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| first, I want to preface this and just say that I really dislike talking about myself a great deal. But, I suppose this is one of the platforms where one has to just suck it up and do some self-describing, so here goes:
Professionally, I have a job that I love and consider myself very successful for my age; I also have great ambitions for my future. I love managing my own projects at work, taking on more responsibilities, and pushing myself to always go above and beyond. I’ve always been this way, and for the most part, the hard work has paid off. For that, I feel very lucky.
Personality-wise, I consider myself outgoing and vivacious. My friends have described me as quirky and spunky, but also warm, empathetic and a good listener. Despite being extroverted, I consider myself reserved in some ways, and prefer to keep my thoughts and feelings to myself unless I really trust someone.
So, all of that is me with my friends, family, colleagues, and strangers I meet on the street. I really value my independent nature; I wouldn’t give it up for anything, and would not want to be in a relationship with someone who wouldn’t let me have that freedom.
But behind closed doors? I just want to let everything go and completely submit to someone who can take me on an amazingly erotic journey. I have always been turned on by bondage, gagging, cock worship, etc, but I’ve only recently discovered how intrigued I am by the concept of completely ceding control to someone. The thought of being at the mercy of and pleasing a Master who has earned my trust is an incredible turn on for me.
I have to admit that I have very little experience in BDSM, so my Master would have an almost blank canvas on which to draw. I am excited by the idea of finding someone that I can trust enough to control and train me as he pleases.
I am very interested in finding someone for a steady relationship. AKA, I’m not interested in chatting/skyping/phoning with anyone who is far away. Those modes of communication just don’t ‘do it’ for me. I’m also not on board with having a 24/7 D/s relationship. I am very much interested in the sexual side of this world, as opposed to the idea of ‘domestic submission.’ (read: dust mop your own damn floors).
There is certainly a lot more that I can say, but as I said earlier, I would prefer to keep some things to myself until I find someone that I am comfortable talking to.
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Well, what a nifty little feature! :)
So I have been on this site for a whole...what? Five days? it has already been quite the learning experience. I have so many questions, and so many observations.
I'll start with one: I received a message from a woman saying my gender was being questioned. Three main thoughts popped in my head when I read this: 1) why would someone even bother posing as the opposite gender? I mean, wouldn't everyone involved figure it out once you meet face to face? 2) who is questioning my gender? The 'woman' who wrote me that, with only a picture of someone's butt? 3) If I was a man trying to lure other men by pretending to be a woman, I would pick fake pictures of someone hotter and/or skinnier than me. but, that's just what I would do. |
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