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Female Submissive, 26, Calgary
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About rowaninms
Greetings... I am an experienced, monogamous and very discriminating girl in search of her One.
To those who feel that a submissive has no business voicing her desires, i can only say "how naive!" Even the most abject girl has preferences and a right to seek a Master whose needs and desires dovetail with hers.
So a few of mine: while casual play with a known and trusted temporary partner is not out of the question, what i seek will not be found in a poly household. i offer complete and total obedience to One strong enough to Own me; i am prepared to devote my life to His service. What need will He have of another?
i prefer a Master whose experience level is such that He is at least moderately skilled in many of the typical BDSM activities. We all begin somewhere but a whip in the hand of a novice is a truly frightening thing.
Be single, divorced or otherwise unattached. Married friends are fine but i'm not interested in hiding O/our relationship.
At it's best, the M/s dynamic is intense, the intimacy all-encompassing. That can thrive only in an atmosphere of total trust, mutual respect, and friendship with the one who serves Your deepest needs and desires, as well as hers.
My Ideal Person:
The first three rules:
1. Be honest
2. BE honest
3. BE HONEST!!!!
A Master should be strong, yet loving. Learning or experiencing something new excites me... and hopefully Him as well. i've met some who think they have learned all there is to this lifestyle or who feel that Domination entails nothing more than kinky sex; i don't believe that to be true, ever. One-note symphonies bore me; "play" is important but it's what's between Your ears that will engage my attention and command my obedience.
I will answer any thoughtful email. Please do not ask for cyber play, photos beyond those already on my profile or off-site contact information. If we hit it off here, taking our communication offline will come in time. |
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Happy New Year to all! Thought i'd ring out the old by sharing a few favorite quotes.
"Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff" --The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities --Dossie Eastman and Katherine Liszt
"To be completely woman you need a Master, and in Him a compass for your life. You need a Man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone Him, it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long."
-- Marlene Dietrich
"Never make Someone your priority while you remain their option!"
--author unknown |
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Ok - a new pet peeve (and yes, i know... peeves make lousy pets!)
Please, please, please THINK! Put a little thought into the emails you send. You only get one chance to make a first impression.
We've all had different life experiences. Some never made it past junior high while others have enough degrees to paper the walls of a spacious dungeon. You don't have to be a Rhodes scholar to gain someone's interest. Please don't claim to be highly educated when you can't write a coherent sentence.
Specious claims, whether related to your education, life style experiences, marital status, or the color of your eyes are an instant deal-breaker. (Feel free to google specious) *grin* |
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i have to point out a pet peeve.
Please.. do yourself and others a favor and be HONEST in your profile. If you're married or otherwise attached, SAY SO.
If you post a photo, please post a RECENT one. Placing a 10 year old photo that bears no physical resemblance to who you are TODAY is misleading at best and deceptive at worst.
Have enough self-confidence to trust that you will be accepted for who you are in the here and now, not who you were YEARS ago. |
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