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Female Switch, 26, San Francisco, California
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About RosePetal64
Physical and Mental Dominance
A Master does not need chains cuffs or ropes to bind his slave; when He dominants her mind, her heart and her body, she will willingly bind her soul to his.
Being a slave/submissive, to this one, there are 2 side to the coin Y/you have Y/your physical and Y/your mental Dominance. As T/they say submission is 95% mental and 5% physical. (percentages can change depending on the person of course). If a slave/ submissive does not have the right mindset to be able to offer their submission then what do Y/you have? vanilla....
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Physical domination is something that most have had some experience with in one form or another. This is the act of controlling someone through physical means. This could be just pure strength ( example pinning of arms above Y/your head or behind Y/your back), or through other means, such as restraints.
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For this one the physical part is the easy part IMO, anyone can do it. Anyone can have sex, be tied up, have orgasms, bring beverages to their Master, serve their Master etc., but when Y/you bring the mental aspect into it, it makes it so much more.
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Mental Dominance is where the slave/submissive does what the Master/ Dominant asks by the sheer power of T/their (the Master/Dominants) mind and T/their (the slave/submissives) will to please.
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Once Y/you have someones mind captivated, their body will be stimulated, no doubt at least for this one. The brain is the biggest sex organ out there. The connection one can have on the brain is much stronger and can create, in this one's opinion, a deeper reaction, both mentally and physically.
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The mental part of the power exchange, now there is where the challenge lies. To see the excitement, the control, of mentally Dominating now this the thing that gets this one aroused. To see how far someone could get into this ones mind. To see how they could challenge this ones mental limits and experiences and see how far this one can be pushed, worked, tweaked with out damaging. To see how much they can control this one with mental bondage. Being able to accomplish this is such a beautiful and exciting experience for both the Master/Dominant and slave/submissive.
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You can control someone with out pain, not saying that pain is not a part of the dynamic but if it is done correctly Y/you would not need to use it to achieve mental Dominance. Being able to accomplish this is truly a talent of a Master, something that should be admired.
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To find that person who can control this one in this way is so intoxicating, T/they would surely deserve this ones offer of submission. |
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Complete submission
“Giving someone complete submission, the power to destroy you and trusting them to not.” author unknown
Complete submission is where you surrender your mind, body, heart and soul to Him. Where you trust in Him so completely to not destroy you but to help you grow, teach you, guide you, care for you mentally and physically with your needs and wants. In such you will serve Him, you will have Him in the forfront of your mind all the times, you will take care of His every need and want, you will submit to to His every will with your obediance, you will be honest, truthful, transparent of your thoughts and feelings.
“ Rule your mind or it will rule you” author unknown
Giving Him your complete submission is showing Him how you respect Him, honor Him as a Master, trust Him completely with who you are. At times it is not easy, you might be asked to do things that will push you and you have to sit back and ask “Is this going to harm me in any way?”, if the anwer is no then push through it and grow. Step out of your box and do as you are asked and be obedient to your Master. Show Him how you trust in Him by following His guidance and His rules. Show Him how you respect Him and follow His lessons. Everything a real Master does or has you do, there is always a reason for it, always a lesson to be learned to help you to be the best slave you can be.
If you do not allow yourself to be pushed to grow then where are you? You are stagnent, stuck in a place where you will learn nothing, will not grow, will not be who you really want to be. I honestly do not know of anyone who wants that, I sure know I do not.
“Submission is the process by which a slave comes to terms with her desire to be led along a path. Her Master's training will provide her with not only the way, but also with the direction and guidance needed to arrive at the desired destination.” Orpheus Black
Do you have it in you to completely submit, is it what you need, crave, long for, is it who you are? If so then step out of your box and start the growing process. Embrace your journey it is yours and yours alone.
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Mast Meetings
The local community is looking to doing MAST meetings in the Wilkes-Barre Scranton area. If you are local or like to travel.
