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Hi. Ive lived in San Diego most of my life and I have been connected to the local bdsm community on and off since 1998. I am grateful for all of the experiences I have had as a result of meeting folks through various groups and events over the years. Ive experienced ups and downs, elation and devastation. BDSM has been, and continues to be, a core segment of who I am. I did not choose this, but was glad to identify with it when I learned other people felt like me, in some way. I am not sure if that makes sense but there you go.
San Diego is my birth home and I have remained here most of my life, but I spend a considerable amount of time looking for colder, rainier places to visit. In recent years I discovered I love to travel solo, and look forward to my next post-COVID adventure, destination yet to be determined. I would be glad to hear of any recommendations you have if so inclined. )
Currently I am open to meeting potential dominanttop play partners in the San Diego area. I fall left of the slash, not a slave, but perhaps wanna-be submissive, inherently service-oriented - not always great at it. My heart is in the right place, my brain gets in the way. I respond deeply to mentalemotional Ds, and the physical stuff means nothing for me without a complimentary cerebral connection.
I am not looking to be saved or changed, or molded into something that is not essentially me. My bdsm does not serve as therapy or a coping mechanism. It is more like a great tennis match when you finally found the best partner who is better than you, but still likes to play.
61548I am always seeking motorcycle rides with experienced riders who are OK with a passenger. Having a back bar or some way for me to not fly of the back of the bike is preferred.
61548If you are new to BDSM or new to this site or have questions I am happy to do my best to help. If I do not know the answer I will say so or try to find someone who might be a better resource for you.
Thanks for peeking. )
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