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Male Dominant, 57, Manhatten Beach, California
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Male Dominant, 57, manhatten beach, California
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Male Dominant, 55, Manhattan Beach, California
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About RLsOwner1
Owning and supporting an enslaved human and guiding her growth is a big job that takes a lot of time, money, effort, attention, judgment, a mix of firm structure and understanding all focused on the goal of her growth. Molding & training happens in reasonable, progressive baby steps.
Real live-in, TPE control necessarily does include structure, strict rules and clear well-defined expectations. Extreme clarity is an Owner’s gift to his possession. A politically correct "vanilla" boyfriend/husband is ashamed what he really need, so he hides them. so she has to guess (?) and guesses wrong. unsatisfied he looks elsewhere. An Owner is honestly unashamed and blunt about his needs and requirements. his goal is to help her develop and mold her into his beloved dream-girl. Growth and development progresses slowly in reasonable doable steps. For there to be a match - both have to fully; know, deeply desire, agrees to and commit to - the mutually determined growth goals.
The key lifestyle words each have as many definitions as there are people using that word.
so I prefer detailed conversation about principles to clarify meaning.
Personally I seriously develop my property into a skilled treasure of highly focused enjoyable femininity on all levels not just sex. Think: elegant, sensual, appreciative, positive, comforting, exciting, belly dancing harem slave, courtesan, Japanese geisha girl, companion pet. A beloved possession that is worth owning and taking care of.
I don't seek to change everyone in the world. I just seek to control my tiny part of it. Feel free to disagree and move on in peace. I wish you all the best whatever that is for you.
A Fundamental Truth…
All Growth is Change
All Change is Uncomfortable at first
Most people adamantly avoid Discomfort
Therefore, most people adamantly Avoid change
The result is that most people left to themselves, adamantly avoid growth!
Most serious growth has to be Forced onto nearly everyone.
In all of Nature ”Power” is force that overwhelms some very real resistance. It is “Power” that moves/changes things that otherwise would not move/change -or- stops things already moving/changing. There are countless examples. All of them are similar in this way, without exception.
All of Nature’s and human “powers” are neither good nor bad by themselves, they just exist. For example fire can either burn down the house –or- make it comfortably warm and cozy and cook a delicious meal. In both cases fire changes something that would NOT change by itself. Fire-itself simply exists as a neutral. What really matters is how fire is handled and used. Could you handle being challenged and pushed to reach mutual goals? Overpowering your natural stumbling blocks? I would enforce that, even in the face of resistance, requiring power and control.
To me, TPE/CNC real enslavement means forcing growth in an environment of slavery where your "actions and experiences constrained" in a way that you cannot dictate. Just like as a child, when you were forced to go to elementary school. Few men are brave enough to stick to that - through strong adult female resistance - I am.
I am at peace with my need for "power" and I use it to create growth.
The word "total" is an important part of real TPE , as well as in real total support, "keeping" and care-taking.
As a free girl it is your choice alone to consent to entering this, respect your choice "to be or not to be". But understand if you chose this path "control-from-the-bottom" would not be tolerated. However only a fool tries to lead in ignorance of important hidden facts. I am no fool. I do require honest status reports to consider before making MY stern, tough-loving but caring decisions.
A good girl has nothing to fear -- as long as she is a good girl. Play is enjoyable to both. I much prefer: quality, enjoyable, involved obedience, with a delightful ultra-feminine attitude, as apposed, to having to correct bad behavior/attitude with minimum-effective physical punishment. There is a difference between stern consistent growth orientated control and being viciously destructive.
I want an human slave girl with a mind and artful femininity. I provide guidelines, but do not micro-manage. BUT I do totally CONTROL all non-micro things.
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