saddlmaster

There seems to be a LOT of unresolved anger on CM lately. Yesterday  morning I saw what I considered to be an "interesting picture" on someones profile. I messaged her and made that exact comment, except by an early morning "slip of the finger" I typed pictures (adding an S). The response I got was scatheing. Then, when I tried to explain, the user blocked me( which I personally think is a cowardly act unless someone is being abusive or not taking NO as meaning NO).

Lighten up, people. We are here to have fun or maybe find someone to have fun WITH. Let's not let the problems of the partners on here bleed over onto the members. This could easily become like , members fighting members and groups of members, members reporting other members for what they deem to be "violations, and just, in the process driving some of us away. 

When CM went down for a few days recently, one   member wrote a guideline for what they were referring to as "Collarme refugees." It was a list of rules for being on , and it kind of reminded me of the scene in the movie Casablanca, where the Nazis are getting ready to march into Paris, and prior to their arrival, they send in a list of rules as to how people should act when they get there. Can you say, arrogant, presumptuous pomposity? I sure can. 

My point here is, let's NOT be "that group." Let's relax and give each other a break. Let's just have fun with it. It's fun to meet new people of similar interests, whether near or far away. If this isn't fun, why are we doing it?

And to the person who took offense at my typo, nothing offensive was meant by it. It was , as stated earlier, a simple early morning slip of the finger (some people LIKE early morning slipping of fingers). I felt the picture had interesting ,abstract , psychosexual implications (yes, some of us DO still believe in Freud).