I'm still separating from my wife, so I'm not really looking for anything until that's over. I was very much into the lifestyle years ago and know for certain that I'll return to it for good. I'm not a lifestyle-community person, so I've only used Fet for articles, blogs, and ideas. I'll try to find a sub/slave here when it's time.
For now I'm happy getting to know people who might like to get know me. I'm open to online play, dirty chat/text/phone, and possibly a play partner who understands and respects my current situaish.
I, like many people in our beautifully fucked up country, have been "going through it" for the last couple of years. I've questioned almost everything about myself, my place in the world, the world itself, and the cosmos (that's A LOT of questions!). I haven't liked all the answers. Hell, I don't like most of the answers, but I'm still working through it. I'm focusing on improving myself and those that I care most about.
To put it plainly -- I'm hilarious. I'm charming and handsome. I'm fat, sure, but I wear it well (that's what we all say but for me its almost true!). I'm very much into keeping up with the news and am political. I'm neither Democrat nor Republican, which confuses the fuck out of people. Listen, if you're one of those then know that you're wrong and I'm right and we can all just move on. I like gaming, watching shows, podcasts (SO MANY PODCASTS), and long chats with friends. I'm a good decent guy...in public.
As far as the person I'm looking for -- they'll need to be very sexually submissive. I'll need someone who identifies as a sub or a slave. I want your full sexual attention. Eventually I want to progress to a live-in situation which would include sexual encounters each day. I'm looking for an awesomely twisted traditional relationship. Picnics in the park are better with your butt plug inserted, aren't they? Movie night sch-ovie night when you can have a face-fuck after Stranger Things, amirite?
I'm into man-handling and groping. I'm very much into verbal degradation and humiliations. Name calling for sure. You'll be whore, cunt, fuck meat, fuck toy, holes, cum dump, etc. I don't use a lot of toys or restraints. I like to slap, spank, hit, choke, and force-fuck. I like obedience. I like my sub/slave to express her sexuality and her personality in a respectful way. I love fucking my subs ass.
I'm also working towards having a work from home business. As that vision grows I'll want a secretary that can run errands, do chores, and serve coffee and my cock throughout the day. I'm interested in my sub/slave being a cuckold in some respects. I want to be able for us to play with additional women together, or for me to use someone as you're forced to watch/wait outside. I most likely will not share you with other men. If I find someone that is a great fit and monogamous-only I'd be happy to forgo sharing altogether.
I'm a regular cigar smoker so no one allergic to smoke. I'm a meat eater so no vegetarians/vegans. I drink (tequila, mostly, and beer). You don't have to drink, but you've got to be ok being with someone who does. I also have a child, so I guess if you hate kids...? My child is very much in my life and we won't play in their direct presence (will we sneak off to the other side of the house so I can jerk off on your face? Mayhaps). I do not want to make any more children. If you already have one or two that's one thing, but no more makin' babies for this old man.
If you have questions please feel free to ask. I'm currently in Sheboygan County.
