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roughiowan

Male Dominant, 56, North Central IN, Indiana
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roughiowan - Male Dominant,  Iowa | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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That is the best I can do for a public photo at present.No, that is my right hand not my left.LOL If you ask for a photo and do not have one then you better get one first and send it when you ask. Make it good. My job is important and I have to be discreet.

Okay lets get real. I am looking for someone not a game not just chat or phone. If I could find someone nearby I would be thrilled but the few near me have seem to vanish or get scooped up. Of course I am rather picky about the type of woman I want. No, I am not looking for a Barbie. I want the right person on much more than just a physical level. Keep that in mind. If you are short that is a plus. Little or no experience is great! Why? Because I get to see your firsts and train you to fit me. Do I have a set method of how I train my sub? No, all subs are not the same and I do treat each sub as an individual. Why? because some will respond well to something and not others. If I pick you then I will tailor things to make the most of what you offer.




I try to be honest and open as I can be. I have a huge thing about privacy partly work related and some of it is just personal. I am playful I have a thing for intelligent women. Please, do us both a favor and be honest and do not play dumb. I do consider myself intelligent but I have my gaps. Like most men I do chase younger women but not always. LOL I think part of my desire for the younger ones is I am not looking for the jaded type and I have the desire to see the thrill of teaching that first timer to D/s. I am looking for a complex situation. I want more than just D/s I want someone that sees this as a part of life not the sole guiding issue in it. If you are close by I might consider short term...distance means long term and since there are not many options near to me that I am interested in I do look far afield. Do I want someone 24/7? It would be nice and it will be tougher than you know. I am looking for incredible chemistry with someone. That means much more than chat and emails or even phone calls. We can all talk about what we want and how it will be but when it is real everything changes to a degree. I can be very rough and mark my sub up and yes I might consider a slave.....more likely a sub at this point. I have had both in the past.
I do practice aftercare with subs and there are lines I do not cross. I do like to bite, spank, pull hair. tit abuse and use, public play. I do like to tie down my sub and tease her without mercy....bringing her so close only to stop...then come back and do it again and again....and I like to do the exact opposite as well. I do use toys of many sorts. I am not one that has a strict rule on how I will treat you. I do work with what I have and that is how I am. I hope my sub will learn more than what pleases me or what she likes as a part of submission. I want her to learn about many things. My own interests would consume all my money and time. If I could not sleep there would still not be enough time in the day for me to indulge in all my passions.
What I am is a quiet person very private and incredibly intense when the situation is right. I am a good listener. I do not keep many friends and those that I call friend are very important to me.



I have been asked have I had a slave. Yes, I have had experience with slaves. I can get very harsh when the mood strikes me. I had one relationship with a slave that lasted about a year. I made her move to take advantage of a job that she had. I wanted to keep her but I also wanted what is best for my girl. Now you have a small idea of what I can be like. Ask about those experiences I am not afraid to be open about them.
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