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Female Submissive, 41, Near Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, 44, st augustine, Florida
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Female Dominant, 31, Long Beach, California
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About safeintensity
I'm a gentleman in public and naturally dominant in the bedroom. I'm a successful businessman and supervise people every day, so being dominant in the bedroom isn't a power trip to boost my ego, nor is it due to impotence or sexual insecurities, it's just the way I am. In the bedroom, I'm the man, you're the woman and I'm in control. To me, being dominant doesn't mean forcing you to do things you don't want to do or trying to control your life, or humiliating you, unless you enjoy that. I'm not a sadist, but if pain, or being spanked or pinched, or pulling your hair, turns you on, then it would be my pleasure to do the things that turn you on, not because I want to cause you pain, but because bringing out your passion, intensity and desire turns me on. I'm turned on by intensity, passion and desire. I like it very hot, inspired and creative with no holding back, and that is what I would bring out in you. Does that make sense? Can you relate to what I write?
To me, sex is an intense creative experience and also a primitive act where we react to each other and follow our instincts without thinking. It is an escape from our normal day-to-day lives. It should be amazing, inspiring and memorable. I enjoy the journey and savor the excitement of finding out what turns on my partner and how she reacts....the sights, sounds and intensity. I think it should be a passionate, pleasing experience for us both. I don't have any fetishes except that I get turned on by bringing out passion and intense desire. I'm skilled at the things that turn submissive women on and that is natural to me... submissiveness brings out my dominant side. I would get turned on by turning you on, not off. I get turned on by doing the things that stimulate you...not by being cruel or sadistic, unless that is what turns you on... but if that is what gives you pleasure, then it isn't being cruel for me to do it. We would talk in advance about what you enjoy and want to try, your boundaries and safe words. If you prefer, you can write a scenario that we can discuss and refine.
In the bedroom I'm never submissive and have no desire to be... that's not natural for me. I won't try to get you to do things you don't want to do or go farther than you want me to. I can probably give you more pleasure, heat and intensity than you've ever had, and you will naturally want to please me. I've studied Tantric sex and taught myself how to prolong orgasm and stay on the edge for hours. If you're passionate, sensual and sexual, I can probably give you the experiences you seek.
Age isn't a critical issue for me. I don't have an "age" in mind. Intelligence, attitude, passion and personality are important to me.
I'm 6'/180, have a lean, muscular, tanned body and am glad to exchange photos. I'm very clean and appreciate the same. In case you're wondering, I'm partly shaved. and D/D free.
My presence here is a secret that I don't share with friends - they wouldn't understand, and I keep my private life private. I don't go to sex clubs or engage in anonymous or indiscriminate sex. I prefer one on one, but would consider a 3 with you and a girlfriend of yours, if that was something you wanted and you proposed the idea. I'm safe, sane and discreet and seek a woman who is safe, sane and discreet.
If I sound like someone you would like to chat with, contact me. I understand that if you contact me it really doesn't mean anything, and I won't make any presumptions. I'm a gentleman and won't pressure or try to convince you. I'll be nice and polite, but if we move to intimacy... well, I don't think you will be disappointed.
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