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About roar
To me, being sexually submissive doesn't mean that I want to give myself to every so-called dominant out there in the wide world, and it doesn't mean that I think I'm less worthy or valuable than others. It's hard not be overwhelmed with annoyance at the posing that goes on in the kink scene, with men strutting around showing off how domly they are by acting like jerks to every woman they see.
If you have to act like a dick to feel dominant, then you're a dick, not a dom.
I don't go in for the whole capitalization game, calling anyone "sir" before we've even met in person, or otherwise making believe that there's a power exchange before we've met, decided we're interested in playing, and negotiated the terms. I'm looking to meet people face-to-face, and, as such, am most interested in people who are local to me.
What does it mean to me to be sexually submissive? It means that I get off on doing what my partner wants, on giving in, on being his. It means that I like to be manhandled, objectified, used, not like a worthless object, but like a treasured one. I'm not into the school of thought that a submissive shouldn't have wants, needs and opinions, though. That's neither appealing nor particularly interesting. If you want a doormat, go to Target where they're $19.99.
I like to give myself to someone wickedly creative, who knows what he wants and how to get it and has a sharp mind that can capture my interest and attention. That doesn't happen with a cock shot.
Are we on the same page? If so, you practice safe sex, don't smoke, don't cheat, and like the soft look on a woman's face when you make her bend to your will.
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Female Submissive, 39, norwich
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Dominant Couple, 47, Dallas, Texas
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Male Switch, 21, roanoke, Virginia
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Male Dominant, 40, algonac, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 39, Dade City, Florida
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Male Dominant, 52
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Male Dominant, 44
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Female Submissive, 41, New Paris, Ohio
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Male Switch, 31, Toronto
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Male Switch, 22, kalamazoo, Michigan
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Male Dominant, 52, state college, Pennsylvania
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Male Submissive, 60
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