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rkr1970

I'm a big, burly guy in a rather vanilla, but poly/open, relationship with a bi-girl with whom I have kids. While committed fully to each other, since the last kid, neither of us feel that "spark" for one another any more. Since I'm in to kink, toys, and sensation play. I?thought?I would look here for someone who I?might?"spark" with, even briefly.
I am looking for a submissive girl to date. Any sex would be "safe sex", though I'm really more interested in play, especially sensation play (tickling, impact toys, heat/cold, electro-stim). As a Dom, I can be nice, or I can be mean. It all depends on what you bring out in me with your behavior. Any questions, ask!
I have over 20 years of experience in various aspects of BDSM. I have no true personal fetishes, but rather I'm open to most things a girl may want to try. I have no trouble being physically sadistic, humiliating, dehumanizing,?or just dominant in a mild bondage setting, but you MUST know your tastes and limits before we start. If you contact me, understand that I am in a relationship that I do not plan on leaving, but am happy to add to.?While I would prefer to find someone who can accept being in a poly relationship long term, if you're looking for just occasional play, then let me know. I'm sure there's room in the dungeon for you!!! LOL
FYI, this may be a potential live-in set-up if you click with the kids and their mom.... Kids are easy, and mom will probably adopt anyone who likes to clean! LOL Only really big thing is being discrete... The kids don't need to know what kind of play daddy enjoys! That being said, 24/7 play, lifestyle nudity, being chained in the basement, and other extreme fetishes are out of the question. And while I am open to a Master/slave dynamic, I would expect at least as much domestic service as anything else. I really have no interest in a "no-limits, 3-hole pain slut". Sorry!~