Rulanew

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	About Rulanew I'm looking to become part of "we" with someone, a gentleman first with interests above the neck as well as below the waist. If you're not a gentleman i'll never be your tramp... it's more fun to know & dig the person you're exploring your darker impulses with. So yes, guess i;m saying that I'm looking for something fairly traditional, defined by our mutual middle-aged lifesyles. I hate to have to get into this, but in the interest of limiting our time spent to potentially positive outcomes: please contact me only if your open to actually meeting and are unattached. 'CHAT' or 'TALK' MEAN just that: a PHONE number is given (always by the gentleman first) and we actually TALK, preferably with the intention of setting up a meet. Finally, geopgraphy matters. Now back to our regularly scheduled programming: Journals (where you'll find the heat) are old but still accurate. Pic available upon request to the geographically realistic.

If your cock doesn't get hard when you're beating me, what's the point? If we can't occasionally laugh while we're playing how will I know you're human? If you're with me on this, make me your whore.

So we?re finally alone together for the first time, your place after dinner. We clearly dig eachother but you?re still the gentleman. Occasionally we come into contact: when you take my coat, when you guide me into the next room. You futz around with the stereo & I rise to join you. You turn to emphasize a point and we face eachother inches apart. You are taller and in my discomfort looking up at you I cast my eyes downward. To disguise my unease I lightly touch your waist and let my hand slide to your hip, resting on your belt. I bring my hand to the buckle and as I take hold of it say, "I?m not doing what you think, I have something else in mind.? ?Oh yeah?? With a raised eyebrow you indulge me and I continue to remove the belt. I slide it out through the loops, never touching the button or zipper of your jeans. ?There?s a better use for this than holding up your slacks.? The belt is folded 3 times . I kneel, placing the belt in my mouth and look up at you silently, my eyes smiling, hands behind my back?

and let's not forget, S&M is fun!

I wanted to revisit the straight edge razor fantasy. It's really a metaphor for all of the attributes that make a man dominant in a way I admire. (It does not reflect all of the characteristics that make him a complete person.)
To have this implement used to remove my pubic hair, I must remain still, and follow orders of positioning precisely. Simply put: obey. He is doing the real work here though, exhibiting control: power used with restraint as he simultaneously endangers & protects, and that rarest of qualities, patience. It is a ritualized tweaking of the Samson & Delilah story, where in this case the voluntary sacrifice of hair (and perhaps a little blood) represents my submission, my elevation to the status of subserviant protectorate while he demonstrates that he is Dominant, my worship.

wick wack wick wickety thwickety wickety thwack tic tac wick wack fwit whik wickety wackety wick wack...

in lieu of being the one, how about just being an expert with a single tail? Tell me what you most miss about not having a special someone (physically) and let's make a trade while the search goes on. You make me your target and I'll ....?

Sometimes, you're (I'm) just in the mood to be somebody's whore, to be treated like a giant clit, nothing but nerve endings ready to respond to pain pleasure raw smooth language strength contact or none so the desire gets cloaked in pretty words and niceties instead of just use me, and smile.
'How can I serve you?' is assumed (beyond the obvious physical, of course).

We are standing/sitting/lying in somewhere anywhere close to eachother, at home or out...
I lean in and say, 'Tell me...'
'What?"
"What am I?"
Barely above a whisper, "You're a whore."
I return a Mona Lisa smile.
" You're my whore, my little slut."    I smile and begin to leave this world.
You touch me hard and I can no longer even form words.
How can I serve you? Direct me, I am mute.

The goal (NOT the first meeting, probably not the second, either): Sadism is the derivation of pleasure as a result of inflicting pain, masochism its mirror image. I hope to find a Sadist, whose cock gets hard when? my skin turns pink then red, my tears an aphodisiac You want me sexually turned on from your treatment, not tortured, not destroyed, just insanely desirous of pleasing you, and grateful.

About Submission.?
service??? usefulness ? ? pleasing you?? discipline?
punishment? overcoming??
quiet ?? laughter ? ? escape ? ? tears??? sleep...?

It would be nifty to meet someone who enjoys (and is capable of) that most traditional of vanilla sexual experiences, vaginal intercourse (or anal intercourse for that matter) in addition to the non-traditional sides of things. I want to be a receptacle in ALL capacities, to envelop the other with welcoming softness, cushion and nurturing heat. This validates my femininity and feeds my desire to be useful. Other things feed tht as well, of course.

Not Politically correct:
I believe in the end that men are superior to women, but not all men are superior to all women. I will mold myself to the needs & tastes of a man I admire. But of course I don't admire bullies or abusers or rudeness.
I am turned off by submissive men, those who seek relief from their right place and responsibility. Of course, I have male friends that are this subs; I find it utterly baffling and sad. Yet i still try to help them become better subs if that is the path they're on. They just don't register as male to me.

It occurs to me that some of the following info may be of interest: I have been actively practicing S/M (to different degrees) for over 25 years: before there was an internet scene, before there were so many labels. Generally I dig the traditional impact sports, those that occur with hands, straps, floggers, whips, other leather implements and wood when I've truly misbehaved. Blindfolds are silly (and they mess up my make-up). If you tell me to close my eyes, I will. Gags also seem hateful. If you want no response or interaction (sometimes) just tell me. I can do stoic, but I hope we like eachother enough to enjoy eachother's company when we're playing, too. The best gags are made from my partner's anatomy.
If you want me fully shaved, I have a question for you: How good are you with a straight edge razor? With this implement, bondage is auto-imposed: I cannot move or laugh and I become fully exposed and examined under bright light.
Imagine my gratitude for that kind of mental/physical experience...
There's always anal play & creative torture as well. For example, sandpaper followed by hydrogen peroxide on sensitive areas, wearing breast bondage instead of a bra going out to dinner, the dichotomy of clothespins all over the labia while a vibrator is being used, you get the idea.
Of course, this path gets traveled after a more traditional courtship as I am rather old fashioned, in more ways than one.

Does anyone out there dig Vin Scelsa? Gene Shepherd? Lyn Samuels, real interesting personalities on the radio....
I love to listen to the ballgame on the radio and I can't get out of the car if there's something that's caught my ear old or new or eternal like Van Morrison or Jessye Norman. Relish a clear night in the country with no moon and blindingly bright stars. I guess I'm secretly a romantic, but not in the obvious ways. i want to pay attention to all of the small things that enhance someone's existence, and know they appreciate it. I'm not just looking to share that which is nostalgic, but also to discover new: new art, music, spots in the woods, new tomorrows. I've lived in NY all of my life and I still look up at the buildings when I'm in the city. Do you?
More vanilla side: Primarily I read, dig music, movies and anything Vaudevilllian: jugglers, magicians, stupid human tricks.... circus & animal acts. The ceaseless stream of 'undignified' cat videos enabled by the You Tube culture is a great social good.

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