SaneSwitch

REVISED 13 SEPTEMBER 2005

Professional male, 36, seeks women aged 21 to late 30s for BDSM play and exploration. Lots of experience (mostly in my head!!) but now wanting to play for real a lot more.

In my younger years I was typically sub to older women, however as I get older I find myself attracted to dominating younger women (20s), especially petite slender ones (hey, if women can asked for well-endowed men, I get to ask for what I like!!).

As a Dom, I would be keen to explore your reactions to various stimuli (physical and emotional) and take you on a journey deep into your sub-self. If you're a switch and as curious to explore this world as I am, then so much the better.

As a sub I enjoy serving and obedience, giving myself totally to the Domme. I'm not a masochist, but accept a Domme's right to use pain. I love the feeling of being owned and controlled.

I'm highly intelligent (Master's level education - no pun intended!) and creative and would love to play around with a sexy woman in a BDSM setting. I also offer decent company and companionship. Cooks and cleans as well (what more could a girl want!!).

Ideally you would also be a switch, but I will consider contact from Dommes or fem-subs only.

You should be height/weight proportionate, in general good health, non-smoker and drug free.

Novices welcome, but this might be easier for a woman who is sub-curious, than one who is Domme-curious.

I'm happy to meet up for a coffee and a chat first and get to know one another as human beings, not simply as objects of sexual fulfilment (although that might come later )

I'm not looking for 24/7 lifestyle play. I do have a responsible job in the city, play sport, see family and friends, etc. BDSM is one aspect of my life, and an important one, but not the totality of it.

Anything you want to know please get in touch.