Life’s an art…

Life’s too short to live a sterile mechanical, existence. Each day must be a new composition. I paint outside the lines, between the lines, over the lines, whatever. Someone with an important sounding name once said… Hell, who cares what anyone else ever said. Even living according to dead poets and philosophers is an abandonment of ones own character. It’s time for me to answer to the inner voice I’ve shushed for too long. I’m on a voyage I call: THE REST OF MY LIFE.

Getting to know yourself is like making a new friend and trying to learn all you can about that person. I’ve finally begun to learn who I am. I expect that to be an ongoing process until my last breath but I’ve made significant progress. We are all a chorus of personalities that must be directed by a central conductor. At different times, various of these personalities want to take the front. Allowing them to do so is the key to freedom rather than self-oppression.

But enough pontification and onto the point. I am a straight dominant male, 41 yo, 5'10'', 185#, with an average build, brn hair (receding), a short cropped beard, and hzl eyes. I am an intelligent, educated, professional, soon-to-be-divorced, father of 4 (d11,s8,s8,d3).

In the vanilla world, I enjoy music (classical to hard rock), films (drama, suspense, action, and some comedy), art museums, eating out, wine, beer. I have a witty, some might say dry, sense of humor, but a sense of humor nonetheless.

In the scene I enjoy bondage, discipline, flogging, candles, hot wax, body painting, breast play, genital stimulation, orgasm control and more. My list continues to grow but so far I haven’t been interested in extreme play such as breath play, body suspension by hooks, needle play, etc. I currently am not interested in scat or water sports. I have been becoming more interested in humiliation though not of the extreme kind.

I am currently seeking a slave for M/s relationship. I don’t believe in TPE since to truly practice it would be illegal, not to mention immoral. I am interested in approaching it though. I belive the D/s relationship goes beyond play.

You... are attractive (to me at least), a lifestyle submissive, enjoy many of the things I listed above, are available yet understand my commitments, open and honest, kind and gentle, good with kids, somewhat intelligent, care about personal health, adaptable, not too introverted or at least willing to open up and a non-atheist.

You… do not expect someone to fully know who they are and will always be, not a brat, do not take yourself to seriously, do not have to always be right, etc… You should get the idea.