My question is, would you attend a meeting if it is in a vanilla setting? I know a lot of people like to keep their anonymity. If it is in a vanilla setting would you attend? I would love to see local people in this area, Master and slaves or Dominants and subs who are into a M/s dynamic or want to learn more about it to attend. It would be great to get people to attend who have lived it for a while and can share their experiences and knowledge.
If you would or even would not attend please message me with the reasons so that I can see what we could adjust to get more attendees. I want this to be a group that has fun and shares their knowledge in a lot of different aspects.
Thanks for your input and your messages to those of you who will respond. |
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Dominance
Is carried by someone who stands tall who has a commanding presence about Them. He is someone who speaks intelligently and carries Himself with confidence. He has patients, wisdom, intelligence, and integrity. He is the Alpha in everything He does. This is not a routine or a ritual that He practices it is who He is. You can see his subtle body language and mannerisms that make you feel His Dominance. He is positioned higher than His slave when asserting His Dominance, His gaze is forceful and confident in His speech. He makes the slave feel that His eyes are burning right into her very core being without her even having to look into His eyes to see it.
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Owned
This was written a little while back when i was owned.
Have you ever woke up and just wanted to feel owned more so than any other normal day. Every day you feel and know you are owned but then there are just those special kind of days that you just crave it, want it, and lust it more than others. Your primal side just kicks in and you just craving his touch on your mind, on your skin, the feel of your Master as He takes what He owns. Wanting His hands on your throat, pulling your hair, bending you over, shoving His cock in you and using you however He pleases.
You Just craving the feeling that He owns you, every part of you from your head to your toes to your mind, body, soul and heart. You know you are His you know you belong to Him and no one else but you just need to feel it every inch of it. You want to feel engulfed by Him, nothing else matters just Him. His scent, His scent is like an aphrodisiac that you just can not deny, you give Him everything He demands and more. He growls, you purr, He gets primal, you welcome it giving Him all of you.
You are His property, He owns you, all of you
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The good wife's guide, possible protocols for a 1950's dynamic
Change wife in these rules to submissive or slave and they make for some good protocol for a 1950 dynamic.
1.) Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs.
2.) Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
3.) Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
4.) Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
5.) Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables.
6.) Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
7.) Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes.
8.) Children are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.
9.) Be happy to see him. Free him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him. Listen to him.
10.) You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first — remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
11.) Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
12.) Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where you husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
13.) Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
14.) Don’t complain if he’s late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.
15.) Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
16.) Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
17.) Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment of integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
18.) A good wife always knows her place.
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Rituals
" Rituals are the formulas by which harmony is restored"
by terry Tempest Willams
High protocol rituals are routines used in a consistent way to focus the mindset and actions that differentiate a high protocol dynamic from a Dominant/ submissive relationship.
Rituals with in a Master/ slave high protocol dynamic can be absolutely beautiful and can cater to the dynamic of the individuals involved making their dynamic unique.
There is nothing more pleasing of the senses and mind than a slave completing a ritual flawlessly for H/her Master to H/his exact specifications to show H/him how S/she respects, cherishes, obeys, and loves H/his Dominance over H/her.
These rituals can vary from slave positions, defined ways to speak (ex. third person), or rituals that are completed by the Master and slave daily. These rituals are the most passionate and defining aspects of a high protocol dynamic.
A few rituals that can be done in a dynamic:
Inspection This gets the submissive in the right mind frame for whatever will be occurring after the inspection. This ritual has the slave get into a specific position that the Master requires so that he can inspect every part of H/her body. This is to make sure that the slave is completing his commands if given any and for other various reasons. Example: going to a high protocol dinner
Bed shackles This is a ritual where the submissive will get in a specific position that the Master requires and S/she will present the bed shackles to the Master for H/her to be locked in for the night. in the morning the slave presents Master with them again, same position, to be unlocked so that the days activities and rituals may begin.
