Dominance in females, it has been said, is an altogether rare phenomenon. It is, in my opinion, also a delight and treasure of inestimable value. And, like any rare treasure, once found it should be worshipped and indulged without limit.

I am seeking a relationship with an intelligent woman which is founded on a shared sense of sensual pleasure, emotional and intellectual compatibility and, as well, a genuine and honest penchant for dominance and experimentation. Someone who can engage in a bit of raillery and possesses a sense of humor, but who also loves the sound of leather on exposed and vulnerable flesh and the muffled pleadings ensuing from it; someone whose sense of aesthetics includes the artful use of a strap-on as a valid medium of personal expression; someone who enjoys the pleasure of evening light in autumn and is aware of the divine rhythm of her own heartbeat. A woman who knows her own preferences and pleasures and has no inhibitions about making them clear to me; and one who is not afraid of breaking me or pushing her own limits as she (vainly) searches for mine. Someone who, in short, enjoys both the sensual and psychological aspects of dominating a man and having that man beg to serve you, even as you wreak loving havoc upon his body. Someone who actually *enjoys* dominance and being pampered. Someone, in short, who is truly dominant, rather than a poseur, and delights in creatively indulging her gift.

For my part, I am an unabashed sensualist and serious submissive, possessed of humour but also a craving to serve a lovely woman who enjoys being served. I have an unslaked desire for either a casual or regular relationship with a woman who delights in bandinage, bondage or both.
I seek a woman who is confident in her sexuality and unapologetic about her needs, because I find my pleasure in seeing yours. I want to cause a smile on your face, laughter from your lips, a glimmer of wicked delight in your eyes, and through unabashed and uninhibited servitude, a moment of joy in your life. 6'5", 220 lbs, runner/rower, early 40's, blond/blue, finance professional, avocations include drawing, Art Nouveau, Asian cinema, surrealism, John Coltrane, the photography of Jerry Uelsmann, and interesting people of all varieties and flavors.

A woman who delights in her gift of sadism, who wishes to share her creativity with me, and who is keenly interested in extending her own limits while teaching me to extend mine. Someone who has both a sense of humor and would like to be adored.