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Male Dominant, 46, Metrowest, Massachusetts
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Female Switch, 45, WEST PALM BEACH, Florida
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Male Dominant, 44, Las Vegas, Nevada
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About safeandsane
I am seeking an open minded, professional,
white slim to average build woman for loving companionship, regular spankings and
possibly more. You must be SINGLE AND AVAILABLE (I am) so no complications or angry mates, please.
So let's get the 'kinky stuff' out of the way, so to speak. Spankings are always erotic, often fun, and punishing (sometimes), but a necessary part of your being. But if you are seeking a true sadist or have self-esteem issues trying to find identity through ownership, I'm not your type. If you are confident and safe within your own skin (but just want it reddened on a regular basis, and I'm talking backsides here) then read on. And while that's fun, there is more to life than just having a sore backside. It is the dance and interplay of the dominant mind with the soft submissive that often leads to the best scenes and where most often the best in sensual encounters occurs. I would want someone who is intelligent, honest, has interests outside of just being disciplined and can keep up with me both in and out of scene.
Although I'm ready to try new things, my interests do not extend to 24/7 lifestyle D/S (we all have day jobs and lives). Frequent spankings should be expected (when I'm home) for infractions real or perceived. For me, what's most enjoyable about being on top is getting the one you love to WANT to be spanked as much as I enjoy the spanking itself.
I enjoy quiet nights at home as well as dining on the town after the opera, orchestra,
museum, or jazz club outing. I adore ballroom dancing and would rate myself as an
advanced beginner.
If I sound like an anachronism, that's probably true. Enjoy swing dancing and foxtrot? I do and love to get out whenever I can. Got any old Victorola records? I do, and play them often and much. If I had to sum up my person in a single word, it would be 'romance'. Always in love, always at play with my partner, and
while we do have both vanilla outside lives and more racy proclivities at home, we breathe as one. For more information, listen to the song 'Little Things Mean A Lot', in the original version by Kitty Kallen. You'll understand better who I am, and who you would be.
I am at my best when I can be the hero to the woman I love. Her needs become mine; the shield-maiden to her knight. The mutual love and adoration comes in the breathing as one that embraces the couple in being...not doing...and the life force that creates for the couple. So while I am open to 'play', I expect to know you first before playing. And that may require (shudder and quake at this stage in my life??) dating again. I'm really OK with that. And it makes getting to the romantic and intimate times that much more satisfying if there's other interests as well and knowing who you are, and you me. Again, the dance of the dominant mind can be equally intoxicating, and humorous and amorous as well.
So why am I here? I lost the love of my life in November 2005 to cancer, and while life isn't always fair, it does go on and I am gently ready to date again. So if all this interests you, let's have dinner some night, and see where it goes from there.
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