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Hello. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
First and foremost, I am seeking a long term relationship. Which sounds simple but judging by my search over the last year and a half, it is anything but simple. During my search I have had the privilege of meeting some lovely people. Some to play with, some to chat with and others to be friends with. So, although I am ideally seeking a life partner, if you get in touch and we have a suitable connection (but not the "right" connection), I am also open to play partners and friends. And now I sound greedy, wanting my cake and eat it… But not so, just keeping my self open to all new experiences and opportunities.
My dream relationship would be one of exploration and experimentation. There are many aspects of BDSM that fascinate me, so there are many different facets to D/s that I would like to explore. I have no preconceptions of what is right and wrong in terms of dynamic, just that I will definitely be Dominant and you will definitely be submissive. No switching. I also appreciate, value and admire a submissive woman, as in my opinion, it takes great courage to truly submit to another persons desire. I would expect the dynamic in the relationship to be developed by us over time and your submission to eventually be complete and a collar to be presented to represent the total commitment to one another.
I don't really want the D/s relationship to be 24/7 but I am of the opinion that once the dynamic has been established and the commitment to each other made, then there is a natural and continued D/s element to the partnership between Dom and sub. So, I am seeking a companion as well as a sub. Someone who is intelligent and down to earth, who has a varied and interesting vanilla life and who is able to hold a conversation. Your vanilla life should be important to you, as mine is to me. When we are amongst friends and family our relationship would appear to be very standard and "normal". The dynamic would be defined between ourselves and played between us and us alone. So, for example, we could be drinking in the pub with friends and I casually place a hand on the back of your neck. To everyone around us it looks like a tender moment between lovers, but to the two of us it would speak volumes.
However, I wouldn't say that a D/s relationship is all that defines my existent. It is just a part of who I am but a part that can't be denied. I do need kink in my life and I definitely need a kinky partner.
You should also know that my experience is limited. Ideally you should be a newbie or someone who has also got a limited level of experience. Please don't waste your time if you are seeking a pro Dom who has a fully equipped dungeon. That is not me.
Message me if you want to know more or just want to make friends. I'm the friendly sort.. :)
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