I started out in this lifestyle a couple of years ago looking for a dominant woman to serve. I wasn't sure why but something attracted me to the thought of submitting to a confident, dominant woman. Looking back I think that I needed to give up control. I am a dominant person in day to day life. I am also aggressive and dominant in bed when I'm having vanilla sex. The thought of giving up control in bed and being used for someone else’s pleasure really turned me on. I met several people and learned a lot about the scene but I didn't find someone that I really 'clicked' with until last summer.

Last summer I met an amazing female domme. We had a great time together during the months that I served her. After a while, though, it started to not feel right. Giving up control completely made me feel off balance and I decided that I could no longer serve her, or anyone for that matter, completely.

I stopped serving her but we still get together regularly. Since then I have learned how to dominate someone else and still enjoy submitting on occasion.


The reason I made this page is because I now want to explore my dominant side further. I'm also not opposed to further exploring my submissive side but I'm not going to be going out of my way for this since I still play with the best female domme I have ever met.

I want to find a girl who is either submissive or a switch. A bi girl would be ideal so we could both play with a certain female domme, but it's not a requirement. I'm also open to all ages and body types. I care more about the person on the inside, although I definitely have my tastes when it comes to looks. I wouldn't say that I am a sadistic dominant at all. I don't enjoy being cruel and hurting others just for the hell of it. I would consider myself more of a sensual dominant. I like exploring different techniques to see what sort of a reaction I can get out of who I'm with. I like to push people’s limits and take them to new levels of ecstasy.

I also love crazy, wild, aggressive sex and I have always figured that female switches would be the best partners for this type of thing.

Just for the record I want to say that a lot of people on here make me laugh. Anyone who firmly believes that 'men are superior' or 'women are superior' need to get real. We're all the same and we're all here to have fun. No one is intrinsically better then anyone else and we should all use a little more respect when dealing with fellow human beings.