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About RussM
About me (edit)
Hello and welcome to my profile.?
I'm Russ .. It's actually my name. I thought "why construct a different persona here, why not just be me?". It's not as though I lack the imagination or I can't make the effort - rather that I'd prefer to be honest about who I am. That's basically my philosophy; I am here to meet people, make new friends and generally keep in touch, so I'd like to be open.?
I'm a single guy living in Wiltshire, I like that I'm good at my job and that I can scrub up well. This is in line with my generally contradictory personality as I'm also slightly lazy and a bit scruffy, like a nice house that's getting a bit shabby but has great potential.?
Having been around for a while now I've got a backstory and I've picked up a lot of interests. Although the being lazy and the demanding job does get in the way. My curiosity draws me to trying things and so I've gained all sorts of knowledge and experience of a lot of different things almost by accident.?
As an individual I'm eclectic and I dislike pigeon-holing, stereotyping and other ways of defining people in shorthand. It's just sloppy thinking in my eyes. So no, I am not a ... (insert title here). I just don't understand the whole "I'm a sub, it's who I am" thing. Maybe for some, but I find it ridiculous. In my case, my attraction to being submissive is because I like to please strong women due to socialisation/upbringing and circumstances and it's become this delicious sexual deviancy. It's only a mental aberration, but I like it.
First and foremost I am myself - sometimes happy, sometimes sad, always trying to just "be"... ?sometimes pulling it off, sometimes not. On occasion I'm mercurial, intelligent but also fallible and blithely stupid sometimes. ?And all that is more accurately me than the label - sub.
Having been separated for about a year now, I think it's high time I got out and met some more folks in the area. So if you're about in the South West and anything here interests, amuses or intrigues - please, come say hello.?
Russ?
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