SadisticLaughter

This is going to make me sound like a bitch but so be it.

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Things I?m not willing to compromise on:

1.????? Yes I?m African American. It says so in my profile. If you have issues with it don?t contact me. I?m not your chocolate doll, your shaded daydream, your dirty little secret, and I?m sure as hell not your version of affirmative action.

2.????? Please have other interest besides me. In any type of relationship whether it be friendship/romantic you should be learning from each other, and if I can?t have a normal conversation with you we?re both going to be very bored really fast.

3.????? Respect. All arguments and personal issues are private. If you want to wear chick under wear while talking to my friends beneath whatever you?re wearing fine.? But you ?playfully? whining about it to or around my friends and family is just not going to happen. No you are not my dirty little secret, but I am not going to let you use the fact that I?m a private person against me. I won?t treat you like a slave in front of your family or friends or disrespect you to them. I feel a relationship is sacred and if I wanted to share it with other people your replacement would live next door.

4.????? No and I mean noooo topping from the bottom. This includes but is not limited to: Calling me every 10 min so that you condition me to pick up the phone when you call. Doing a half ass job of anything so that I have to punish and focus all of my attention on you. Oh and my personal fave telling me what your last Dom/girlfriend did or trying to inadvertently punish me for what she did. If she was so worth all of this thought and frustration you?re causing me you?d still be with her.

5.????? I hate that I even have to bring this up. Do not contact me for a relationship/friendship just so I can financially support you. That makes you a whore/prostitute. I have never had to pay for sex and I?m not starting now. In fact ever.

6.????? At the very least I expect partial independence. I understand what a sub is and how that relationship works, but if I go into a coma for a week I don?t want everything including you to fall apart! All I truly ask for is competence.

7.????? I am not an evil hurt you all day dom. Yes I can do that but I?m pretty friendly. I have lots of friends. I go out! I have a life, and yes I have corsets, but damnit I like to wear pink cotton too! I shouldn?t have to put on a show for you everyday just so I don?t look like a poser in your eyes. If I have to do theatrics all the time?I might not be the one who is poser. Hell I might just need a night off!

8.????? This one ties into the above, but I thought it deserved its own number.? I don?t have to prove my Domness to you. I really don?t, and you thinking I do means you?re going to try to top from the bottom, and I don?t have time for it.

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Still with me?

??????????? Good! Now that we?ve moved past the unpleasantness let me tell you about me. I?m active, I have 3 degrees, I love to laugh, and I love to have a good time. I have so many hobbies and interest it?s a wonder how I get anything done. I?m always busy, but I make time for my family and friends. I?m caring, and I?m real. I?m seductive and charming.? I can be a fantasy come to life, or a nightmare given form. Don?t take my kindness for stupidity or weakness. Be warned the moment I feel caged, or like I?m being taken for granted I?ll be gone. And when I say gone I mean like I never existed in your universe.

??????????? I love my freedom, but I keep very tight control on myself. I feel if you can?t control yourself you can?t control others. I?m sexy. I?m naughty, and sometimes a bit bitchy. I?m also quick and intelligent. I don?t want or need your money. Just you. If you don?t feel you?re enough then I probably won?t think so either. Subs are fine, but weakness is not. I don?t want a sub who will sub for anyone. I have standards, and I suggest you do too.

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Looking for:

??????????? It?s pretty basic. I just want a man who is a man. Kinks are fine we all have them. It?s why we?re here right? Open minded and a decent conversationalist. If you?re going to watch a movie as my foot stool be able to discuss the movie with me. We are watching it together after all. Just don?t be an ass and we?ll get along fine. If you rp great! If not cool, but don?t think I?m going to meet/sleep with/beat you out of the blue. Not going to happen, and demanding it means it?s really not going to happen.

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