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Female Submissive, 30, Andover, Massachusetts
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Male Dominant, 50, UNION CITY, Georgia
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About SaneandKinky
ve been here before, and sometimes with good results. I know kink sites have their share of lunatics and fantasists but I have also found that if I invest time and effort and speak to the right people then good things can come of it too.
Ive been actively Dom for over twenty years so I certainly know what Im doing and Ive certainly learned plenty of lessons along the way, and I'm still learning now.
Just because someone is submissive that doesnt make them right for me and just because Im Dominant it doesnt make me right for them. I want the whole package.
I can be demanding, intense, strict and very full on and I like to explore and push and to venture into the psychological side of things as well as the physical.
My academic and career background are in Psychology and it comes in handy to say the least.
However Im a firm believer in after care and in taking responsibility for my submissive too. If you want a someone who walks around being stern 24/7 and takes himself very seriously then Im not the fella for you. Ive been doing this a long time so I can do that full on stuff when I need to, but Im a person too and I like being human being silly and having fun. We Doms are allowed to do that too you know.
Im probably as filthy as it gets but as decent as it gets too. So if youre into kink because you want to feel bad about yourself then pass on by, but if youre looking for a way to grow and enjoy being alive and intense and sharing a deep bond with someone then id be happy to hear from you.
Im a professional, solvent and sorted guy. Im good looking, slim, fit and educated and even vaguely sane. I have no problem whatsoever in putting in time and effort getting to know someone and being patient about it. However if youre just here for an online thing then theres no point talking to me because Iim after one of those real life relationship things which means going and sitting in a pub for a chat once weve got to know each other remotely for a while.
Thus Im in this ridiculous place looking for an intelligent but wanton woman who can enjoy the delicious contrast of civilised, playful, company and conversation and also enjoy being dominated, disciplined and debauched.
I Live part of my life in London (where I work and go out) and part in the countryside so hopefully you like a mixture of the two.
Things I like outside of kink:
I sing and play in bands and I love music very much in general.
I am an absolute film freak and love my netflix and my mini series too.
I love cooking (and eating) and I like to make my own wine and bread.
I'm a pub quiz fanatatic and pretty good at the rounds on music, and films and literature but a bit useless at science.
Sanity is more important than your list of kinks. Thats one of the first lessons I did learn.
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