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Male Submissive, 41, metairie, Louisiana
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Male Submissive, 34, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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About SaintJohn
A "Daddy" Dom, is a distinct flavor of Top. He tends to cherish, adore and even in some cases spoil his submissive. While he may come down harshly on his 'little girl' (lg) when needed, it is always done with care and concern to the overall effect upon his sub.
His type of caretaking is less done with his own needs, and normally centers on things the submissive needs for her well being. Examples of this can be setting bedtimes so she get proper sleep, observing and making changes to her diet for health reasons, subsidizing, urging or directing her to further education, or in areas of study.
The Daddy Dom not only bolsters his sub with his strength, but he grooms her also to be a better person in all areas of her life with a glee that comes from watching a flower bloom.
He is capable of being strict without apology for it, because he understands that this correction is needed for her to understand she, as his lg, is cherished and that he cares enough to do such, even if it pains him. He carries a love for his submissive for who-she-is and for what she will become with his guidance because she is his prized possession, something that he has helped create.
A Daddy Dom holds respect for what his sub has given and takes pride and pain in increasing her value, because in this, it was her choice to give that over to him. Its not a threat when she is better then he at something, or when she may even surpass him, for he works hard to get his submissive to achieve something. Won't you be she? |
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The entire Daddy Dom dynamic is delicious and satisfying for all.
For the lovely 'lg' (little girl) role, as you're sitting on your Daddy Dom's lap while he fondles you, the relationship between you and him should provide a more caring approach in which you, the lg, will be nurtured and supported, even as you are sexually being enjoyed in a D/s way.
To me, it seems that the men defining themselves as Daddy's are looking to be supportive, indulgent, stern, and loving to the lg. Some seem to not want to cause any physical pain except maybe a spanking as a punishment, I've seen it described as a softer D/s relationship by people who proclaim not to want all that 'pain crap'. Think of a proud father who keeps the discipline in the family but adores his Daddy's Little Girl. Some like more punishment and sternness in the mix, and some like more the chance to indulge their sweetie. I'd have to say I've seen it used more as a chance to be compassionate, considerate, and easygoing than to be the disciplinarian.
What does it mean to you?
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While I own you, as my property, to do what I wish with you, rest assured you're still always cherished as mine. Your body is as mine, so there is no reproachment for how you look - that's inherent in your enes - nor how tall you are or how short or thin or petite or bbw you are. Given what you inherently have, I will work with you to mold you into the perfect obedient submissive pleasure serving lg. That is the way of the natural progression. |
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