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| Technically I'm a switch, but I've been becoming progressively more interested in topping, and at this point I'm only looking for submissives and switches who want to submit. I'm looking for non-casual play partners and possibly a primary partner. To summarize...
Who I am: Dominant female with new metal chair seeking submissive/switch male to tie to it
Location: Berkeley (You're preferably in the East Bay or willing to travel from nearby on a regular basis)
Status: Polyamorous — I'm looking for a primary partner as well as non-casual play partners
Tone: D/s, with or without an underlying equality, depending on the relationship
Types of play: D/s, bondage, s/m, chastity, pegging, household tasks, etc. You should be...
—Obedient. I am willing to train some but don't want to start from scratch. That being said, I don't mind a little resistance during this period if you don't mind a little punishment.
—Experienced with submission and kink in general
—Introspective enough to know yourself well and what your needs and limits are
— Intelligent with a sense of humor
—Athletic or fit
—Flexible with your schedule and potentially able to meet 2 or 3 times a week. This isn't a requirement however, and depends how deep our relationship goes. For a non-casual partner, I want to meet in person at least once a week. I'm not really looking for casual play partners right now.
— Open to polyamory
— Interested in possibly extending play beyond the confines of the bedroom (for example, completing tasks when you're not with me)
— Communicative outside of when we meet via some form of technology If you message me, tell me what you are looking for in a relationship.
Other background: I've been interested in kink almost as long as I remember. For years, I was a submissive — partly because of a desire to give up control, and partly because my partners were more dominant and didn't want to switch very often. I left the scene for several years because I couldn't reconcile submission with feminism, and when I decided to practice kink again, I realized that the only way I could play was as a switch. Lately I've been exploring my more dominant side and feel much more drawn to that aspect of myself. I prefer submissives and switches who are very obedient; it's hot to see that internal struggle that comes from fighting with themselves to do a difficult task or endure some torment I've inflicted on them. I strongly believe that a good Dominant should experience being a submissive at some point in their lives, as it helps them to understand the experience of a sub, and ultimately this makes it easier to get inside their submissive's head and control them more effectively.
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