Ryan1960

Male Dominant, 20, Sydney

Male Submissive, 18, Peoria, Illinois

Male Submissive, 34

I'm a Submissive or slave.... I just don't know the difference :) A Dom woman sent me a note suggesting I comment on my profile. Was there a choice? :-) When I am asked to describe myself, my response is i am a genuinely submissive male that is here to meet like minded people. Well there is more (as if this is going to be a surprise), upon meeting that Dominant woman and sparks fly with chemistry between the two of us, I would be honored to be hers (as I've learned, i would be honored to accept her collar). ? ? I am a 'play when I can...' type because in my universe there are two distinct worlds that must remain separate but ive come to realize both are important: ? ? **Everyday / Vinella world** here I hold a professional job with higher degree of public exposure (hope this explains the no picture in my profile, but for those interested the mental picture... I am 6' tall, 185#, blond hair & blue eyes, fit since I jog regularly, with an expressive personality). ? ? **Kink Life** In my last self assessment, the results were: I have had real life kinky play time and loved it but finding a like minded woman in the vinella world is near impossible. So, 2012 bucket list was to step out of the closet and meet kinky people. I've spent many months reading, talking to people on do's & dont's, term definitions, etc. I'm finding the kink world is complex!! ? ? Back to the about me part--- my ideal D/s setting is the psychological - mental ownership of the Dom intoxicating my mind through the control of my body. To control the body I use the word Her Tools - because it seems like a perfect descriptor; more on this later. ? ? My first D/s play was so simple yet so totally effective: hands cuffed from behind, balls leashed to the post, orally pleasing her while she knowingly moving away to see how committed I was. Pain was intense yet the 'need' to please her meant I had to accept this pain. ? ? Fast forward... The other real life D/s play experience lasting over a couple of years, the tools included: collars, leashes, bondage in various positions and places, CBT-bondage, electric stimulation, a little plug, gags, etc. ? ? I bring up the past only to help you understand my experience - all behind closed doors. I think I'm still a rookie with many thing to learn; but what i wanted to do is introduce myself, meet you (F-M, D/s...), share stories and just simply put myself out there and see where this takes me. ? ? In closing, I found a D/s assessment survey on line -- with my results being submissive and experimental as #1 and #2. The experimental was a total surprise... Let's have some expressive fun and see where this path goes :-) ????

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