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| Looking for friends/lovers that can appear normal in public and enjoy being submissive in the bedroom. I have a very strong personality, know what I want and what I like, and have no problems teaching someone how to please me...
I am a widower, my wife passed away in 2009. I am a single dad, raising my daughter (who was born in 2006) while I work full time and am finishing my Ph.D.
I am interested in finding a female partner - either an equal or sub. Sex should be a significant portion of the relationship, but not the only factor. Ideally this will be a life-long relationship. I do enjoy having male and female partners, and while I would be willing to limit my female one-on-one companionship to one woman, she should ideally accept (and hopefully be turned on by) me using guys. I am open to various flexible and equitable configurations. For more details, message me.
Intelligence is important to me... we need to be able to have a good conversation. Degrees do not mean much to me, have several advanced degrees and no respect for most of my classmates... street-smart is better than book-smart, and curiosity is better than blind acceptance.
I am a non-smoker, (illicit) drug/STD free and require the same.
I tend to like my partners petite (not so thin you break, but not so fat you can't see your feet - somewhere in between / hwp, flexible enough so that if we do use restraints, it won't be too hard on your body). Small breasts/cocks are more pleasing than large ones, but will play with all sizes. Prefer white, middle-eastern, and asian, but willing to consider others on a case-by-case basis. (As a note: Since "trans" covers a broad spectrum, I am more into people who are transgender/genderqueer rather than transvestite or transexual - i.e. I like "boyish" girls/tom-boys, goth-guys, and gay/bi pre-op/no-op FTM transexuals, but am not into transvestites or "true" transexuals.)
A note on subs... I have generally found that subs come across a broad spectrum... from what I would call a beta-sub to an omega-sub. I enjoy playing with omega's from time-to-time, but tire of them quickly - especially if the entire relationship is based on sex. Ideally, I look for a beta-sub... someone who is fairly dominant, but submits to me when we are playing... Typically, I find omega's often look at it as master(owner)/slave where betas look at it as dom(master)/sub... If you don't have a will to be subjugated, then you are owned, but that isn't the same as being dominated... If you are interested, and have questions, message me...
If you have questions... ask.
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