Many have asked, what is it that I search for and seek.? As each day goes by, the answer truly becomes clearer and yet more difficult.? In many ways it is so much easier to state what I do not seek than what I do.??
I do not seek one who has laid erself bare on this or anyother platform.? Not a condemnation, just my personal preferance to be the one who gets to enjoy your gifts.? Some may view this as selfish, others may not.? I don't really care.
I am not looking for a daughter.? Someone my age or very close to it so that we have the same "shared" experieinces, so that we can relate to what the other means when they speak without the "fear" of being labeled, just plain speak without an agenda.
Not looking for a beauty queen, sorry if that offends.? Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder and as I age I find what i used to find beautiful is not so beautiful to me anymore.? Ones soul, their actions, their attentiveness to the wants, needs of others even where it means their wants, needs are set aside for a later time.? This I find to be one of many things I find to be beautiful.
Not looking for a tall, a medium, a short, a slim, a Rubeunesque, a full figured, a long haired, a short haired, a blond, a red head, a brunette, a quiet, a talkative, a slave, a submissive, a domme, a baby, a brat or .....??
I am not looking to support someone, not looking for a maid, a cook, a laundress, to support their family.
i am not looking for a yes person, a no person, an I have no opinioon person, a combative person, a meek person.
I am not lookng for someone to support me.
I am not looking someone who has no sense of adventure, someone who has no desire to see this beautiful country we call home to explore as many of it's nooks and crannies that can be explored with the time we have left.
I am not looking for a religous zealot, an atheist, an agnostice, someone who is found, who was lost.
I am not looking for hassles, drama, issues, ex's, currents.
I am not looking for a drunk, drugs, disease., smoker.
I am not looking for a closed mind, a predetermined mind, a mind not open to why not rather than why.
I am not looking for someone who stkakes the stance, the mistaken beleif that YOUR wants, needs, desires, opinions, thoughts are not important and should not be articulted and respected.??
There is more but few will make it this far so I stop here for now.
IF you made it this far, IF you don't fit most of the above, IF you want to discuss, share your wants, needs, desires then do so.? You will never know if this will work otherwise.? I do not promise anything beyond respect, listening to you and my honest opinions.
?
