rockypst

About me

Fun intelligent vivacious outgoing guy, with a keen sense of humour.

I'm a big built guy, about 6"1" tall with shoulder length hair.
A rocker at heart - music is one of my many passions and love concerts and rock clubs too.

Keen to make some new friends and get out and about a lot more.

Been a bit workaholic of late and need to get the life /work balance back in check (self employed working in an area of the music industry)

Been in a Long Distance relationship for a number of years which seems to involve a lot of travelling as we are in different counties.

As a result of that, we found that I could no longer regularly make it out on the London Fetish Club scene.

I really feel that I miss a lot of the friends that I had there, who I maybe wouldn't see outside of that environment as we all have busy lives.

So I must try and make amends for that and get back to socialising

But what about me - what do I like?

I'd best sum myself up as a predominantly submissive yet genuinely Switchy guy with a love for curvy girls, high heels and sensual play.
I’d describe myself as 70% sub and 30% Dom in my tastes and outlook.....

Been described as a kinky sensualist before who uses bondage/S&M as a delicious backdrop on which to play.

I've been kinky ever since I was sexual at all, and it pretty much colours my whole sexuality.

My tastes have never been really hardcore whether topping or subbing.

I was always more into erotic torment, although that easily leads down some intense pathways, and when sexually charged

I love leather PVC and latex as well as classic lingerie and the dressing up aspect was always an important part for me.

Sub?

On the subby side I liked the tie and tease side, but also loved the tools of the trade too.

Cuffs and collars, Gags and harnesses, floggers, crops, paddles and canes when used with erotic intent.

Being "forced" to do things that might fascinate you but seem wrong or perverse, just makes it all feel intensified.

Mild CBT, nipple and strap on play all appeal.

Dom?

Many of the same ideas that appeal to my subby side apply to my taste in taking the top role.

Building intensity with a mix of torment, teasing , denial and release always seemed more fun that going hell for leather with a flogger.

I developed a love of Japanese rope bondage work and whilst there were some who grew to outshine me in their knowledge and abilities, I was often asked to demo in clubs and loved doing it anyway. I always wanted to go to some of the rope bondage workshops to learn a bit more but I always seem to be away when they are on.

24/7?

It's crossed my mind, and always gets left in the realm of fantasy as I've never figured a way to fit it in around busy modern professional lifestyles.