Greeting or presentation this ritual is a specific way that Your Master wants Y/you to greet H/him or other Masters/ Dominants. it can entail a numerous amount of protocols with in this ritual. example: what slave position to us, eye contact restriction etc.
Nothing is more beautiful and can be so fulling to a slave than greeting Y/your Master at the door or at his specific chair that he loves to relax in after H/he has had a long day. Always make sure no matter how rough Y/your day was that Y/you always are excited and happy to greet H/him. Just this small act can make H/his bad day turn into a very good evening. H/his happiness and pleasure is always on a slaves mind, to submit and serve H/him in anyway H/he needs. One added thing to this, some dynamics also during the greeting ritual will have the slave recite a mantra. This can be a very beautiful addition and helps to remind the slave of the Masters values.
These are just a few examples, there are many more rituals that can be incorporated into Y/you dynamic.
Rituals are a sacred part of Y/your dynamic that should be completed flawlessly. They are beautiful, keeps the slave in the correct mindset, shows Y/you obedience, love and devotion to Y/your Master. Never compromise on such a small act of love.
"Happiness can be found in the smallest of things. it is our passion to transform your everyday routines into more meaningful rituals."
Author unknown
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The Powerful Dance between a Master and Slave
The dance between Master and slave, the slave always follows, yet the two move together. This is more than the way a slave moves smoothly and gracefully, it is more than a slave obeying commands, protocols, rules or rituals of her Master. It is about the slave becoming an extension of her Master. She is transformed into a part of Him, extension of Himself as her Master's instrument and in feeling His energy flowing from in Him to her.
The slave follows the Master in the dance, their bodies swaying together to the magic between them, so intoxicating. With permission the slave looks directly into the Master's gaze and can feel the energy from one to the other, so transcending. The continued dance and tease of pain and pleasure, so surreal, the slave goes deeper into her submission, her body, mind and soul for her Master.
The courage to look deep into ourselves, into our submission our dominance there we can begin to respect, love, and cherish ourselves and each other. It takes courage to trust your Master so completely that you feel free.
The freedom, the feeling of peace that both share as they let their true selves show. The freedom the slave feels in being used completely and the freedom the Master feels in having the power to destroy but using it to create this beautiful extension of Himself, His slave.
" It is only by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you were looking for." |
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Being both confident and humble
"Humble enough to know that I am not better than anybody and wise enough to know that I am different from the rest" unknown
Is it possible for a slave to be both confident and humble?
So yesterday in a conversation with someone this one was told that this one was too confident and needed to be more humble. So my question is why can't a slave be both confident in herself and who she is and also humbled at the same time?
This slave knows her worth knows what this one can do to please a Master, to serve a Master to the best of this ones ability. This one is confident that she can be trained to what the Master desires and more but also can stay humble in my position as a slave. Wanting to kneel at his feet wanting to submit to Him and give to Him my submission, wanting to serve him to my fullest shows this. In my opinion, just because a slave is confident doesn't mean that you can't also be humble.
"Confidence doesn't come when you have all the answers. But it comes when you are ready to face all of the questions." unknown
If you're not confident in yourself that can also be a little bit dangerous. There are numerous examples that this one can put out there, for instance, Someone who has no confidence in themselves might submit to somebody because they don't feel they can get anyone better. This could lead to them potentially being in harms way. If you don't feel that your self-worth is where it should be, then the person you are seeking is not going to be what you find.
" Self reflection is a humbling process. It is essential to find out why you think say and do things.... then better yourself." unknown
This one is confident in who she is but by no means does this mean she knows everything. There is a lot this slave needs to learn and this slave is humbled by that knowledge every day. This one knows that she will learn what she needs to as it is a drive in her that will only help for her to serve to her best ability.
She is humbled to be a slave.
" Be confident in yourself and strive to be the best you can be and not only the best but be humble and stay true to yourself." Anil Sinha
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