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About RydelS
Hello all,
If you are a Dom/Domme reading this, please refer to me as Rydel. If you are a bottom, then Mr. S is expected.
I am glad to be back in the community after some time away and especially glad to see this site back up, in its new form.
I have been a member of this community for over ten years now, so I hope some of my old friends make it over to this new site. Those that remember me, or knew me, please feel free to reach out to me. I would love to get reacquainted with my old community members.
Those that are new, or just unknown to me, please feel free to reach out to me for anything at all. Whether curiosity or guidance, I am very open and willing to share my experience and knowledge of the lifestyle. That was, after all, how I began learning about who I really was at such a young age. My Mentors (Two different Couples with over 40 years experience each) helped me to grow not only in experience but to also become a more well-rounded Dom.
I am also always up to just chat about the lifestyle, and learn about your view of it.
I am currently not particularly looking to take on any bottoms, but I am open to the idea of potentially meeting some to consider at a future point.
My personal view of the Lifestyle
My view of the lifestyle has been built upon my many years in it, from the guidance of my Mentors, and from my research of others viewpoint on it. I personally believe the lifestyle and all forms of it, to be more honest, and fulfilling relationships than their vanilla counterparts. For me, it is more than what you can expect from today's society because it is built on five principles,
- Trust
- Respect
- Dedication
- Commitment
- Loyalty
Trust - The foundation from which you can build the Temple. Without this, there can be nothing more, the bottom cannot truly submit to the Top. Many may see Trust as weakness, that it is compassion, but it is more basic than that. You must trust in your Dom that he will keep you in working order, to continue serving your purpose. You must trust that he is capable of fulfilling your needs, and desires.
Respect - is a two-way street. Whether a masochistic pain slut, a "pet", or a semi-casual preference to the lifestyle, a sub deserves to receive the treatment that they crave. Respect is not for the person, but for their position, for their desires. The respect aspect to the Top is obvious.
Dedication - With the two previous principles built, you can truly begin to build dedication to the task at hand. Everything from a simple impromptu session, to something more elaborate and well planned, dedication to our craft is key to true pleasure and fulfillment.
Commitment - Rules, Boundaries, Expectations. This is not a vanilla relationship where things are forgotten or overlooked. Commitment from both ends is needed to continue to grow to new levels. Your Dom must commit themselves to continuing to fulfill your needs and pushing you to more, while you, in turn, must commit yourself to your position and striving to grow in new ways.
Loyalty - The end of the road, this is the Holy Grail of what we build. Achieving loyalty to us, to our Temple, is paramount. Only then can you truly experience the freedom of being a Bottom, and then give the gift of that freedom, to your Top.
As I had said before, in my rendition of this on the previous site, this seems to give the impression to some that I am a sensual, and light-handed Dom. I assure you, this is far from the truth of it.
I demand perfection, continuously and effortlessly.
My tastes are, erratic. Sometimes I will enjoy you in an elegant dress, serving me dinner, pouring me wine, and entertaining me as you enjoy eating your meal from the floor. Other times, I may just enjoy your suffering, bringing you deep into the fields of agony, flavoring you in pain and torment. But my favorite game, the one that you will play the most, is when I will enjoy tormenting you mentally, ripping you apart, breaking you down, and pushing you to the brink of insanity.
By the time I am done, you will be the well-trained pleasure animal that I have brainwashed you to be.
That all sounds great, but let us cover what I am not, and who I may not match well with.
- Outside my home, I maintain a vanilla composure with Lifestyle undertones. If you need full blown lifestyle outside of the home, then I am not the Dom for you.
- I am not 24/7 because that is not how real life is structured, sadly. If you require the lifestyle 24/7, then I am not the Dom for you.
- I am not interested in bottoms that seek to use the lifestyle as a way to hide from their real lives, ex. to avoid work, bills, or responsibility. You will be a functioning member of society while under my control.
- While I enjoy forcing my property to do as I will, I tend to prefer one on one sessions primarily. So if you constantly need the company of others, then I am probably not the Dom for you.
I would not consider taking a bottom lightly, so I would expect the same from those that may wish to apply.
Since I do not take the consideration of a bottom lightly, you can expect to be thoroughly vetted beforehand.
There will be no presumption of ownership from me because that is a privilege that you must earn. Until such time as I decide to take ownership, our conversations will be formal and respectful, as if from a Teacher to a Child. We will get to know one another, and I will ensure that we are indeed a good match. You can expect to be tested, failure resulting in the termination of your consideration.
If you have made it this far into my profile, I thank you for your interest. The lifestyle has been everything that I am since I was very young, and I love to share my passion for it.
As I said before, all are free to message me, I love to make new friends and meet new members of our beautiful community.
Respectfully,
Rydel S.
**Side Note** - All of my interests are from the perspective of a Dom giving, ex. I do not enjoy crossdressing myself, but I do have a certain fondness for women that can pull off men's clothing.
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