TLDR (yeah this is the short version)... FYI I currently live in Oxnard as I work in Santa Barbara, but my goal is to upgrade my job and live and root in the LA area. It'll happen soon because I don't like my situation as it stands. I'm a casual, not hardcore master looking for his future girlfriend/wife/slave/submissive/property/trophy. Casual in that I go with the flow, I'm not 100% in my role because I'm also a regular guy, I love to play but it's just for fun. For clarity: I'm not abusive, or a sadist - I get no enjoyment from giving pain, fear or sadness, the opposite in fact, I don't want anyone to ever be in pain because I'm a very positive outlook man. It's in my nature is to care and provide for others, which is the main reason I work in the career field I do. The only exception is A: if she wants such treatment, or B: it's needed for disciplinary reasons but even then it would not be for self fulfilment, more correction to desired behavior, like how you train a dog. Either way, there would be an abundance of care and affection given afterwards, to reaffirm that I may have had to discipline her, but she is still the most important thing in my universe and I love her. I'm actually a pretty normal, sane, down to earth, laid back guy. I've had many thoughts about what type of man I am and what I would be in a relationship. All I could really learn is that there's no possible way to reduce it to simple text on an "About Me" page. I would say I'm flexible in what kind of relationship I would accept. I have some fetishes that are considered taboo on one extreme, but I also would be happy and fulfilled if nothing else we were just an ordinary, loving, happy vanilla couple that enjoys each other's company as best friends, lovers, and eventually spouces and parents. I think my ideal range would be me being the loving, kind, gentle but strong and supportive provider who wants to do everything he can to prove he's not only the best choice in a partner but that I appreciate everything she does for me and there's nothing I can do that can return her love, which is why I would work every day to make her happy. Respect and honor are important to me, and I stress that it needs to be reciprocated in all relationships, professional, social or otherwise. To boil it down I think ideally being the "head of household", the "man of the house", who is the rock of the family. Fetish wise align most comfortably 1950's household, head of household, man of the house, owner, master, dominating through the strength of my energy and aura. I feel that my character is so strong that I don't need to demonstrate it, because you can just feel it in how I speak, act, and present myself. I love cuddling, kissing, PDA's, old fashioned love. I would be king but she would be my queen, I'm more a knight that feels honor and chivalry. I think my ideal girl would be flirty, sweet, energetic and secure knowing that she can be outgoing and attractive and knows she's so important to me that if I was more extreme, I'd keep her leashed up because I don't want to possibly lose her or see her stray to another man, but I believe in her and know that as long as I am and do everything written above, she has no reason to do that. She will never know fear with me, and I'll never cause her sadness or pain. She will glow with happiness from knowing how lucky she is to be who I chose to be mine and come home to. Other men will envy me for having her wrapped around my arm and not theirs (HUGE turn on, showing possession in public), and other women will be jealous of her that they're not with me. We'll have such a loving happy family, and she'll have it pretty easy because I'm there to support her with my strength and love. 94% Primal (Hunter)
92% Master/Mistress
91% Owner
86% Dominant
67% Daddy/Mommy
62% Voyeur
58% Exhibitionist
51% Rigger
50% Degrader
42% Vanilla
36% Non-monogamist
25% Experimentalist
24% Sadist
17% Ageplayer
0% Switch