me about either.
I love giving sensation in a variety of ways ranging from physical contact, to Violet wand, temperature, and many s of pain. I can enjoy receiving sensations, though unfortunately for my partner Im not into receiving pain. Then again, our relationship includes that they can enjoy giving such to their playpartners, etc, who like it so fun times all around. Just no ouchies for Sanguine.
I enjoy playing and teasing both mental and physical, playing with sensations and expectations. (I love how the nervous system works!!!!) D well as many s of roleplay.
Beyond this little list I also recommend looking at my list of interests and asking me about them.
Oh, to clarify age since it doesnt automatically update, Im spending a good chunk of 2021 at 29 years old.
I have seen more than a few profiles where the person says they are new, just started learning, or are exploring. This is awesome to see as this community is growing, and also I rather do like teaching about things and exploring desires with people. At the same time I include the following links about negotiation and exploring as this is something I find very important, and something that several new comers I have played with were not completely familiar with.
This is a guide to what negotiation is in Kink, and an example of how it can go
www.kinkabuse.comhealthy-bdsmthe-seductive-art-of-negotiation
This is a fairly exhaustive checklist of things that can be negotiated especially first time playing with someone.
sxcbdsm.comeducational-offeringshandouts-and-resourcesnegotiation-guide
erobay.com is a calendar of just about all of the events in the bay area, including munches (social meeting, usually at a restaurant, where people can meet others in a safe public space without the pressure that may be felt at a dungeon or private party, or for that matter on a date)
This is the facebook of kink
Fetlife.com
Thank you for reading this, feel free to send any questions my way.
Sanguine
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