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About sadorigger
I am looking for a bondage doll / bondage toy.
Expressed in a friendly and polite style that means I am looking for a lady who is willing to live by the usual 1950 standards and within a so called bdsm-lifestyle as my toy and doll for bondage, at least at home.
I don't need to neither slap you nor in any other way stupidly beat you up as long as you don't give me reason to do so.
I also do treasure, what I possess.
However, if you misbehaved, the consequences you had to carry out in such case would be extremely hard to cope with.
For instance, in case a punishment would be necessary, leaving my toy in its bondage for a couple of days regardless its kind of position or its begging, isn't anything new for me.
Nonetheless you'd sort of have two choices:
You CAN have a kinda splendid life, as long as you voluntarily give yourself for all I want at any time without hesitation or even talking back (but, trust me on that, I do have my ways to control you though) ... but if you prefer, you can instead suffer a very miserable slave's like life, being restricted at all times, without any rights or even the slightest kind of freedom.
Me, I am fine with both of these possibilities.
My main point is to have my bondage doll.
I do not care much about whether that will be a woman who appears to be a usual one to the outside world, or one who is going to be permanently imprisoned and only be taken out of her place for being played with as what she is, a bondage doll.
But for you, it may make a huge difference if you are just being hold back in the house i.e. by a so called electronic fence, or whether you are truly chained, tied and probably suffering even at times during which I have no possibility to enjoy that.
Of course, having the better kind of life as a basic level does NOT mean you wouldn't be suffering from being used and abused and restricted in whatever ways anyway, you would, for sure, namely at any time I want to have that for my pleasure.
Still friendly expressed we call that a bdsm lifestyle within a frame of TPE as well as with lots of bondage, just to name the two main conditions.
Generally, if you don't like bondage (of any kind), do not continue reading, you wouldn't be the right one for me. And if you are not at least a little bit maso, then you also needn't continue reading.
The perfect match would be a lady who is truly wants to spend her future life as nothing else but a bondage-doll and / or slave, not worth more than any other object of my possessions ... unless you were such a great toy or slave that you make yourself truly worthy ... as such.
However, finding a so called perfect match is rare, isn't it?
I am well aware of that fact. Therefore, you should at least like bondage.
Of course, in case you manage to live the splendid variation, there will be a life beyond bdsm, just as like as many other people also have activities they like going for in their leisure time, I also like cinema, theater, and other cultural events, no matter whether it takes Jeans to go there or a suit ... but please, be aware of the difference between "beyond bdsm" and "besides bdsm". The first one means bdsm will be present, at all times while the latter one is a simple addition apart from it.
Please be also aware of one more point, that is being seen in a very wrong way by many (inexperienced) people.
Bondage of course doesn't mean being tied up only by ropes, as a matter of fact it also and mainly happens by other means, i.e. leather, chains, any kind of special equipment (tailor made) and more. Besides, bdsm in general is so much more than just slavery for one, it is not just black leather and whips ... thinking of the latter only is rather immature, it is actually much more, especially the psychological effects, changes and maybe modifications, (also bodily) over the years as well.
Therefore, once more, the ideal one is a lady who sees her own role in being a slave or a bondage doll, just that, nothing else, existing purely for its owner's pleasure.
Despite your status as a toy or slave you should be very clear about one fact:
I am looking for a monogamous long-term relationship ... I will never ever share you sexually.
Others may look, or touch, maybe even torture you, but you will be Mine only and NOT be available for anybody else, neither in matters of slavery nor sexually.
Therefore, just in case you were looking to be whored out, then you would be worth less than a treasured toy for me. Since I could not have you then sexually, you would be no more than a torture toy for any kind of cruel sadistic games I can think of.
Please feel free to ask in case of any questions, as I consider mutual communication being essential. As long as you don't decide to be mine, you'll be treated and respected as a fully equalized person.
Due to the aspired kind of life it is necessary to talk with each other about it all and to make sure, nothing will be misunderstood. That requires talking on an equal level.
Especially because over the years, if you are mine, your body will be tuned and modified at my decisions and for my pleasure only. Your only task will be to be available at any given time for my pleasures and to endure whatever comes up no matter how "challenging" it might be, as long as no permanent damage is done, which is, btw, next to minors, animals and scat my only hard limit.
Now I am looking forward to hear from you, if you are determined enough :-) |
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